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Date: October 8, 2022
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Im so sorry this has hapoened to you. You are NOT at fault! This guys is not your friend. Whether or not you tell the girl is up to you but I would definitely cut him out of your life. It might feel good to tell her what happened and to tell him to eat sh*t and block him imo.
You might have been, she might have been less so. When people want things you'd be surprised at how well a show they can put on.
You’re 19, so think about it this way: would you ever date a 14 year old? Can you look at a 14 year old and imagine being attracted to them? Because that’s basically what your girlfriend did. She preyed on you and it’s not okay. I’m 23 and I would never in a million years date an 18 year old even if they are “legal”. Run while you still can and enjoy your college years because you’ll never get them back once they’re gone.
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He said he doesn't want sex before marriage, you've had sex before marriage.
He says he feels guilty and wants to wait, you say you can't do it. You need it to feel close.
Do you not see how you are contradicting yourself?
You say you've tried therapy it doesn't work, you can't be fixed. First that's not true. But finding a therapist is like finding a good relationship. It's hard to do.
Second, if it was true it would mean you should never be in a relationship. As you will always be toxic to those you love.
So pick. Therapy and stop fucking your boyfriend. Or no therapy and no boyfriend.
He's 24 – surely he knows how sex works by now? Why are you infantilizing an adult man?
I think we are all dumber for reading this.
I was only being mean to drive the point home. You need to dwell in this sorrow for a while and understand it.
This is the challenging part:
How should i talk to her about it without reminding her about the hurtfulness of it? Honestly asking if there would be a good way to address the topic.
You're going to have a lot of hard conversations coming your way, but the more you have them, the easier they will become. Unfortunately, she will need to be reminded of that pain if she is to get past it.
You're going to operate as therapy sessions for each-other. And how do you deal with trauma? You talk it out and bring awareness to it, you don't ignore it. Obviously, you need to know when its appropriate to back off on the topic, you should know her well enough to know when it's time to ease up. She doesn't need the constant reminder, but you need to be an outlet for her when she dumps a load on you.
If she needs space, you give it to her.
But yeah, you two are in for a bumpy ride. It might do your reletionship some good if you talk to her about you wanting to fix your mistake and how you want to go about it. Presenting some genuine evidence that you're going to put into the work.
You let her know that it will take a long time to earn back her trust, but you want to win it back. What are some things that you can do to achieve that.
And it would also be good to know when to keep it light and when to make it heavy. Right now, she's probably in pain so you're probably best to keep it serious but light until she can handle a conversation with depth.
This woman wants to have a relationship with you. You are playing with fire. These kind of “misunderstandings” end marriages. If you are considering this you are being wildly unfair to your wife and marriage
You deserve better and so do your children. If for 20 years he loved someone else and settled for you then he clearly rather be in an unhappy marriage then alone. Print the Reddit posts keep a copy and then hand them to him and leave. Your trying to hold on to garbage.
Thank you for your response. I’ve not wanted to post on Reddit bc I thought people would tell me I’m crazy which I wasn’t ready for.
He’s embarrassed bc he told his friends (one of them is a nasty piece of work) I cheated on him twice and this is 100% what he thinks. It’s even worse because this is the one bad thing I’ve ever done in the relationship. I’ve forgiven him for hundreds of things (not physically cheating or seeing someone else) and I always kept the problems to myself to not make people around us doubt our relationship. He says none of what he’s done amounts to what I did. Which I don’t know if I think that’s true.
I believe that if we were to tell his parents the whole story that they would think he is in the wrong. He says it doesn’t matter because I still cheated because I wasn’t honest.
She's an adult and can make her own decisions. The parents are her concern, not mine. It is also not my right to tell them if she thinks it should be a secret.
Yeah I think I should unfortunately I'm afraid of the language barrier because I know her family doesn't speak English…
That's it right there in a nutshell.
If the situation were reversed, and it was HIM communicating with an ex, talking about plans to meet she would be ENRAGED!
Are you a psychologist?
Your ex can apologize on the phone, he can write a letter or an e-mail if he is so adamant about wanting to apologize. As the one who cheated, this will give him and you enough closure, no need for a coffee date.
Or you can stop lying to yourself and admit you still have feelings for him.
You can’t fix something when your partner thinks they did nothing wrong. I also do not think that they truly believe the bill they are trying to sell but his ego is so large he just doesn’t care about your feelings or respect you. I think you should divorce him be he sounds like a pig.
There is indeed. What happens in these screaming fights? What is being screamed? I feel like this is important information.
When you're even slightly contemplating divorce, you're not ready to be having kids together. Kids will add a LOT of stress to your relationship, and exacerbate existing problems, plus you'll discover new tensions you didn't know existed before. They will NOT make it easier.
Spend some time in couples counseling together, learning to communicate better and meet each others needs before you seriously consider having children.
I kinda got pissed because I feel like he can’t even be decisive and now I know it’s because he’s never been interested.
I'd reply to the post “oh, I see. I thought you had found one in me. My mistake.”
You ment your ex-boyfriend said that right?
Block her on everything and move on.
Okay a number of things can be happening. Medication can prevent people from having orgasms. If he's taking any meds look for side affects. Secondly, if he is stressed or anxious about being intimate then he might just have “stage fright”. I know that if I am not feeling it, regardless of the partner, I will just go limp. Not fun for my partner, but being understanding that he is probably not happy about this as well is a good start. Encourage him to communicate if its a known issue, if not encourage him to see his PCP. I hope this gets better.
Did your wife grow up rich by any chance? Her behavior really leads me to believe she's never had to want for anything in her life
Why do you have an issue with them hanging out? Are you trying to be the nice chill Fwb as a way to get into his life more permanently? If so you should probably tell him.
No coming back from that.
She’s welcome to feel guilt – she should – but you’re under absolutely no obligation to forgive her.
She essentially sacrificed your safety so she could get laid and then blamed you for it and now wants to apologize?
Tell her you’re glad she’s less of a PoS but you’re under no obligation to ever think of her again, let alone forgive her, and some woulda don’t heal from her just saying sorry after 6 fucking years.
I’d be inclined to ask what took so fucking long? And I suspect you’ll find out she was victimized herself.
Because people without basic fucking decency only give a shit when it affects them personally.
This is something people that can't maintain boundaries say. “Well you didn't SPECIFICALLY say I couldn't do *insert sexual act that any rational person would consider cheating*.”
Move on! You don’t need to be with a guy who will not only cheat on you but is dumb enough to put his own livelihood in jeopardy by sexting a student’s mom.
If she contacts a lawyer or not, the first step is attempting to resolve it internally. Nothing wrong with paying a lawyer for their time if she can afford it, but that is literally what she is going to have to do.
No, it isn't wrong.
I’m sorry :/ I think maybe if you do talk to the apartment and let know what he’s doing then they might be able to cut your lease short or offer you a new apt in their complex. Idk, but it really wouldn’t hurt asking them what your options considering the situation
Yeah, I wish more people would just report these stupid fake posts.
This right here, please
Understandable.
I agreed to be her brides maid 5 years ago. A year ago I had alot of trauma come my way that I had no time to think of the wedding – now that my child is no longer hospitalized I’m trying to catch up things I put on hold for awhile – wedding being one of them.
Biggest factor is how she treated me in Nicu. I hardly heard from her, never got a congrats, when she met my baby (only once) she told me she didn’t want to hold baby and wasn’t interested as she has never held one and doesn’t plan on it. Never got a gift for baby (not that I am expecting it but I am her friend since childhood and it was my first baby)
We spent 6 months in total in the hospital and I never got any type of support. The only text j would receive from her was “I don’t know what to say” and expected me to still plan the wedding while I wasn’t sure if I was setting up a nursery or planning a funeral.
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I've never felt unsafe around him.
Doesn't matter; you keep doing what he wants. He is making you averse to something so that you do what he wants instead of the something.
If you always do what he wants, you won't feel unsafe.
It's when you stop doing what he wants that you will pick up on the unsafe. It's why he's making you so confused that you can't even figure it how to not do what he wants.
You can write it down. As much detail as you want to, or don't want to include. And you can start and end the note with “I'm not ready to talk about this yet, please don't talk to me about it until I can speak about it. I just need you to know.”
He's 30 years old still living with his parents and pissing in your favorite cup – surely you can do better.
dude. statistics show that a huge amount of child SA comes from men that are invited into the home. boyfriends. him not doing laundry is the least of your worries, you let a stranger around your precious baby. this has got to be fake
Why is this all about my son? Am I not a victim in this situation either