Hey, not your situation but I'm a foster carer and what i know from experience is that kids can handle any situation that is explained to them honestly and age appropriately. There are whole books on how to talk to children about difficult issues.
Not telling them hurts more. Finding out that stuff was kept from them is a betrayal and those who don't have answers tend to create fantasy narratives in place of their truth.
Tell him, it only takes him shutting down social media and moving to lose the opportunity for you all.
Also as a side note, you clearly care a great deal and are doing the right thing looking at how to approach this and deal with all potential outcomes.
Don't be in a long term relationship with someone unless you'd be proud to have a kid turn out exactly like them. If you do have kids together that's what will happen and even if you don't have kids together the kind of stuff we”re often willing to overlook when we have love goggles on we would be appalled to find in others so either way it's a good check on the relationship. I'd imagine you wouldn't want to live with someone like this under any other circumstances so why tolerate it with him now?
I had to at the time. Extreme financial anxiety during the worst stock market meltdown of 50 years. So extreme the Dr gave me bi polar strength meds to calm me down. I didn't make the move for a change or to create heartache for my ex.
Sounds like you her plan B or safety net; and I I hate to say it but maybe not that attracted to you. So many stories on Reddit similar to yours and when the guy marries the girl being intimate with her is more of a chore and nothing passionate. I would seriously reconsider your relationship with her. Cause like I said from what you have stated you look like the guy she settling for. Good luck, do what’s best for yourself! ✌?
Not everyone needs it. My wife benefits from it. I have a horrific history but don’t need it. Do what’s best for you but don’t be embarrassed for hurting.
Your boyfriend was also drunk, which means you both raped each other so by the laws of math – x – = + so you really have nothing to complain about.
Hey, not your situation but I'm a foster carer and what i know from experience is that kids can handle any situation that is explained to them honestly and age appropriately. There are whole books on how to talk to children about difficult issues.
Not telling them hurts more. Finding out that stuff was kept from them is a betrayal and those who don't have answers tend to create fantasy narratives in place of their truth.
Tell him, it only takes him shutting down social media and moving to lose the opportunity for you all.
Also as a side note, you clearly care a great deal and are doing the right thing looking at how to approach this and deal with all potential outcomes.
Don't be in a long term relationship with someone unless you'd be proud to have a kid turn out exactly like them. If you do have kids together that's what will happen and even if you don't have kids together the kind of stuff we”re often willing to overlook when we have love goggles on we would be appalled to find in others so either way it's a good check on the relationship. I'd imagine you wouldn't want to live with someone like this under any other circumstances so why tolerate it with him now?
He’s CHEAP, not frugal.
I had to at the time. Extreme financial anxiety during the worst stock market meltdown of 50 years. So extreme the Dr gave me bi polar strength meds to calm me down. I didn't make the move for a change or to create heartache for my ex.
Haha fair I didn’t mean that in a rude way towards you
Sounds like you her plan B or safety net; and I I hate to say it but maybe not that attracted to you. So many stories on Reddit similar to yours and when the guy marries the girl being intimate with her is more of a chore and nothing passionate. I would seriously reconsider your relationship with her. Cause like I said from what you have stated you look like the guy she settling for. Good luck, do what’s best for yourself! ✌?
Not everyone needs it. My wife benefits from it. I have a horrific history but don’t need it. Do what’s best for you but don’t be embarrassed for hurting.
God, you sound insufferable. I hope your girlfriend figures it out in less time than I did. Good lordt dude.
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