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If you’re fighting daily with him, something needs to change. I’d opt for breaking up. It sounds like you have had some good times together, but especially his disinterest in your interests is just sad. It’s not nice, and it’s not the foundation for a healthy relationship.
You need to immediately call for help. Do not second guess this or try to handle it on your own
Yeah my bad again , I mean how long will this LDR go on for
ie. The next few years , longer , shorter , is there plans to move to the same place.
Maybe she is tired of it and wants someone who is physically there all the time.
Brand new house I'm moving into. At most it's messy with boxes.
Depression is that kind of beast. It likes going unnoticed, being hidden away. That isn't your fault. It's just how depression is. Depression doesn't like to burden others.
If the option is available, try to encourage him to seek out professional help. A therapist can help him a lot more than you can(not meant as an insult, but as reality). Therapists are trained to treat depression. You aren't.
You can also simply ask him “how can I help” and find ways to support him without enabling his behavior. Don't be a doormat, stand up to him when he acts in an unreasonable way. But still be his support, help him see the difference between reality and what he thinks is real.
But remember this: you can't fix someone who doesn't want to fix themselves. If he refuses to get professional treatment and doesn't improve on his own, you may have to make the hard decision.
It varies with each breakup, but for a relationship that lasted 5 years, I'm guessing that it will take anywhere from 6 months to a year to get completely over it. Maybe less, maybe even longer. At your age, I'm guessing a little less.
Basically, you're grieving. The best that you can do is to try to carry on with your life in all the other ways that you normally do. Definitely keep that therapy appointment, keep hitting the gym, eat well, go to work, etc. You'll be tempted to lay down and curl up, but that's the worst thing you can do.
BTW, your ex sounds a little toxic. If she comes knocking on your door again, I wouldn't answer. Good luck, brother.
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