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Date: October 11, 2022
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Damn then why did he want her to tell you?
I consider myself a very sexually liberated person, but this is way weird to me.
Start by learning how to control yourself and find a healthy way to deal with the emotion.
Once that is done and only then should you try anything.
Look up “codependency”
Please quote me where I implied that if it's not too much trouble. If that's honestly the impression that I'm giving off, I would love to avoid it in the future. I mean, I know it's not your job to educate me, you know, but, why are you still arguing with me online if you're not trying to make me change? Some help would be appreciated. TIA
Well since you are saying “ she’s the one” and he’s your best friend seems like all of y’all will be spending time together. So you had better tell her now sooner or later it will come out.
Girl you're so boy obsessed, you're not gonna go to college or get a work bc while others around you are working to improve on themselves, you'll be obsessing over a boy. You'll probably end up getting pregnant bc you seem to make bad decisions l. Your family will abandon you and your bf will take out his frustrations on you. If you stop now, you can change the trajectory of your life.
Literally looked up her name
What is your sex life like? Do you turn him down often and/or don't initiate sex? He may be overly sensitive that you don't want to have sex with him yet have needs that you'll take care on your own. Dies he have performance issues? Again, he may be sensitive to him not being able to please you so you have to masturbate.
Personally I would sit him down and tell him he needs to stop being obsessive over you touching yourself. I'd tell him it's annoying and upsetting that he keeps asking and that on top if it he doesn't trust you when you explain you're not. Then I'd ask him why he is so sensitive to it. Is there something he needs to talk about?
If you want to talk more PM me. My ex and I were polyamorous before ending the relationship. He is a polyamorous person, I am a spicy monogamous person. I like kinky shit so that was ok but being polyamorous became another toll of control over me. We were in a quad for 2 years, I met my husband and we were not dating when I moved in with him, just had feelings and were having sex but neither of us were ready to commit (we literally didn't have sex with anyone besides him an 2 exes and me with my 2 exes) we just kinda transitioned into monogamy and have been monogamous since 6ish months after we met when I cut ties with my poly family.
I can probably talk to you more about my situation and other I met that were positive in their poly experience. You can then decide how you really feel.
If he is a serial cheater, chances are you will never have monogamy with him.
That’s very understandable. There’s a bit of nuance. I don’t actually scroll looking for pictures like these. The ones she found are pics that fell into the timeline, I liked them, and that’s it. But I see your point. Thank you
We have a good laugh when people think we're father and daughter it embarrassed them not us. It's happened a few times over the years
You're both retarded, shouldn't be mixing genes. But do it and watch her fucking up your life.
I’m fortunate to travel a lot internationally. I don’t understand where you’re getting “everything is on edge right now”. People are moving on from Covid everywhere and they are excited to so very welcoming to tourists. If you go backpacking in Europe this summer I can assure you the only risk would be an occasional pickpocketer. Planning for a trip out in 6 months will stop her “whining” and give her something to look forward to. I will say you should try to get her to take a break from social media, try everything you can (it’s tough)
You should really let it go. You were his first choice to ask for help, you were unavailable so he went down the list so as not to inconvenience you and the only person that happened to be available was his ex. The ex didn't do anything outside of the doctor's orders, and just because your boyfriend was loopy from anesthesia doesn't mean anything happened.
If you trust your boyfriend, I would back off and just not address it with your bf (unless he decides to bring it up). If you don't trust him and think something happened for some other reason(s), you need to look inwards to see what those issues are and talk about them to your bf.
Well one could argue that most mental illnesses are not that bad when treated, and don't cause assholyness as a side effect.
I think the word crazy is quite vague
I always tell men to use your own condoms. Bring them w you or keep them in your possession because some women will poke holes in them for this reason. I’ve been called an idiot many times for saying this but it doesn’t bother me. I wasn’t the one questioning if the baby my Gf was carrying mine or not.
Also don’t let them put them on w their mouth’s because they can’t bite a hole in them. Check them frequently and change them if you aren’t sure. They aren’t that expensive in the long run.
Her comparing you dancing w your ex at a wedding and her going to her exes house alone to tell him to stop is comparing apples to mud holes. Not the same at all. You were in public w your GF there I assume whereas she was there alone w him for who knows how long.
Everything you say sounds as if she’s trapping you w his baby. Or she’s telling you she’s pregnant when she isn’t so you’ll have sex w her & will have not have to use condoms anymore guaranteeing you’ll get her pregnant.
Tell her you want to see how a pregnancy test works and ask to watch to see how they work acting dumb of course. Because if she has shown you a positive test she could have gotten one from a friend or bought a positive one online to use against you. If you watch her take one and it’s positive you know at least she’s truthful about being pregnant. If she refuses to take one in front of you or with you there it’s a strong possibility she isn’t pregnant at all.
If she is pregnant insist on a DNA test as soon as safely possible. Because if you wait until it’s born and she puts your name on the birth certificate it’s legally yours and your responsibility for 18 years. There are many men out there right now paying for a kid that isn’t theirs even though dna says it isn’t because his name is on the certificate.
Some women are so sneaky you have to prepare for everything. This one sounds like she’ll do anything to keep you so don’t put anything past her. I know you may care for her but be prepared for everything
Hey op, I think I understand. When he called you a pain in the ass, that did not need to be said.
You asked whose fault is that, he could have just said yours. Calling you a pain in the ass did not need to be said.
Now, we all were not in that shower with yall, but I bet his tone in saying it hurt. Tone does and means a lot, which we completely miss out on in stories like this.
Now, my partner and I are similar, we don’t name call, and I have been abused in the past. There are times he makes comments and I am just like wtf was any of that necessary? And you know what? Not usually, but he does not know (want to learn really) how to bring up things that bother him any other way.
Now, when something like this happens, and I think it can be applicable in your situation, is don’t answer for at least three seconds. Don’t respond immediately out of hurt, it will not help. It is hard to hold your tongue, but do it. Don’t say anything, just look at them for a beat and breathe.
Especially in your situation, you were very vulnerable, naked with your partner, not expecting that at all. (And to everyone else, fake pouting vs name calling is not equal.) It was a very emotional situation.
Overall, you are still safe, you are still loved. Voices on here are going to hurt so go to the one that matters, your man. Best of luck love.
I was about to ask if OP is 19. But. 23. You should know, or at least you will learn now, that for a partner – this will not be ok.
He needs a break. So does she. But she needs a break from her mother. Not him as much. At the end she needs to save and move out but not with him. They may not have much a relationship left after this experience.
Sometimes some folks should stay alone for awhile.
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Put it in a vacuum seal bag and it'll be a fraction of the size, then you can use it in the future.
This is wholly unbelievable. But playing along – what you should do is ask your husband if that’s normal at Christmas in their family, tell him you’d have appreciated a heads-up if so, and decline further Christmas invitations if you’re uncomfortable with the way they do things.
It's not often I jump on these threads but gawd alive you need to be out of that relationship asap. This is assault and all sorts of fucked up. Grab your things and go. Quickly.
Go for what you want. But remember, A 30 year old woman is in a different place in life than you are with a lot more life and relationship experience than you. Keep that in mind because getting into a serious/ long term relationship with someone much older than you, and a couple of phases in life ahead of you, can impact your life in either positive or negative ways. More often than not, in my personal anecdotal experience and observations, the negatives outweigh the positives.
I'll try to find a woman, who's focused on her life and helps me to get better and support me.
You sound like the red flag here, not her lol
Im so happy for you, that you’ve never had a mental health crisis like this so you don’t understand how difficult it is to just survive, let alone take care of a house and children, the feeling of pure despair and dread of waking up and having to exist in your head, the hell that is executive dysfunction and chronic depression.
But shut the fuck up.
Nope, not cool.
How often?
Wow. Lol I dare you to broach the subject. Go ahead and assume her insecurities all center around how successful YOU are. Don’t ask her how she’s feeling, just narcissistically forgive her for being jealous of you lolololol
It was a shot in the dark. Never know if someone might listen that one magical time.
I don't really think it's necessarily normal to check out dating apps while you're in a relationship if everything is fine. Heck MT marriage was crap ans never once did I consider checking out dating apps.her reaction shows that she's got a guilty conscience. Not saying she cheated but she certainly had feelings about your marriage that aren't positive. You didn't even accuse her of cheating but simply wanted to know the state of you marriage. If you tell her you want to divorce then maybe she'll open up if she wants to stay married or she'll accept you threat…. My first ex actually at some said we should probably get divorced as thing hadn't been great and I had become distant and i wasn't even cheating. So I told him I think you're right. To this day I believe he was bluffing and used it as a threat. Except I agreed and that was the end of our marriage
This is so gross and creepy
Yep even though I really like her but I think I need to cut this loose before I get hurt
Another chance so she can become somebody she isn’t? Dude. Get out now. You deserve better. It’s not a joke, it’s her kink.
I don’t think having her leave work was a smart idea. You already mentioned that she was going through a rough patch at work. Therefore, obviously this could exasperated her work situation. You should have done this surprise on your own private time. Also, maybe she really doesn’t like surprises. Some people just like to plan things ahead.
thanks dude, dudette? really appreciate your comment. I feel even worse than I did before now that 80% of these comments are saying I'm the asshole here – which sure, I did things that weren't great, but it hurts, man, to try doing something nice and be stomped on.
I think it's important to take into account that she's specifically requested that he surprise her with romantic gestures, so asking her about it beforehand would remove an aspect that she's already stated is something that she wants more of.
Updateme!
If Jess is uncomfortable then it is surely the time for you to get in “hey can you just stop disrespecting my relationship? We are uncomfortable with your behaviour”, have you ever told him to fuck off?
Yeah how does that even work?
Don't you have places to be, things to do? That you would normally take your phone with you when you go there and do them?
Does your phone live at home in a drawer like my auntie's?
If you used to have a meaningful relationship, then it would be a good thing to reach out and appologise.
If labeling is difficult for him (29 already) then I don't doubt other things will be either. Teenager drama incoming.
how can you be so sure she is
I personally wouldn’t have a problem with it. I’ve house shared with two guys before and there were no issues. If he wanted to be with them he already would be.
She kept her communications with him hidden: Red Flag
She deleted chats between them: Red flag
They bond over tragic events at work: Red flag
These are the only red flags I see, you are right to think something is going on, trust your gut! It seems like this is an emotional affair, there is a high probability she is confiding in him with her day to day troubles. If this is happening it needs to stop and boundaries need to be put in place. No more texting after work hours, no more rides home, and no more deleted texts.
You might as well put it out all on the table and ask her point blank if she is still committed to the marriage. She might not even realize how sketchy and shitty her behaviors are because she is justifying them to herself. BUT, if you were to act the same way with a woman at work, would she be as understanding?
I don't want to take the pill. It is a substance that alters my brain chemistry not a tiktak.
My huband uses a condom or there is no sex. Never had a fight about it.
Him putting his pleasure over your health is an asshole behavior, in my opinion.
So, what do you want advice on? You two broke up, you had a rebound, then slept with your ex again. Sounds like a toxic situation IMO
Nope. Don’t keep trying. She’s made her decision. Respect it.
Delete anything nude, in lingerie, in underwear, topless, or suggestive. Basically anything you wouldn’t want a parent or future gf to see. The rest you can keep. I’m very partial to photos so I wouldn’t delete anything, just shove ‘em into a folder if needed.
If you get flowers, please make sure they come in a vase. She may not have any if people do not bring her flowers. It’s a nice thing to do.
I get that
Flowers look great everywhere. Pop them in a vase or a glass and enjoy them at your place
So your husband is trash? You could have just said your husband is trash.
He says he doesn’t want to start a full blown right fight until she tries to contact him again without fully apologising. He won’t talk to her until she acknowledges her behaviour and agrees to change, but also won’t send her another message saying she is cut off.
There's a range of ages in every grade. 18 is the average, 17 is the low end, 19 is the high end. If your parents put you in school late depending on when you were born (different schools systems, different cutoff dates on when you can be put in school). So a person can be born in April of the prior year and turn 19 before graduation. Then after graduation everyone with late birthdays turn 19 while they are in college, let's Jan – Mar of the following year. They were all born within the same year though.
Bruh you sure you're going to have lots of sex? Not as easy as you think. 1-2 per week is a pretty decent amount, your better think hard about this, because finding women who will fuck you is allot harder than you probably think
There's a range of ages in every grade. 18 is the average, 17 is the low end, 19 is the high end. If your parents put you in school late depending on when you were born (different schools systems, different cutoff dates on when you can be put in school). So a person can be born in April of the prior year and turn 19 before graduation. Then after graduation everyone with late birthdays turn 19 while they are in college, let's Jan – Mar of the following year. They were all born within the same year though.
Tell him that the next time he abandons his children on your doorstep without permission you will call the police.
You can get a pack of 200 of them off Amazon for like $8.
It's a weird thing to save
Him imagining security and cops days, weeks and months later did not retroactively put them there. You were robbed because your bf was stupid. He cannot make his actions smart. He can't imagine into existence the Army platoon that protected you or the police dogs that followed his commands.
Sit him down and tell him you need to talk without lies or apologies. Tell him that you were scared because a group of people can overpower 2. Tell him that they robbed you because your bf wanted money that you had out of sight. Then tell him after you ran, the worst possible thing happened. Your bf left you while you were in need to chase after a few dollars, facing a band of robbers on his own. You feared they would beat him up or kill him and that you could not help. Ask him if he can see how every step of the way he reacted the opposite of what you needed to feel safe. Tell him you fear a repeat with disastrous results. Then tell him you have forgiven him because, while very dangerous, his heart was in the right place.
Then, ask him how he plans to keep you safer in the future. If he doesn't know, tell him he can take a day or two to figure it out.
Only four months in and he’s going back to the mother of his children. He wants to go back for them, not her, supposedly. Do you know her? Does she know of your relations? Does he want to keep you as a side piece?
Say goodbye, block, and be done. It’s only four months and the drama is just ramping up. I’m sure his kids will think it’s a good thing that he’s back with her for their sake and fucks his friend on the side /s.
Have you tried asking her out?
Did you reply to the wrong person? I don’t know who you are.
Apparently she already knows.
This break up is about the be the best pre-work out you ever had.
Now hit the gym with your bros. ??
It’s not your fault but this is what it is. Move on and find someone who isn’t married. That’s all you can do.
“Not my type” lol You need to have a proper sit down with him and show him all the places you can afford and explain that while you can afford it would mean that you will work only to have a place over your head and that living with a stranger is a complete no go for you men or woman, and the living with said friend is the most logical thing to do right now Goodluck
Gotta know if I'm about to be rich having an immaculate conception.
You are the side piece.
I agree she's an idiot. But having that much debt, presumably from education, doesn't mean she's an idiot on that front. The 300k she has in savings is probably accruing interest at a higher rate than the interest on her debt, meaning that she makes more money having 300k in savings, than if she paid up her debt and was left with only 100k.
she deserves to be attacked physically and mentally
In 10 years time you are going to look back on this with shame, regret and embarrassment. As you should.
If you don’t you are probably a sociopath
Are you sure it's actually about the ketchup? Ask him if something else has been bothering him start asking about his day. Make your own spot from now on to avoid it being an argument but ask him how he's doing and check in. It seems to me like all these things are hidden and the root of the problem may not be actually the ketchup
Whether they're sleeping together or not ( they likely are) you shouldn't be involved with this man who isn't in a place to dedicate time to your relationship. He is living with the person he created a family with. He needs to sort out his life and secure his role as a father. Not trying to maneuver between two women. He's playing you, your relationship won't work while he's keeping one foot in each space.
Can your family come get you? I'd drive to the ends of the earth to get my kid out of an abusive situation.
Civil suits, however if he is a deadbeat, there probably is no reward for that. Be careful who date, and be more careful when you leave.
She won't help as she says she is tired of living with someone with no social skills
There's a fairy tale called “Go there I don't know where, find that I don't know what”. Not a good attitude to have for your wife
I think it's cos the comments get deleted for being too short or they don't have enough karma or something on this sub. I get that sometimes with replies
Is it possible he's negging you? I would not stick around for it.
The only reason she's telling you now is because she thinks it was about to be revealed anyway.
Do you have kids? If so get them tested. If not..do you want to have kids with a woman who fucks other men? THen lies about it for years?
I don;t think there's any hope for this. Also, for many cheaters, if you DO forgive them (a) they lose respect for you and (b) They think they have carte blanche do do it again.
Dude…disentangle yourself from this cheater as soon as you can. Do not have kids with her. Do not buy a house with her.
Don't plan on having any. Don't plan on shagging any teenagers, either. Guess we're not the same.
If you stay together you'll be training your kids that a relationship like yours is normal. You are training any daughters you have to essentially accept what you are accepting and training boys that they can emotionally check out of a relationship.
How delusional do you have to be to think/believe your perfect?
OP I get it you’re young, but you don’t have to be so naive.
Sounds like your in need of a reality check.
Ask her.
If you feel that it's not going to work out, just end things now.
Your husband sounds like a jerk.
There are equal (yet different) expectations of each person within a relationship, yes.
When things begin to veer away from what a person is happy with – yes, communication is needed.
Sometimes this seems unfair or, at times, negative… but concerns about preferences should have a voice in a meaningful relationship.
Sign up for a Barre or cycle class after work? Plan weekend trips away.
She is an adult and ultimately responsible for herself. You can’t be held hostage in a relationship because the other person might struggle. It may end up being the best thing for her.
These feelings are normal.
But to be clear: your longing is for a person and circumstance that no longer exists. It's ok to let go of this fantasy and move on.
Your a adult, it’s not like you’re saying you got rejected from a marriage, just casually mention it, and move on, people don’t care