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Yikes. Commingling of debt before marriage is not good (as I'm sure you are realizing). You may end up having to either buy him out of your share or have him buy you out of your share. Whatever you do, DO NOT TRUST THAT HE WILL MAKE PAYMENTS, even if he says he will. One missed or late payment, and your credit is doomed.
I'm with you, I can't even kiss my husband when he stinks when he gets home. He gets a quick peck and that's that. I have a super sensitive sense of smell, so my family is used to me noticing though. Hubs has morning soaps and night time soaps, or I get a migraine.
I try to be nice about it, but after reminding my teenager to shower and change his pjs (it's been in the high 30s C/low 100s F the past few days), today I walked into the house after the morning out and said “THE WHOLE HOUSE SMELLS LIKE PITS” he went and took a shower immediately.
So he will fail his classes, he avoids your texts…I don’t know what is in this for you. He’s treating you badly if he’s not interested in spending time with you.
I explained that too, that dogs feel some emotions but gratitude is definitely not one they understand. And that we should focus on the emotions she does feel, like doing our best to curb sadness and boredom and to encourage happiness and excitement
You should be hurt and upset. He expressed feelings for another girl. I don't know how your physical attractiveness is relevant (it isn't – plenty of cheaters downgrade) but I personally wouldn't put up with this betrayal.
You need to decide whether this is a deal breaker or not.
Unless you make a compromise to meet halfway, then it will just lead to resentment from whichever party had to leave their hometown to make the relationship work.
I know I won't be ok with him continuing this, hanging out with Jack and pretending nothing happened. As traditional as it sounds I have always wanted a man who'd atleast stand up for me and protect me. It isn't too much to ask is it???
The worse thing there is something he can do about this, but chooses not to. And instead says how I should be ok with it as long as I don't see Jack myself.
Prior to the dog she did love the cats. When the pissing started she was annoyed and so was I but I never considered getting rid of them.
The male cats are both neutered and the vet said that it could be due to anxiety which is where the prozac came into play, fluxotin to be specific. I feel bad about not being forthcoming about weening him off the meds but he has not been doing the urine thing since we got the dog plus I am their sole caretakers at the moment. She cannot be bothered with doing anything that relates to them.
I am trying to figure out how to work through this. We leave for our honeymoon tomorrow so I hope that we can both remain calm but I am anxious just thinking about it.
Spend some time reacquainting yourself with your father and celebrate his freedom with him and those who support him. Do this first. Then, work with your wife to come up with a plan to include her and the children in a way you both feel good about. Your wife would need to meet him first before the kids. I am assuming the children are younger than teenagers. Approach this situation as a team (you and your wife). Consider what is best for your marriage and strive for win win.
Some emotions are still strong for someone, not because they want the ex but just because the potential of what they dreamed about in the past, was gone
'It's hard to be with the wrong one when the right one comes along.'
It's hardly fair on your current partner to string her along for your convenience. It may be that she wants no more than what you have, but at least talk about it in some depth with her so she's in a position to make an informed decision.
Man is unstable. Lie detector test? Over a dream? Not to mention lie detector tests are total BS and are only supported by emotionally manipulative troglodytes.
This is mad. Nothing about this is okay. That man needs serious psychiatric assistance. That is absolutely emotionally abusive.
Everyone's journey is different and valid. Just because your problems don't seem as difficult doesnt mean you aren't allowed to talk about them. He's doing you a favor right now, showing you this side of himself. He breaks up with you as punishment, then expects you to grovel to “win him back.” This is not a person you want to be in a relationship with. This is not a healthy way to resolve conflict.
If you're looking for a response I'd go with, “the last two days have given me time and space to think. We should stay broken up. I wish you the best.” Then block him. Move on with your life. Find someone who will listen and support you through your tough moments without comparing them to their own. You deserve it.
If any friend becomes resentful or triggered by your own happiness or success, they are not your friend. She is a narcissist and Is using you to dump her emotional baggage.
I'm glad you're feeling more calm now. I find affirmations can help if I have things like this I need to look out for.
When I have a repetitive negative thought that happens when I'm anxious, I write down what I think about it later when I'm more calm, so that when I'm really emotional, I have something ready to help calm myself down. Then when I'm feeling that way I try to remember to read the thing, which helps me.
Not THAT different, just a little more veiled. Half of the fitness girls have OF also, and lots of males too.
Agree that accessibility does not mean that it should be done, but that's the world we live in, we care a lot about these things in the first world, thinking they are huge problems. A huge problem is not having a roof or not having to eat. Having your SO looking at some ass or whatever on his phone to wank off, and making you an insecure mess, its for sure a first world problem. And its the people with too much free time or too little perspective the most affected by these things… as we have grown a too much thin skin in these modern days.
I had to block my husband's ex on everything. She is an alcoholic and constantly harasses me and him for more money even though she gets her child support, GeD help (which she never finished), another baby daddy who also pays child support and a husband. Our stepson is 16 now and can see us on his own without his mom so blocking her was the best solution for us. If she wants to go to court again she can get a lawyer and serve us.
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So about 6 months ago I got a promotion at my job, and with the promotion I also got an assistant who I’ll call Marcie. When I mentioned to my wife, who I’ll call Emma, that I was getting an assistant she did make a couple of jokes about “sleeping with my secretary” but I didn’t think anything about it at the time, looking back I’m thinking that she was actually being serious and was already suspicious from the start just of the whole concept.
But what happened to make me make this post is that over the last few weeks I noticed Emma acting like she had a problem with Marcie: if I talked about my day at work and I mentioned Marcie’s name, Emma rolled her eyes or made a snarky comment. I stopped mentioning Marcie, but then Emma would ask about her specifically and still have some rude little comment to make. So finally I asked Emma if something had happened, l was thinking that maybe she had called for me and Marcie had been short with her on the phone or something.
Instead Emma brought up a random Friday back in January when she stopped by wanting to surprise me by taking me out to lunch, and “caught me” having lunch with Marcie. So to explain, Marcie and I have a weekly meeting on Fridays where we go over our projects and whatnot for the week, and during these meetings we order lunch and eat in my office. To me this seems completely normal and professional, but Emma thought it signified that we’re having an affair.
I tried to explain to Emma that I don’t follow this logic, but she just kept saying that it obviously looked suspicious and then she brought up another time when I was late coming home and didn’t have a good excuse as to why not. I don’t even remember the night that she’s talking about, I can only assume I was late because of traffic or something like that because I certainly wasn’t cheating on her or doing anything else nefarious.
But what can I do to reassure Emma that her concerns are unfounded? We’ve been together for 4 years, married for 1.5 years, and I’ve never cheated on her or done anything to make her think I was untrustworthy. I have no idea how to reason with her here because from what I can see she’s basing all of this on the fact that she just doesn’t like me having a female assistant. And I don’t want to fire Marcie or anything like that just to make Emma feel better, because she’s good at her job and hasn’t done anything wrong either.
Yikes. Commingling of debt before marriage is not good (as I'm sure you are realizing). You may end up having to either buy him out of your share or have him buy you out of your share. Whatever you do, DO NOT TRUST THAT HE WILL MAKE PAYMENTS, even if he says he will. One missed or late payment, and your credit is doomed.
There are tests for HPV for men and women though
No no no don’t send SSN, ID, birth certificate, bank cards, or any sensitive info. Reeks of scam
You're 24 and getting an education. Another woman will come by.
I'm with you, I can't even kiss my husband when he stinks when he gets home. He gets a quick peck and that's that. I have a super sensitive sense of smell, so my family is used to me noticing though. Hubs has morning soaps and night time soaps, or I get a migraine.
I try to be nice about it, but after reminding my teenager to shower and change his pjs (it's been in the high 30s C/low 100s F the past few days), today I walked into the house after the morning out and said “THE WHOLE HOUSE SMELLS LIKE PITS” he went and took a shower immediately.
Basic hygiene is a very low bar.
Your boyfriend can't and shouldn't control what you're doing. He's being manipulative.
So he will fail his classes, he avoids your texts…I don’t know what is in this for you. He’s treating you badly if he’s not interested in spending time with you.
I explained that too, that dogs feel some emotions but gratitude is definitely not one they understand. And that we should focus on the emotions she does feel, like doing our best to curb sadness and boredom and to encourage happiness and excitement
I think so too and am leaving
And you don’t have to be in a relationship someone who acts this way either. You don’t have to light yourself on fire to keep them warm
Sound like she likes the idea of being “smarter” and “more cultured” than him.
You should be hurt and upset. He expressed feelings for another girl. I don't know how your physical attractiveness is relevant (it isn't – plenty of cheaters downgrade) but I personally wouldn't put up with this betrayal.
You need to decide whether this is a deal breaker or not.
Unless you make a compromise to meet halfway, then it will just lead to resentment from whichever party had to leave their hometown to make the relationship work.
I know I won't be ok with him continuing this, hanging out with Jack and pretending nothing happened. As traditional as it sounds I have always wanted a man who'd atleast stand up for me and protect me. It isn't too much to ask is it???
The worse thing there is something he can do about this, but chooses not to. And instead says how I should be ok with it as long as I don't see Jack myself.
We're you two not living together?
Prior to the dog she did love the cats. When the pissing started she was annoyed and so was I but I never considered getting rid of them.
The male cats are both neutered and the vet said that it could be due to anxiety which is where the prozac came into play, fluxotin to be specific. I feel bad about not being forthcoming about weening him off the meds but he has not been doing the urine thing since we got the dog plus I am their sole caretakers at the moment. She cannot be bothered with doing anything that relates to them.
I am trying to figure out how to work through this. We leave for our honeymoon tomorrow so I hope that we can both remain calm but I am anxious just thinking about it.
Spend some time reacquainting yourself with your father and celebrate his freedom with him and those who support him. Do this first. Then, work with your wife to come up with a plan to include her and the children in a way you both feel good about. Your wife would need to meet him first before the kids. I am assuming the children are younger than teenagers. Approach this situation as a team (you and your wife). Consider what is best for your marriage and strive for win win.
My point is, don't believe her. Seriously.
My point is, don't believe her. Seriously.
Dude. Leave. Why are you subjecting yourself to this abuse? More like he's making your depression worse.
Get out and do things. It's like you go to sleep one day, wake up and you're 50. Live every day,
Depends on why they broke up.
Some emotions are still strong for someone, not because they want the ex but just because the potential of what they dreamed about in the past, was gone
'It's hard to be with the wrong one when the right one comes along.'
It's hardly fair on your current partner to string her along for your convenience. It may be that she wants no more than what you have, but at least talk about it in some depth with her so she's in a position to make an informed decision.
Dip.
Man is unstable. Lie detector test? Over a dream? Not to mention lie detector tests are total BS and are only supported by emotionally manipulative troglodytes.
This is mad. Nothing about this is okay. That man needs serious psychiatric assistance. That is absolutely emotionally abusive.
Everyone's journey is different and valid. Just because your problems don't seem as difficult doesnt mean you aren't allowed to talk about them. He's doing you a favor right now, showing you this side of himself. He breaks up with you as punishment, then expects you to grovel to “win him back.” This is not a person you want to be in a relationship with. This is not a healthy way to resolve conflict.
If you're looking for a response I'd go with, “the last two days have given me time and space to think. We should stay broken up. I wish you the best.” Then block him. Move on with your life. Find someone who will listen and support you through your tough moments without comparing them to their own. You deserve it.
Don’t bring it up. Unless she brings up the vasectomy a sixth time.
Uhm. That's not how friends work.
If any friend becomes resentful or triggered by your own happiness or success, they are not your friend. She is a narcissist and Is using you to dump her emotional baggage.
Watching porn isn’t cheating unless the two of you have discussed it and agreed to view it as cheating and that it’s forbidden in your relationship.
I'm glad you're feeling more calm now. I find affirmations can help if I have things like this I need to look out for.
When I have a repetitive negative thought that happens when I'm anxious, I write down what I think about it later when I'm more calm, so that when I'm really emotional, I have something ready to help calm myself down. Then when I'm feeling that way I try to remember to read the thing, which helps me.
Best of luck with everything and take care.
Who cares what “counts”
The behavior is the same
I'd say he was obviously unfaithful
He can beat the shit out of him and then move on 🙂
Not THAT different, just a little more veiled. Half of the fitness girls have OF also, and lots of males too.
Agree that accessibility does not mean that it should be done, but that's the world we live in, we care a lot about these things in the first world, thinking they are huge problems. A huge problem is not having a roof or not having to eat. Having your SO looking at some ass or whatever on his phone to wank off, and making you an insecure mess, its for sure a first world problem. And its the people with too much free time or too little perspective the most affected by these things… as we have grown a too much thin skin in these modern days.
Break up over text and send this post to him. He's absolutely a garbage human.
U know what to do just find the courage to do it
It’s a cycle for a reason, it doesn’t stop.
I had to block my husband's ex on everything. She is an alcoholic and constantly harasses me and him for more money even though she gets her child support, GeD help (which she never finished), another baby daddy who also pays child support and a husband. Our stepson is 16 now and can see us on his own without his mom so blocking her was the best solution for us. If she wants to go to court again she can get a lawyer and serve us.
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So about 6 months ago I got a promotion at my job, and with the promotion I also got an assistant who I’ll call Marcie. When I mentioned to my wife, who I’ll call Emma, that I was getting an assistant she did make a couple of jokes about “sleeping with my secretary” but I didn’t think anything about it at the time, looking back I’m thinking that she was actually being serious and was already suspicious from the start just of the whole concept.
But what happened to make me make this post is that over the last few weeks I noticed Emma acting like she had a problem with Marcie: if I talked about my day at work and I mentioned Marcie’s name, Emma rolled her eyes or made a snarky comment. I stopped mentioning Marcie, but then Emma would ask about her specifically and still have some rude little comment to make. So finally I asked Emma if something had happened, l was thinking that maybe she had called for me and Marcie had been short with her on the phone or something.
Instead Emma brought up a random Friday back in January when she stopped by wanting to surprise me by taking me out to lunch, and “caught me” having lunch with Marcie. So to explain, Marcie and I have a weekly meeting on Fridays where we go over our projects and whatnot for the week, and during these meetings we order lunch and eat in my office. To me this seems completely normal and professional, but Emma thought it signified that we’re having an affair.
I tried to explain to Emma that I don’t follow this logic, but she just kept saying that it obviously looked suspicious and then she brought up another time when I was late coming home and didn’t have a good excuse as to why not. I don’t even remember the night that she’s talking about, I can only assume I was late because of traffic or something like that because I certainly wasn’t cheating on her or doing anything else nefarious.
But what can I do to reassure Emma that her concerns are unfounded? We’ve been together for 4 years, married for 1.5 years, and I’ve never cheated on her or done anything to make her think I was untrustworthy. I have no idea how to reason with her here because from what I can see she’s basing all of this on the fact that she just doesn’t like me having a female assistant. And I don’t want to fire Marcie or anything like that just to make Emma feel better, because she’s good at her job and hasn’t done anything wrong either.
Don't forget how he's ignoring her bodily autonomy.