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I'm not obsessed. It's just an intrusive thought.
I don't see the sister often at all actually. My girlfriend is from Japan and her family/sister lives there still. We met through university in the US.
So let me get this straight, you are working all day on your feet and when you get home you do 70% of the chores? Honestly I would feel stressed out as well and it would be hard for me to relax in an environment like this. If you're using alcohol to cope with the mental load of work and home management then It seems like a problem.
The core issue seems to be the fact that you can't unwind at home because it's basically your second job. Then you cope with alcohol, which is not a healthy way to relax every night.
I do think you should cut back on the alcohol but that won't help with your stress level. You need to address the reasons behind your stress (could be multiple reasons) but for sure you need to talk to your boyfriend about going 50/50 on chores.
It clearly wasn't out of nowhere. I would not try to continue with her if she's not going to be honest with you at all, even about why she left. Cheating or not, she wasn't honest.
At the very least, get some counseling, and get some truth on the table.
She needs to support you here. Making you feel less than because of your weight is not being fully supported. Time to stand up for yourself, you're worth it!
She needs to support you here. Making you feel less than because of your weight is not being fully supported. Time to stand up for yourself, you're worth it!
She needs to support you here. Making you feel less than because of your weight is not being fully supported. Time to stand up for yourself, you're worth it!
I mean, you're 100% valid in your reasoning and its not surprising you've lost your attraction to him because he behaves like a man-child. This is one of those situations that makes a good argument for moving in together befor marriage, test driving the car so to speak befor the purchase, because living with someone can completely change everything. You have the right to be with someone who contributes equally. Have you explained to him that his behavior is actually making you lose sexual interest in him? Maybe that'll put a fire under his arse, if you have and he still does a half arse job then I would tell him to go back to mommy. You want a partner not a kid.
I am sorry. But this is exactly why you don't stay with cheaters.
It causes permanent damage to the reletionship.
Something in the reletionship always breaks.
It can be a lack of trust, always on edge, never comfortable, etc.. and in yours, its the sexual chemisty.
Something always breaks.
You can still love the person, but that love is never the same. You can forgive, but you never forget.
Its irreparable because the perception you have of him as a person, takes a turn for the worst.
Not to mention the toll it takes on a persons sanity. It throws straight into the gutter. It makes you feel less as a person. And the only way that you can combat that is standing up for yourself, knowing that deserve a better reletionship than this, and go find someone who respects you from start to finish.
So I guess answers will really depend on how much and what kind of a relationship you want to have with your mother long term. If you’re fine with her being more distant then throwing up a hard boundary is honestly on you, because imo the struggle with a hard boundary usually comes from the person establishing the boundary. As in, they tend to feel guilty about it, or they’re very worried about the other person’s feelings. And in general I do think it’s wonderful to be considerate of other oriole’s feelings, but when it becomes guilt and anxiety that stops you from protecting your own feelings, then it’s become a problem. So if you are fine with a distant relationship then imo you just have to commit to “Mom right now is a really bad time for anyone to bye visiting, I have a lot on my plate and what would make me feel supported the most is if you can wait until a time that’s better for me. I’ll let you know when that is but it won’t be for a while.” And then you let her manage her feelings about it instead of doing the emotional labor to reassure her or whatever. Put her on mute temporarily if you have to. Be calm but firm. “This is what I need from you. I hear that you’re upset. I’m going to take a break from communication for (time amount).”
I also feel like OP is getting to the right answer just the wrong way. It sounds like she is saying she is unhappy because she does a lot for him and he isn’t repaying. She should be unhappy because he sounds like he is lazy about showing her care and appreciation in the relationship.
Appreciate the honesty and fair enough with the younger model comment. They are NOT married just to clarify. Having his child around does not bother me as I am not a horrible person. There are plenty of modern families out there. I deserve the hate I’m getting and I think fair enough.
Please update this. It seems like this guy is only with you because you are a good Christian, even though he isn't. Once you tell him this relationship is over, but he's kind of scummy so not really a loss.
Sounds like he's speaking his real feelings and then hiding behind “haha was a joke got you!” whenever you get angry. I would just walk away, no chance that's worth your time.
I'd start pre-preparing comments to throw right back at him.
“Yeah nobody has snatched me up. I'm waiting for someone my age.”
“I wouldn't say I need a “real man,” but I'm definitely waiting for someone my age to show they're worth my time.”
Basically every retort would be focused on how you're waiting for someone your age. I'd probably also slip in some comments about how you don't want to fall prey to creepy old so you're not in a rush to date.
I'm not obsessed. It's just an intrusive thought.
I don't see the sister often at all actually. My girlfriend is from Japan and her family/sister lives there still. We met through university in the US.
So let me get this straight, you are working all day on your feet and when you get home you do 70% of the chores? Honestly I would feel stressed out as well and it would be hard for me to relax in an environment like this. If you're using alcohol to cope with the mental load of work and home management then It seems like a problem.
The core issue seems to be the fact that you can't unwind at home because it's basically your second job. Then you cope with alcohol, which is not a healthy way to relax every night.
I do think you should cut back on the alcohol but that won't help with your stress level. You need to address the reasons behind your stress (could be multiple reasons) but for sure you need to talk to your boyfriend about going 50/50 on chores.
“3 months ago out of no where”
It clearly wasn't out of nowhere. I would not try to continue with her if she's not going to be honest with you at all, even about why she left. Cheating or not, she wasn't honest.
At the very least, get some counseling, and get some truth on the table.
Well said, thank you
She needs to support you here. Making you feel less than because of your weight is not being fully supported. Time to stand up for yourself, you're worth it!
She needs to support you here. Making you feel less than because of your weight is not being fully supported. Time to stand up for yourself, you're worth it!
She needs to support you here. Making you feel less than because of your weight is not being fully supported. Time to stand up for yourself, you're worth it!
What's the worst that could happen
Kick her to the curb
You attract more bees with honey than with vinegar.
At 26 you are just entering prime marriage age and there are a lot of guys out there looking.
I mean, you're 100% valid in your reasoning and its not surprising you've lost your attraction to him because he behaves like a man-child. This is one of those situations that makes a good argument for moving in together befor marriage, test driving the car so to speak befor the purchase, because living with someone can completely change everything. You have the right to be with someone who contributes equally. Have you explained to him that his behavior is actually making you lose sexual interest in him? Maybe that'll put a fire under his arse, if you have and he still does a half arse job then I would tell him to go back to mommy. You want a partner not a kid.
I am sorry. But this is exactly why you don't stay with cheaters.
It causes permanent damage to the reletionship.
Something in the reletionship always breaks.
It can be a lack of trust, always on edge, never comfortable, etc.. and in yours, its the sexual chemisty.
Something always breaks.
You can still love the person, but that love is never the same. You can forgive, but you never forget.
Its irreparable because the perception you have of him as a person, takes a turn for the worst.
Not to mention the toll it takes on a persons sanity. It throws straight into the gutter. It makes you feel less as a person. And the only way that you can combat that is standing up for yourself, knowing that deserve a better reletionship than this, and go find someone who respects you from start to finish.
Nice advice,
Don't know if I should still act like nothing happened?
Thank you! He has a car in the garage, tools, etc that I’ll hold on to.
Wot is a bj sandwich? ?
Interestingly proactive approach.
So I guess answers will really depend on how much and what kind of a relationship you want to have with your mother long term. If you’re fine with her being more distant then throwing up a hard boundary is honestly on you, because imo the struggle with a hard boundary usually comes from the person establishing the boundary. As in, they tend to feel guilty about it, or they’re very worried about the other person’s feelings. And in general I do think it’s wonderful to be considerate of other oriole’s feelings, but when it becomes guilt and anxiety that stops you from protecting your own feelings, then it’s become a problem. So if you are fine with a distant relationship then imo you just have to commit to “Mom right now is a really bad time for anyone to bye visiting, I have a lot on my plate and what would make me feel supported the most is if you can wait until a time that’s better for me. I’ll let you know when that is but it won’t be for a while.” And then you let her manage her feelings about it instead of doing the emotional labor to reassure her or whatever. Put her on mute temporarily if you have to. Be calm but firm. “This is what I need from you. I hear that you’re upset. I’m going to take a break from communication for (time amount).”
Yea.. I know he didn’t do coke. His reactions are just over the top.
I also feel like OP is getting to the right answer just the wrong way. It sounds like she is saying she is unhappy because she does a lot for him and he isn’t repaying. She should be unhappy because he sounds like he is lazy about showing her care and appreciation in the relationship.
I don’t even know how to decipher this.
Get a clue about people’s boundaries or get better at making up these nonsense stories.
If this is real, she clearly doesn’t want to fix your weird friendship. Just leave her alone.
You think the cops will confiscate his laptop if he was looking at children in bath suit on Instagram? Were you born yesterday??
WTF did I just read?
Your friend probably jerked off watching you be tied up.
This is some seriously messed up shit.
Appreciate the honesty and fair enough with the younger model comment. They are NOT married just to clarify. Having his child around does not bother me as I am not a horrible person. There are plenty of modern families out there. I deserve the hate I’m getting and I think fair enough.
Please update this. It seems like this guy is only with you because you are a good Christian, even though he isn't. Once you tell him this relationship is over, but he's kind of scummy so not really a loss.
Why’s your wife not worry what people will think about her bizarre lie?
That’s way more weird than saying you adopted a child.
I don't fuck my friends though. I went to his sisters funeral for Christ's sake!
Sounds like he's speaking his real feelings and then hiding behind “haha was a joke got you!” whenever you get angry. I would just walk away, no chance that's worth your time.
That what my first thought is. I’m sure constantly breaking out in hives really messes with your psyche
She's a bangmaid who's getting assaulted, good grief!
Bad news, I'm with her on this. This is her life and I'll never advise a woman to leave her work for anything less than a ring on the finger.
If she means that much to you join.
I'd start pre-preparing comments to throw right back at him.
“Yeah nobody has snatched me up. I'm waiting for someone my age.”
“I wouldn't say I need a “real man,” but I'm definitely waiting for someone my age to show they're worth my time.”
Basically every retort would be focused on how you're waiting for someone your age. I'd probably also slip in some comments about how you don't want to fall prey to creepy old so you're not in a rush to date.
Girl, you live in Switzerland. Stay there.