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Alert the police now.
Too easy to get a protective order or restraining order ( whatever it’s actually called ).
And have patrolling units swing by your place at times you historically have seen him in the past.
i’m sorry you went through that but i would argue that your continued suspicion, while difficult, is actually pretty healthy. You should be suspicious of someone capable of that. I’m glad it ended up working out for you all in the end, but like you said much better to have someone admit they fucked up than to find out later from someone else.
Call the police u might have traces of his sperm or nail marks any sort of print on u and u can make a report and they will believe u
I think it all comes down to basic parenting honestly. Christian or not… You, as a parent, should be able to accept your child and not try to make him/her a mini you. I know her values are different from other parents' that are not Christians, that's why I've accepted a loooot of comments such as: “Now that you had sex and you're not a virgin anymore, you're like a second hand woman for your future husband.” or when she found out I got herpes from my ex, the only thing she would say is “I hope no one at church will find out” and “no man will want to be with you now that you have a std like a prostitute”. For the record, I lost my virginity to my ex and now my boyfriend is my second sexual partner. I'm just full of her and I accepted a lot of mean comments with my mouth shut because I get that she is suffering because of my choices.
Funny thing is, this contract OP wants her to sign won't even hold up in court cuz consent can be taken away at any time.
There is a scenario where a contract/ agreement could work or is needed.
Especially if OP's SO has a history with SA and and any underlying trauma might be triggered without this consent.
However, the chances of someone with SA history having a fetish/kink about being woken up to any advances feels next to none. So OP might need to decide where the line is between spontaneity and overdoing this.
Thanks for the advice.That seems like a great advice. Me and my gf will totally try it next time.I have just never been with someone with ADHD so I'm still trying to understand more about this condition
Why ? And what I am supposed to do ? Get away slowly from her ?
You don't need more sex. You want more sex. Which is perfectly reasonable, but exaggeration isn't going to help.
Dude, she's with you. Everybody has a type and many times your partner will not be that type, that doesn't mean anything. But if you want to pursue a different body anyway you can start lifting.
Honestly, if you text him and tell him you want to make out with him again, he’ll probably get hard just from reading your text. 😉
I'm not going to belittle what it's like to live with anxiety, because I live with it and I have triggers (which I am working on, my partner is very patient and I recognise when it's reared its ugly head and apologise for it) but … From what you've said and other commenters have, the fact it's gone from a private thing between you two, to something she's done in public … I'm inclined to think that she may be using it as an excuse.
Has she tried to distance herself from you at all? It may be she's been trying to end the relationship anyways and hasn't had the balls to do it, so she's been putting barriers between you two in the hopes you'd be the one to do it and she can get away guilt free.
Bro be dating high schoolers
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If she’s wearing it for you and you were being satisfied why do you need to come clean about it? I’m not sure you need to reveal that at this point. If she weren’t willing to do it, then it might be a time to talk about it but since she put it on and it’s doing it, what is the point?
If she wanted takeaway she could get takeaway on her own, the fuck lol. Read between the lines, she’s looking for someone who is willing to be a partner. Assuming they want kids, most parents don’t feed their children takeout even 50% of the time. It’s not healthy. She would be doing a majority of that work on top of the other housework. She knows the labor division won’t be equal. And she knows it still won’t be equal even if she chooses to pay 50% of the finances, as her husband will still be unwilling to do 50% of the cooking.
Hit the gym and lawyer up, bro.
Gross. Your boyfriend is an entitled pig. You do not owe him access to your body! For all you knew, he wanted to cuddle! My boyfriend loves to cuddle and it doesn't always lead to us having sex, we just enjoy being close. Your boyfriend either needs to check his entitlement or to become an EX.
Kids doesn’t mean you remain in misery. They pick up on that. He sounds like he is running away from his life and invited you to come or not. What happens when you get there and he has no plan for work or childcare? What happens if your aren’t “allowed” to visit? Kids don’t need to be in all of this uncertainty because he’s having a mid life crisis. He hasn’t considered the kids at all.
It’s extremely controlling and manipulative and the more you appease him, the more controlling he’s going to get.
You're a cheater. Period. Your husband could be abusive, but you're entire post could also be seen as justification for you monkey branching to the next guy who would give you the light of day.
And if all of your friends are so supportive as you claim, you wouldn't be making this post.
This is what I was going to write. He is absolutely having an emotional affair. It’s a genuine betrayal.
Despite what others may say, love is not enough. You two have gone through hell and these experiences have the potential to shape a person and make them face who they truly are. Of course, things were wonderful when it was easy. The real test of a human is when it is unbearably hard and neither of you can hide your worst sides.
I would never encourage someone to say if you feel trapped. I have been there and it will only lead to resentment and strife. At this point, it is highly unlikely to be fixable. It all depends on how bad you want this relationship and it seems like you don't. A relationship is never worth completely destroying your mental health. It sounds like you both need to separate and work on yourselves at the least.
She was being defensive (google defensiveness in relationships for more in depth info) but in general sometimes that’s just how people are, sometimes it’s how you bring up problems. Google how to turn complaints into requests as that can help you be direct but in a way that doesn’t trigger people as much. That’s another option if you want to give being direct another try.
I am scared that he assumes he “has you”. He doesn't have to try anymore because you two have been together for a long time, so surely you won't leave because he didn't plan a date night. The flaw in his logic is that, a relationship is work. You don't stop trying because it is working, you continue to work on it.
I am sure that if you broke up with him, all the sudden he will be ready to go on dates again, buy you flowers and surprise you. He is capable but just unwilling. There is nothing you can really do if he doesn't want to change.
You can give it one last try. Sit him down and say what you said here. That you feel cheap and easy because he doesn't put any effort in the relationship. That he has time for videogames but not for you. Tell him your labido is vanishing because you are falling out of love with him. He is taking you for granted and you will not stay with him if this continues. That it feels like you are a roommate he occasionally wants to screw, not a life partner (my take on it). Say the words “I am seriously considering breaking up.”. Maybe it will be the wake up call he needs.
2 things to remember. 1) You can bring a horse to water but you can't make it drink. 2) Don't fall for the sunk cost fallacy.
It’s not nice to place all financial and household responsibility on you. He’s not being nice watching you struggle with all and then still pushing for sex you don’t want.
His “Surprise” is actually “Fait Accompli.” You definitely don’t want to be stuck in a relationship with someone that thinks that’s an acceptable thing to do to you.
You were actively looking to break trust and respect in your relationship.
You guys talked about it and tried to move on. It didn’t work. She left. Nothing but blame on you
No one is worth that.
I did it for my ex wife. Shit is toxic.
If someone wants you in a situation you are genuinely extremely uncomfortable with or outright do not want them that someone can kick bricks… with their teeth…
Your SO should lift you up, help you make yourself a better person, help keep you out of uncomfortable situations.
Yeah, I’m jumping to conclusions here – but in my experience when people say this what they really mean is “every straight woman on this planet only uses sex and attraction to get what they want, at least prostitutes are open about it” – which, obviously, is a misogynistic and very red-pilled way of thinking and it just gave me red flags.
OP….. don't use the “but she is a kid” sentence on your wife. 10 years younger is 25….. saying thats a child's age will only backfire on you for someone with irrational thoughts.
(examples: saying you aren't attracted to 20 year olds will just get you called a liar making an argument happen… or.. calling 25 a child's age might also make your wife bring up HER age, and that will just lead to a shitshow)
Now more importantly, it seems your wife is projecting and you may have to to some digging.
This right here is the comment I was looking for. Should be more acknowledged.
The 6th post about this in 24 hrs?
Y’all need counselling ASAP. There a deep issues here and I think a third party will be extremely helpful
It takes two people to “make” an embryo. It takes one person to gestate an embryo into a fetus and eventually birth a baby. Until it’s a person, it’s not his “kid”. OP solely gets to decide if she wants to gestate the embryo because everyone has the right to do what they want with their own body, including allowing another organism to use it for life support.
Let her break up with you. You'll dodge a massive bullet.
I had this realisation maybe I've been stuck in some sort of major depressive state for the last year ? And I'm only just realising that ? You think it's worth getting some help? Or am I just simply looking for excuses for my poor behaviour ?
YTA. Expecting them to change their plans for muffins? Get your own membership card and stop taking advantage of his roommate.
I think I know where the location was even without sending it. I doubt it was 100% pinpoint on the location. And it isn't a bad idea just to check out with some girl friends of mine. Call it, a forest adventure as they say.
Childbirth is so intense and scary. Two friends went in with healthy pregnancies and no issues only to end up having emergency C sections and one almost died from blood loss. It's incredibly traumatizing. OP really should think of it like getting your nuts stomped on and then having emergency surgery to put them back together. OP, would you want to get your nuts stomped on again after that?!?
That’s the thing. I understand that and I’ve seen it too. I’m not saying he’ll be unsuccessful. He’s very likely to be successful. He’s smart without having to work for it like I have to. He just doesn’t want those things. It was never something he’s going wanted.
Doubt it to be honest. She doesn’t care. Looking for attention.
Put a Biden sticker on your car. Problem will solve itself.
In what possible way could this not be your fault?
just tell him no that’s not a rule you accept.
That or she's at the point in her life where she knows she doesn't need to waste time on a sexually selfish lover.
How on earth is it cheating when you weren’t together?? And you say you respect his need for space while your whole post says the opposite. You have been together for 4months and you have already dumped all of your issues on him. He has the mental fortitude to say “hey stop i need a break” and you think that is not okay. And you blame him for your mental health too? Sorry but you sound dangerously close to emotionally abusive
Well tbh fr your brother its 2-3 fold.
Just on its face your brother doesn't want his friend and his sister hooking up thats awkward by itself.
Then HE lives with the guy. If you break up HE has to deal with the drama. And maybe worse. (Losing his home.)
Just because you don’t doesn’t mean everyone else does. I don’t really see people as attractive anymore except my partner. That’s just how it is in my brain. ??♀️
They never should've told you about the note addressed to you because it's cruel to not allow you to read it.
They are acting selfish here, however their grief may be a big reason for that selfishness.
Perhaps give it some time and when they are ready they might give you the note.
Sorry for your loss.
What is the issue? Low mobility? Low count? Does it have to be IVF? What about the process is causing you the anxiety? Would a less invasive option be viable? I ask because my husband had a vasectomy so in order for us to conceive our son we needed medical aid, but we did an IUI aka Artificial Insemination. They went in and harvested hubby's sperm via a syringe and then used a machine, I think an ultrasound to determine which ovary was releasing the egg, or had released the egg, put a thin tube up through my cervix and fallopian tube directly to the egg and basically deposited the sperm at the egg so they didn't have to swim far all they had to do was fertilize. Then they gave me a shot of the pregnancy hormone to help with implantation and we waited. We chose that route because like you nothing was wrong on my end, he had just made himself sterile but IVF and reversal were both more expensive than IUI.
If you consider him as possibly “the one” you have to tell him.
Do you live with him or with your family or by yourself?
Why aren't you doing that now? You should be talking to your sister.
DO NOT MARRY!!! His behavior will escalate and could very well lead to your death.
Find a way out of this, even if you need to get the law involved.
My tip is: don't, unless you are 120% convinced this is what everyone involved wants (i.e. you're from a culture where this is a thing). If you're not, just ask her directly, otherwise you're in for the very uncomfortable “I'm not my dad's property you have to buy out” conversation with your gf.
Go to your graduation. If I lived nearby, I would go to yours just to cheer you up, OP.
Do you have friends that can go to your graduation?
What? No, I cheated on him once.
Thank you?
You are acting like a child, grow up!
On the dark web sure but on Google?? You won't
Exactly what I said, I choose not to put up a show but some people really do not respect your choices & boundaries and try to push it to see how far they can go.
Each situation is going to be different.
I'd argue that a 24 year old who has graduated from college and has been working full-time supporting himself dating a 33 year old is very different from a college freshman dating a 27 year old.
Life stage and experience is a bigger differentiator than age.
Sigh. You are bringing the anxiety on yourself. If you don't want to deal with trying to catch him chatting or 'cheating', break up. It is exhausting to constantly have to sneak around to try to catch someone doing something so you can justify sneaking around trying to catch them.
Wtf dude, at this point just change the locks and leave her stuff at the door.
It's okay to feel things. I don't think “not giving a shit” is really a healthy goal here? It's a complex balance to strike.
But work with him here. You ARE worth his love and attention, and together you two can work to identify the things that drive you to feel like you are in any way lesser becuase of what's going on here. You are worth it.
Lol break up with him.
Talk with a family lawyer. Find out the specific that will help your case. Start a log of what happened, when the bio-mother left, when she has attempted contact, etc. Only have communication with her through written sources, e.g., email, text, and save those for evidence. Keep any voicemails also.
If your child is in school/daycare, ensure they are aware that the bio-mother is not allowed to pick-up your child. Ensure you list the people that are allowed, to prevent her from attempting to send someone else and saying they are picking her up for “her mother”.
I’m not sure it’s even that. Of course I can’t read their minds and I haven’t met them so grain of salt here.
This isn’t about conquest as far as I can tell it’s about ego. Jen Tattoos (obviously not her real name) in my example told me later “Aurin you’re plenty hot, it’s not that, it’s first we have different lifestyles and second every guy I date or fuck I start fucking hating a few months in and I don’t want that.” It’s not a direct quote but that was the gist of it.
Later I told her about the smoking ballet dancer I was shocked liked me back and she was like “I’m not surprised”. So the wounded ego of the American male in his natural habitat was soothed.
She had to do waaaaaaay more work than was fair to her to do.
I don’t know man. You say:
“She’s never acted like she needed me or was acting like she wanted to hang out all the time. This made me attracted to her.”
Then you say she acts “hot and cold” about hanging out and get upset about it.
You’ve gotta decide if that’s a trait of hers you’re willing to accept or not. Because now youre being hot and cold.
She just got out of a long relationship. It’s difficult figuring out who you are as a person while alone as opposed to who you are as a person in a committed relationship.
She’s relearning who she is and I’m sure going through a difficult transition. Whether or not she still has feelings for that person, it’s gotta be tough.
Give her time and space. Be understanding that she may just need patience.
Ok listen, you can end the relationship and not put up with her bullshit, but don't let that spiral you down the path of “hustle” bullshit and other misogynist brodude dogshit on the internet.
She just sees you as her last chance of having a kid before 35. Your job, your security, and your great childcare benefits were what she loved about you. you lost them, so there is no more love for you.
She don't love you. She tolerates you as long as the paycheck hits the account every Friday. When someone shows you who they really are, believe them. Do not have children with this woman, she will leverage them against you to subsidize her for the next 18 years via child support.
Bullet dodged
Take this as a win
Go along with it, but totally let her lead. That will tell you how far she wants this pretence to go.