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You dodged a bullet, even if it feels crappy. She’s a manipulator and abuser; the text about sex, and you can say no is TOXIC AF and candidly frightening. Consent is a gender thing. And she cares very little that you have a dying relative. I’m sorry OP but there is someone out there , better for you.
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If you care about him you won't try to be his friend.
You both need to need to heal from the break up and move on and that just won't happen if you are in regular contact. It will make processing your hurt and emotions so much more difficult when there is a regular reminder of what you lost.
Once you both have no romantic feelings for each other, no anger, no hurt, and can think about each other in neutral, platonic ways, even when you reminisce about the old times, then maybe you can be friends with each other again.
Until then, trying to be friends will make everything worse.
Think you should just enjoy her company – but be aware that if she has not found her way in one to two years you will not fit long term and you might have to split up then.
You dodged a bullet, even if it feels crappy. She’s a manipulator and abuser; the text about sex, and you can say no is TOXIC AF and candidly frightening. Consent is a gender thing. And she cares very little that you have a dying relative. I’m sorry OP but there is someone out there , better for you.
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If you care about him you won't try to be his friend.
You both need to need to heal from the break up and move on and that just won't happen if you are in regular contact. It will make processing your hurt and emotions so much more difficult when there is a regular reminder of what you lost.
Once you both have no romantic feelings for each other, no anger, no hurt, and can think about each other in neutral, platonic ways, even when you reminisce about the old times, then maybe you can be friends with each other again.
Until then, trying to be friends will make everything worse.
Think you should just enjoy her company – but be aware that if she has not found her way in one to two years you will not fit long term and you might have to split up then.
You pack your things and leave. You tell him to get help with the addiction, or you don't come back and you're done.
Follow through. Otherwise, nothing will change. If he loves you, he will make every effort to get help. If not, you know where you stand.
You seem controlling, she seems resentful. The comment she made was petty, but based on the post, I don’t think you were at your best either.
I'd say no. Him deciding to move forward when you're not enthusiastic about it is a big red flag…