My bf was all excited and it ended up happening randomly on vacation together at a friends wedding. I was fine with it. We’ve been together 3 years. Known each other for 15.
Needless to say, we’re still together, and he finally realized his friend and I were both right when we told him “In our experiences, it’s not all it’s cracked up to be.”
If you can completely end a friendship without ever speaking to each other over why……you were never best friends.
Even if she’s over reacting, if you don’t give enough of a shit about the friendship to at least talk to her ONCE then neither of you are important enough to one another to care in the first place.
Grow up and ask her why she’s acting that way instead of passive aggressively cutting her out of your own life as revenge.
BTW….my wife also has weird reactions about missing out on food. It was weird at first, but finally she told me it was because her home life sucked as a kid and she literally had to fight her siblings and parents to eat on a daily basis.
Sometimes people have more shit going on than you realize and you’ll never learn this until you act like an adult and talk to someone.
-Tell her she is gorgeous or beautiful when you notice
Appreciate her for what she does and tell her how lucky you feel
-when you are out at the store pick up a little treat or flower for her occasionally
-order fancy take out so she doesn't have to cook if you have the money
-give her a back or foot rub
-light candles and tidy the room for date night. Include wine, hot cocoa or her fancy drink of choice
-what's in your area? Is there a fancy bakery you can pick up am order from? Is there a new restaurant? Ice cream shop? Park to walk in? Other attractions? Surprise her with an idea or treat.
-send her loving texts during the day
-if you start running out of ideas ask her what being romantic looks like to her.
Eh.
They’re not that great.
My bf was all excited and it ended up happening randomly on vacation together at a friends wedding. I was fine with it. We’ve been together 3 years. Known each other for 15.
Needless to say, we’re still together, and he finally realized his friend and I were both right when we told him “In our experiences, it’s not all it’s cracked up to be.”
If you can completely end a friendship without ever speaking to each other over why……you were never best friends.
Even if she’s over reacting, if you don’t give enough of a shit about the friendship to at least talk to her ONCE then neither of you are important enough to one another to care in the first place.
Grow up and ask her why she’s acting that way instead of passive aggressively cutting her out of your own life as revenge.
BTW….my wife also has weird reactions about missing out on food. It was weird at first, but finally she told me it was because her home life sucked as a kid and she literally had to fight her siblings and parents to eat on a daily basis.
Sometimes people have more shit going on than you realize and you’ll never learn this until you act like an adult and talk to someone.
I'd have a heart to heart with your boss about it and lean toward the compromise that isn't as good for your career but saves the relationship.
But only if you're really sure about this relationship.
That's fine, but that's different from calling someone a creep
I can’t figure out how to make paragraphs.
Easy ways to be romantic
-be genuine in your compliments
-Tell her you love her and why more
-Tell her she is gorgeous or beautiful when you notice
Appreciate her for what she does and tell her how lucky you feel
-when you are out at the store pick up a little treat or flower for her occasionally
-order fancy take out so she doesn't have to cook if you have the money
-give her a back or foot rub
-light candles and tidy the room for date night. Include wine, hot cocoa or her fancy drink of choice
-what's in your area? Is there a fancy bakery you can pick up am order from? Is there a new restaurant? Ice cream shop? Park to walk in? Other attractions? Surprise her with an idea or treat.
-send her loving texts during the day
-if you start running out of ideas ask her what being romantic looks like to her.
Bro she cheated on you. Exploring one’s sexuality doesn’t excuse cheating. Point blank period.
You don’t ask her, you TELL her to go sleep on the couch. You’re a grown woman!
It’s over