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Room for online sex video chat FlirtatiousMegan
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Languages: en
Birth Date: 1977-03-28
Body Type: bodyTypeAthletic
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorRed
Eyes color: eyeColorGrey
Subculture: subcultureHousewives
Date: December 29, 2022
I understand you’re upset. But I’m not sure you articulated what it is you want to happen? Do you want your husband to put his foot down? Are you jealous the sis gets away with it? Are you looking at your husband with different eyes bcuz he lacks the spine to tell mom no? Are you upset with yourself for not putting your own foot down? How did this happen without your approval? And now your participation is taken for granted and as a given? Why didn’t you stop it? How did you not advocate for yourself? How are not doing it now? And why is their desire to have their home/mom cared for by someone they trust the most, coming off as them being cheap? Do you want to get paid? Did you/husband ask for temp resources (day-nurse; a dog walker; a gardener) to help out so you’re not taxed 24/7? Someone you can supervise/trust to do the work with minimal uplift from you two?
As someone who comes from a family where looking after grandma/parents, mine or his in our home wouldn’t pain me. My acceptance of it being a given is explicit and was one of the pre-marriage conditions we negotiated. However you don’t have this same understanding. But you’re certainly doing much more than I’d ever be called to do, even with my expectation of it materializing in the future. So discuss it with him now. Tell what you want.
It’s not healthy to have one friendship without which you will “collapse”. You’re making her an unwilling participant in your own self-torture.
Why?
You don’t want the same things and you aren’t compatible. Unless you’re willing to live a childless life and not resent him for it, you’ll be happier in the long term with someone else.
It sounds like you're doing a lot for her and your siblings, and that's commendable. But, dang, if she used to beat you and now she's hiding money from you, that's not cool. It's totally understandable that you're feeling some hate towards her right now.
But, hey, it's also understandable that she's been through some stuff and that might be affecting her behavior. That doesn't mean it's okay for her to treat you like that, though. It's tough to figure out what to do in situations like this, but maybe you could try talking to her about how you're feeling and see if you can work things out. Or maybe you could try talking to a therapist or a trusted friend or family member to get some perspective.
girl…
from the perspective of a former dancer; guys like your husband make up the majority of our clientele. yes, he most likely got a lap dance or two. yes, he could have plausibly just spent the money at the stage. yes, he broke your trust. yes, he emotionally cheated. yes, you should leave his deceitful ass. yes, he will do it again.
That was painful to read. I genuinely believe you should break up with him based on what you've shared.
However if you do not break with him then 100% do not stand for him having any contact with her whatsoever.
How much of your life are you willing to give this guy?
TLDR: Age difference
This is too much it’s better than it happened now rather than you finding out she did something while you guys were “long distance”. Just think of this as a blessing in disguise and move on.