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Yup, therapy. You know you want to change, which is good, but need help seeing the situation & better choices. A therapist will help you figure out solutions for your specific viewpoint.
Not your business and she’s and adult that can make her own decisions, leave them alone
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At some point your step mom had to know your dad was married. She didn’t care about hurting you. Neither did your dad. Why should you care more for them than your mom?
For context, yes I personally can’t see myself as blameless, I’ve had a number of issues which I probably should have seen a counsellor about that I actively put off.
NO NO NO NO NO!
No matter what you did or did not do, nothing, absolutely NOTHING excuses cheating. She could have talked to you, asked for help, left you.
Fucking hell the shit we put ourselves through.
OP I went through the same thing, I blamed myself and it was just so I could get through my day knowing I wasn't with a total piece of shit and I could hold on to the love and trust I had. Blaming myself made that easy, but I have since realized that I am a good person, did everything I could (honestly) and was a good husband and man. You have to ask yourself if you can be with someone who has done this and has the capacity to do it again.
If she blames you in any way, it should be over. If she doesn't take full responsibility it should be over. If she doesn't text this person while you are watching and tell him never to contact her again and then deletes and blocks his contact, it should be over.
SHE has to earn your trust back (and it will never fully come back)
It has been a year and he won't commit?
It sounds like he's just stringing you along and wants to have the option to date and sleep with other people while keeping you on the back burner.
Find someone that actually wants to be with you.
Are you afraid that she won't sleep with you anymore?
I read these stories and am amazed people like this exist. I respect and appreciate everything my parents have done for me, how long my friends have been there for me, but I love my wife wholeheartedly and that is a bond that cannot be compared. I will go to war for her, and always support her no matter what. Our private conversations stay as that. We’ve been going through the process of purchasing a home together, long explanation of the current living situation, but pretty much I live and pay the mortgage of my childhood home, but my mother still owns it. It’s been stressful, and my wife has hit a breaking point. She was talking shit about my mom one night, and the next morning while I was waking up for the day while playing video games, she came up and apologized to me for it, and you know what I said? Don’t worry about it because you’re right. My mother has been a huge pain in the ass, and just because she’s been there for me my whole life and I love her dearly doesn’t excuse her from being the asshole in the situation.
You date a guy you met through family. You didn't grow up together and aren't related. It is like dating a family friend kid more than dating a cousin. The only reason it is a bit weird is because his mum married into the family.
So yes, if someone hears 'I dated my step cousin', its a bit stranger. If you say you dated a guy you met recently whose mum recently married your uncle, it becomes a lot less weird. Your brother is a dick and your family is frankly horrible.
You are so very young with so much a head of you. Do not let these people destroy your life simply because they share your dna. Disown them and live your life. It will be incredibly hard but I promise you it is worth it. An introvert can have friends too. There are support groups for people abandoned by their family. Book clubs if you are a reader. Join a running club, you don't even have to talk to people if you aren't up for it in the beginning.
I don't know if you live at home or if you have a job. If you don't live at home, cutting them off will be easy. If you do, consider them terrible roommates and begin making a plan to leave. You ll be okay.
I wont tell you to abort and depending on where you live it could still be an option..
But you dont sound mature enough to have a baby. If you do, you'll really have to get your act together..
I say this because
You didnt even pay attention to not having your period for 3 months. You knew something was off but you just ignored it. Maybe your not regular, maybe you used protection that failed, idk, but I dont even need a calendar to know when I'm late. It's just a guy feeling like.. hmm?
You allowed yourself to get sucked into the fantasy of your feelings with your boss and went for him regardless of what that might mean. Okay, you had a drunken ONS, but you didnt have to continue it. [This is on the assumption you acctually started it and not him]
You see nothing wrong with the fact that, even if you kissed him first, he still kissed you back. And then continued the relationship there after. He is your boss and he is an adult. Your barely an adult and at an impressionable age.
These things can work, but it might not work out how you want it to. If you have a kid, unless you get nannies to raise it, your out of a job.
Figure out what you want first with the idea that he wont be involved or solidify your relationship. You cant decide anything past that. You have to be prepared that he will walk away from you.
I think you’re living in fantasyland here my dude. Did you ever once have a conversation with her about starting that kind of dynamic? Doesn’t seem common and I’m just not getting where or why you think she’s, like, your new threesome seeking sex partner lmao.
I know… I’m trying…
It's almost like I posted this in response to someone other than you…oh wait, I did.
I understood you perfectly. I just disagree that “effort” is only measured in how many hours of work you put in.
But that's probably just my European showing.
If he asked you to go get a boob job to help prevent your boobs from looking old and saggy how would you react?
That sounds like an amusing speech tbh. Does not sound like an admonishment
Guaranteed they do more drugs than they've told you… you cannot save them. Don't waste your time
What a condescending prick.
You should break up, she deserves someone who actually likes her.
What a condescending prick.
You should break up, she deserves someone who actually likes her.
He doesn’t actually want to break up with her though. He’s using it as a threat to manipulate her into giving up the apartment and further control her.
Hopefully she can see through the emotional abuse and dump him anyway.
Close enough, the sun that it belongs in doesn’t exist, and that sub is the trash can of Reddit so seems as good a place as any
She literally told you why. And her why is entirely reasonable (moving fast previously didn’t work out how she wanted plus her period).
My advice? Forget it, move on, don’t think about it, and for the love of god stop any talk about previous relationships as you clearly can’t handle learning about it.
End the relationship, Find another job or don't tell him.
I get that you're trying to be respectful of him within the context of your relationship, but you're playing with fire here and basically asking to ruin your life in it's current form.
Not defending her but lets not throw words around where they dont belong
Thanks. I’m aware of the meaning of asexual, just hadn’t heard that acronym. Thanks for informing me. better to ask than forever not know! Appreciated
If you're sick your partner should not be getting mad at you for not meeting their wants. When your needs are more important.
If someone is treating you poorly over something like this. You have to ask yourself is that something you want for the rest of your life?
It's likely not something that's going to get better. And someone who can't show basic care when you're sick isn't a very nice person.
So tell her that know that the invite was for both, as you saw it. That will likely open a can of worms, but there’s nothing you can do about that.
Then ask her why she lied to you, why does she not want you there.
Then you ask her to actually think. The invitation came from the bride to be, personally. This likely means that the bride to be knows that your gf doesn’t like her much, and is trying to prove that she is an important part of her new family.
The way he keeps pushing and pushing and pushing, despite your repeated requests for him to stop is abusive.
There is something deeply ugly about what he is doing to you.
Think long and hard about this relationship, OP.
Just wanted to be friendly? No need to overthink it
Or if she has been the cause of tension between OP’s gf and her brother then maybe that was her attempt at smoothing things out?
Yep, more men who don't give a flying fuck who dies or lives.
Would you consider it disrespectful if she goes to the club ?
It’s not a bad idea, sometimes I do spend the night if I’m too tired to go home, but the most I’ve stayed is a night, because I don’t have any of my stuff there. I don’t like leaving my stuff outside of my house
Thank you, I think writing out this post and reading a lot of the comments has really helped me process what has happened and to accept his behaviour towards me hasn’t been acceptable and I shouldn’t overlook that in favour of the good times. It’s just going to break my heart ending things and cutting that connection with his daughter. I always wanted my first love to be my last and thought I’d found that person, but I’m realising that maybe I was wrong ?
A jealous girlfriend? Because I don't want to have sex with a guy if he's in a relationship with another woman? I'm not sure how this makes me sound like a jealous girlfriend?
Would you want to have sex with a guy if he were in a relationship with another woman?
Time to leave and go have sex, adult people want sex, and frankly I don't care what her issues are, go have sex. This is a doomed scenario…
Your feelings are not more important than your son’s feelings.