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Appreciate that mate, think I'm going to tell her in the next few weeks just don't want it to mess things up. Hopefully can just understand that I had no say in the matter and didn't know about it whatsoever.
eh, it can be flattering and if you know you have no ill intent it’s kind of not a huge deal unless your partner makes it one
“Boyfriend and I are starting to get serious and would like to live together, just the two of us. I love having you as a roommate and a friend. I hate losing that but I'm looking forward to this next chapter with boyfriend. You are welcome to stay until the end of the contract in November, but I just wanted to give you enough of a heads up that you weren't blindsided and scrambling to find a new place to live. Between me, boyfriend, and you, we should be able to find a place that you're happy and comfortable with. Thank you for understanding.”
Since this, I’ve realized I no longer fit the diagnostic criteria for borderline personality disorder
And what does your therapist say about this? BPD is a problem with emotional regulation. Clearly that relationship was emotionally trying, likely a constant source of anxiety exacerbated by the disorder, and with the relationship now over you've been able to stabilise. But you should still be pursuing healthy coping strategies and getting the feedback of professionals before you go assuming it is not a part of your life anymore, especially as it doesn't tend to work that way and worse it can come crashing back faster than you hope.
Even if he reacts to all this positively I just don't see any real benefit to telling him outside spite or a sense of vindication. He can apologise but that won't change that what he did hurt. And worse, what if his response is to get upset or defensive, then this exercise would leave you feeling significantly worse.
You’re assuming the drunk person can aim properly tho
Computer mouse at the wall/floor
Whilst all of those things can be helpful in situations like this. An alternative could be for OP to maybe do some more household stuff and reduce the emotional load his wife has daily. They might be doing 50/50 already but if not this can really help and it is free and easy.
There is nothing more sexy than parenting your partner… /s
Not saying that is necessarily the case here (wife feels like mum) but most women love a man who will don a pair of marigolds and clean the bathroom… we only have the OPs side of this situation. I am sure that the wife has an opinion too…
Run her a bath. Romance her. Do the shopping. Take on more care with the kids. Mix things up a bit. Help her unexpectedly without her having to ask. If OP isn’t doing these things already he might be surprised at the results…