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If you’re not okay with it, that’s fine. Break up and find another virgin, otherwise it’ll probably eat you up for years.
That is pretty common. People are social, your SO is part of the family.
The intentions question is a weird one….but asking him where he is from is pretty standard socialization.
to be honest, we have had a pretty bad string of fighting and bickering for a couple months.. usually only over what seems to be minor stuff though?
If you feel like you can’t fully move on from this, then I think you should cut them both off. I’d feel betrayed too that this information was not disclosed to you by either of them prior the wedding or even when your relationship got serious. You’re still young. Make a decision that grants you your peace of mind.
He’s the only one who can validate your concerns and tell you what’s going on. If there is something and he’s not taking the opportunity to validate you and communicate then it’s because he doesn’t know how or because he doesn’t care enough.
If it’s really nothing, then I would still ask yourself if you wouldn’t prefer finding someone with similar qualities who could give you the energy you want in a love story. Someone who didn’t make you wonder.
Girl, the honeymoon phase just ended and his no longer keeping up appearances, so to speak. He’s a walking red flag, baby, you might as well let him go.
If i wasn’t ready to settle down i’d say
he’s older and far away. Seems like a no brainer. Have your cake and eat it too. Life is short, who’s to know?
But i wouldn’t say that
You met a month ago, only went on one date? Seems pretty a pretty drawn out scenario.
She probably got bored.
I did say I understand the betrayal and also op needing some therapy sessions. I also have a pretty good relationship w my parents but no, no bias. I guess for me, and that’s just my opinion on parents, it’s none of my business. If I found out my father cheated on my mother for years I’d be mad, yes. Probably even stop talking to him for a while but it’s not like my whole life was a lie. The only difference is that my mom is alive so I’d debate telling her or not. If she was dead like OPs dad then there is nothing I could do except cut contact for a bit and think about it. But if I had children that loved their grandparents I’d get over it. I would be pretty cold towards my father probably for a couple of years cause I’m petty but the difference is I’m not demanding things. I’m not gonna believe that everything he says is a lie now. I was creeped me out bc the image of a grown man telling his own grown mother that a friendship is now over, to me, is weird and controlling. But I can understand if ppl see differently.
Looks like this is a stress related issue, therapy its the solution but also i think you guys might need to decompress somehow. Let things settle down and communicate with eachother.
I have, yes. He just insisted that he wanted to see my face and that he thinks it's very sexy.
We obviously didn't get to an agreement.
You going to throw away your actual life by staying with him? I know you might not believe this, but he will kill you. It might even be an accident. Don’t listen to the bs your brain is creating about wasting years of your life. You lived those years and they weren’t wasted. You just weren’t as happy as you could have been. You need to stop waiting around for things to get worse and leave. You’re supposed to feel like you’re going to die if you stay in this relationship. Leave. Now. Talk to a domestic violence shelter for tips. Talk to a lawyer.
You can’t help him. The universe is handing you a big sign on a golden platter that you need to start your life now. You are young. Do not worry about starting over. Things will fall into place when you cut off that weight that is this relationship.
Compromise. Romantic dinner the night before or after your anniversary. Exact dates aren’t important. Meaning and intent are.
GIRL DROP HIM. You don’t need to be so unhappy when you should be growing and enjoying life. Just tell him it’s not working and find happiness again. And don’t say you’re happy, if you were you wouldn’t be having those issues. Love is overrated if you’re the only one putting effort in. Put that effort into yourself instead.
In old days people married as virgins at 16-18 and had kids immediately. Good sense in times before contraception and social security imo. However today a 23 year old virgin is going against nature as well as being completely unessessary, no wonder you are both miserable.
In all probability because of an imaginary man in the sky who's book was voted into existance by a sexist pagan emporer and his cronies. The 10 commandments if you believe that nonsence only say don't commit adultery and don't mention virginity at all.
I sugest to both save a little money and backpack the world and see how insignificant and ridiculous and your narrow beliefs and fears are. Or just get vegas married, fuck and then get a quickie divorce , all three are 100% allowed in the bible or any of the other male authored made up stories that people believe.
No problem woth him having a female friend nor showing some level of affection, but that's a step too far.
Shirtless is fine, you need to chuck a pair of junky shorts or sweat pants over them undies. Feel free to make it a house-wide rule that undies are not outerwear for all parties.
Kid was bound to say it's fine even if it wasn't, shouldn't have asked her.
Ooof. The mean girl who won’t go away. She’s so committed to not going away, she’s dating his best friend.
Ask him why he kept her a secret & why his best friend is now with his ex.
Also, you’re with him now. So what is she dated him? She should be pretty embarrassed about going from one guy to the next. Bleck.
Of course you shouldn’t? Is this a joke? Why would you ever want to continue this relationship?
No leave him. Go actually be happy.
he’s very possessive and immature. he has a lot of growing to do. getting upset that you went out with your GIRL friend??? i was in a 5 year relationship with someone like this. RUN. like now.
Salvageable would be your understanding her needs are very common, and you aren't devouring any time to her so you either need to quit some of your activities and spend quality time with her, or use up your remaining energy and overload yourself by spending time with her.
You're being selfish.
Relationships need many things not only to grow and thrive, but even just to barely survive. It sounds like you're not putting in anything more than a roommate would
Do you not see how pushing him away for 10-15 years would… Push him away? What did you expect?
OP doesn’t respect anyone. She’s a narcissist.
But by insisting so much on the idea that you wouldn't cheat because of their ages, you are indirectly saying you would consider cheating with someone who is older.
Stop insisting it's because of their ages. You wouldn't cheat because you wouldn't cheat. Period. Stop adding qualifiers to it. It doesn't matter how old they are, how much money they have, blah blah blah. You wouldn't cheat because you aren't a cheater.
i've been in a similar boat. it's hard, but if you don't want to be in the relationship then you should end it. hopefully your apartment has a couch in it
Time to find another job and open your own account. Your partner needs to put that money back, or you need to leave. For him to do this without discussing it with you is totally unacceptable. His behavior is abusive.
i've been in a similar boat. it's hard, but if you don't want to be in the relationship then you should end it. hopefully your apartment has a couch in it
Not pulling punches today, I see.
why would a girl glare at me if she wasn't interested in me? Last time I checked I wasn't wearing a hat saying “stare at me as if I was a 5-star course dinner”
also, I get it you have your own opinion on this matter but don't you find it at least a bit strange that multiple men have already mistaken her 'polite' kindness as a form of flirting?
if she didn't glare, wave, and smile at me so much I wouldn't have thought about it at all. But because she does it every other day I go in to work it was confusing and made me think otherwise. I am very shy so I don't ask for girls' numbers very often. so for me to have the courage to do so it couldn't have been completely my fault for misinterpreting things.
Personally I think HE should end it for that exact reason. He should not be stringing people along like this knowing he's never going to give her what she wants. But maybe he actually thought the idea of marriage would grow on him and it never did. Sad for both of them.
If he is happy with his mustache I think you should be more supportive instead of shitting on him and his self esteem.
Denoting facial hair as “pedo” is your own misandry.
Doesn’t sound like she’s interested. No point in asking again. If she wants you to have it, she’ll bring it up herself
If there's something he wants you to spend money on for the family, you can do that if you want. He doesn't need to take your money. Why does it need to be in his account?
Yea it’s sad but you’re right there’s no going back from this. I would be looking over my shoulder forever
Is it stupid? Is it really stupidity? Like you’re too stupid to even know what you’re doing?
It sounds more like intentional disregard. You’re in a relationship, you’re on Reddit, you have a social life, you might even have a license or a job. Surely you’re not so stupid that you literally didn’t even have a concept of what you were doing. So the alternative is that you actively chose to smoke inside her house after knowing how strongly she dislikes it.
Based on what you've written, it seems that all you've done is swap one manipulative narcissist for another.
Tell her the next time she touches a drink, you're gone. And then live up to that ultimatum.
Either she turns her life around or you need to guard your own safety and peace of mind.
No girl on another post…not this made up one
I'm sorry but it seems like they tried to right their wrong or am I missing something? I'm also a bit confused perhaps you can clear it up for me. You've been with your bf for 1.5 years and you haven't met his parents?
No, don’t do that.
She is a very independent person and she has reacted badly to me helping her in the past.
Her Japanese is very good. She passed her JLPT N2 last month, but being fluent for a medical terminology is its own challenge.
I feel like this would be the best thing for her right now. It is just that she might not see that because the job offer is essentially coming through me.
Talk to him? Your imagining all these things like your not invited and he assumes you would go here and there. Just tell him how you feel and then you can figure out if his reaction is adequate but right now the issue is 100% you
Yes I agree end it now and no more family gatherings. It saves your time and her time.