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Well shitfire, that may alter my above comment ?
So you are away for a week, she wants to open the relationship, sleep around and then close it when you get back….
Mate just break up
That isn’t relevant here. Your loss of your mother has absolutely nothing to do with you being a shit partner.
You hit it right on the nose. And unfortunately, he believes all those things. What makes it worse is that he's worked in medicine before, so he's been exposed to all sorts of mental illnesses that people have, invisible or not, and he still chooses to hold firm on his beliefs.
At our uni, I receive extra test time via my school's student disability center, which requires written documentation from a health professional. And he believes that since I qualify for those benefits, everyone should be able to qualify because my condition isn't as debilitating as others. 🙁
He seems to have pretty clear issues with anger and communication. I'm not quite sure how you can talk to your partner that way unless something has already been building up to justify it in his head.
It seems like he feels he can't talk to you like an adult. Or let little things slide.
Hope he isn't always going to be like this.
Has anyone got any good advice on how to approach this with her? I've toyed with just waiting until the end of the year to see if she changes in terms of:
My first bit of advice is not to wait until the end of the year and see if she suddenly realizes she's doing these things and stops on her own, because there is exactly 0 chance of that happening. Here's why:
I've definitely dropped hints and keep mentioning all three but she just bats it off, or just makes false promises.
Hints aren't getting the job done. I know you feel like you'd be a bully or an asshole if you had a more direct conversation with her about these problems, but think about the larger context here. You're engaged. You're (as far as she knows) going to get married next year. What do you think will hurt her feelings more, you having a frank and honest discussion about these issues that have become dealbreakers for you OR you just out of the blue canceling the wedding?
This has become a situation where you have to have an awkward, uncomfortable conversation with her right now in order to avoid an INCREDIBLY awkward and uncomfortable and emotionally devastating situation with her later. It sounds counterintuitive, but the kind thing to do is tell her right now that these three things are making you reconsider the marriage. Letting her be blindsided by the engagement getting called off would hurt her infinitely more, I promise.
I'd recommend picking a day when things have been going well and you have some peace and quiet and a lot of time to talk without any potential interruptions or other plans. Tell her you need to talk about something serious, and tell her how you FEEL about these three issues. Stick to that language: “I feel like I'm the only one putting in an effort” comes across much less hostile and combative than “you're not putting in an effort,” see what I mean?
Just be blunt, but kind. You (theoretically) love this woman and you don't want to hurt her but she needs to know these issues are making you reconsider the marriage. Once you've communicated that then the ball is in her court to decide if she's willing to put forth the effort to address these things or not, but at least you'll know you gave her a fair chance.
You're bringing home over 6k a month and can't afford to make ends meet or go to a restaurant? Thats crazy.. How high is your rent?