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So, you do understand that people may get crushes on people they're not in a relationship with, right? Doesn't mean they'll act on it. Doesn't mean they'll cheat.
By what you wrote, your (probably soon to be ex-) wife did everything a good partner would do. She saw the signs, recognized them, came to you and did all the legal stuff to extract herself from the situation. Yet you punish her for doing the right thing?
You've effectively nuked your relationship by asking for the seperation because of your own insecurities. Get your ass in therapy. You've got anger issues you need to work out with a professional.
I'm not saying your feelings are invalid. But there's a big difference between acting like a regular grownup and what you're doing right now.
I'll accept that. I am not and have never been a part of that group of people but I just know that everyone I know is in thier 30s and doesn't walk around saying “I keep getting rejected by preppy girls or jocks or nerdy girls”. We all outgrew that and now judge people on their character and actions or of course looks etc. Me personally I've actually learned to love all different types of folks that would seem to fit these “labels”. As a high schooler I was probably mostly only into cheerleader preppy types now I appreciate a way wider net. But again that is just my perspective and I guess I kind of got triggered by the subject of this post. It's hard enough to find a good partner much less writing off people because they don't have tattoos or whatever passes for “alt” these days.
Yeah and I'd laugh and say yeah when I was young and dumb before I knew any better. I guess I don't carry love crushes around with me for years and harp on about them. I forget about them and think they were silly.
saying it's “not a useful addition” is a pretty disingenuous way to respond to someone straight-up saying you were incorrect
Honestly i do think communication can help you here. You guys have some incompatibility in your sexual preferences and you need to know if you can find some common ground/ what works for you.
It sounds like her preference is no sexual activity at all, and your preference is 'more than none.'
As an asexual person, there actually are sexual activities that i will tolerate, even if it's not my favorite activity. Have you had any conversation with your gf about if she would be willing to do some activities/what her boundary is? Without getting too explicit, any penetration is an absolute HARD NO for me, and my partner touching ME sexually is absolutely not cool either. However, i am okay with pleasuring my partner with my hands/toys, etc depending on the day/mood.
If your gf has some things she will consent to, even if it's just being present while you take care of yourself, that would be more of a compromise.
If her boundary is just absolutely nothing past gently smooching, this is really a problem that you would need to look inward and decide if you can live your future with no sex with your partner. It's not necessary in a relationship, but as everyone else is saying, if it's something you think you require to be happy, then it is something that you guys are incompatible about. It's nothing to be ashamed of if sex is important to you, everyone has their own boundaries and some people's love language is physical touches or pleasuring their partner, it is absolutely NOT wrong of you to desire sex from your partner.
All i can say is you guys need to have a really detailed conversation and good luck!
you need to get therapy for that, not project it onto other victims because they might be lying, now is not the time or place to question the post. it does not affect you if she is lying or not but if she isn’t seeing other people act like she is lying when she clearly needs support is not going to help in the slightest. debate with a friend instead if you need to so badly
Did you get a timeline?
I would be uncomfy with going to a strip club directly before marriage because it inherently paints marriage as the end of all sexual fun, and you'd better do it before you tie the knot because it's ending soon…? It's like boys, this is your last chance to look at a naked lady, let's go wild, whooo. I've been to tons of strip clubs with my partner and also with friends. It's fun (am bi). A bachelor party centered around strip clubs rather than something else woud make me feel that my dude was buying into a lot of horseshit about the meaning of marriage?