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Date: December 14, 2022
Thank you for saying everything I was thinking!
Oh ok. That makes more sense, I would just keep an eye on the friendship then . If the girl start disrespecting boundaries, I would talk about taking further actions and maybe unfriending.
I bet he's one of those people who thinks keeping your butthole clean is gay or some dumb bullshit like that.
Not worth keeping. It's not because of the specific issue, it's because of his refusal to respect your wishes.
Yes hello!! Person that needed to do a lot of the changing in their relationship here, and YUP: everything you just said is true. I changed bc I wanted to. I agreed with my bf on the things he wanted me to change, already wanted to change those things myself but didn’t exactly know how. The other person has to want it. It still took me a little bit to really change, room for error does need to be there to an extent but man: if you’re still having the same fight after 2 years with no improvement.. it’s safe to say it’s time to cut the cord
So I agree that effort and attention matter. The right man for you will put effort into texting, planning dates, cooking for you, giving your gifts, etc…
That does not mean that the wrong man for you will not do those things too. There are wrong men who will put in little to no effort and there are wrong men who will do all the right things… until they don't.
Lose his number and keep your standards up.
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Girls have lured boys to be murdered by her male friends just for the thrill of the kill. Especially with the promise of sex first. Ghost this girl.
Not at all. But im like if its a girl hes texting late at night and he has to lie to me about it, then yes. I guess he was dreaming and bc we are on a call or text a lot that that is plausible
Why can toddlers understand the word “no” and your adult husband cannot?
ADHD has nothing to do with this.
I am just hoping there is another explanation
If wishes were horses beggars would ride.
I am so proud of you. You will feel worth so much more because you made that one choice. When you stay in a situation that’s bad and try to work it out with somebody you wouldn’t be with most of the time it goes south. You’re not married you don’t have children there’s no reason to really try and you’re right he is POS. I am so proud of you now you can go on and have a happy life with somebody that cares about You.
I hate women like this. I’ve worked in a male dominated profession that includes having to travel for decades. Having to deal with these kind of wives sucks. They make it awkward and harder for me to be treated as an equal colleague. I don’t care about your husband or boyfriend! I care about MY CAREER!
I appreciate you saying that, sincerely.
He trickle truthed you so chances are he did get a lap dance. Don't drag it out of him. If it's a deal-breaker for you, you need to stick by that and leave otherwise he will keep doing it and you'll just get hurt more and more. I'm sorry he did this to you right after you birthed his child and are probably still healing. Do you have family or friends that would be willing to help you?
That’s what I’m thinking, I’m trying to encourage him
It was tho
So, he doesn't want any of the things that you want. He doesn't want to get a job or contribute in any meaningful way. What are you getting out of this relationship?
Leave. Leave right now. Don't waste any more time on him.
If he wants a committed relationship with you he will ask you out on dates.
If he doesn’t want a committed relationship with you, he won’t.
Communicate that if you want that and he either will, or he won’t.
You guys are both so young and your history together really highlights that. I'm a little confused why you got married when it seems things were so volatile?
If you're marriage is so awesome I'm more confused on why you're actually considering breaking up, there must be more to it other than insecurity?
Was she cheating up until you got married? I'm a little unclear on what you're meaning in your post.
Carrying that level of credit card debt every month is itself a bad decision. You should bring that level down as rapidly as possible, because credit cards typically have a fairly high interest rate. You didn't mention how much your student loans are or what rate they carry.
It is in fact irresponsible to take an overseas trip and acquire a pet if you are in substantial debt.
Explaining that this is a common problem is not likely to impress your boyfriend. And I don't even think that he's being judgmental. 700 is not a great credit rating, mine is 820. You are no doubt paying a higher interest rate based on your credit rating.
Instead of taking that tack, you should say you recognize you have made mistakes and you need to learn more about personal finance. Tell him that you will both read a book on the subject (ask if he can recommend one) as well as meet with a personal banker to chart a course.
One of the smartest things you can do is have an automatic payment toward your debts made from your bank account as soon as your paycheck is deposited, and don't incur any more debt that month. This might require you going to a cash basis. Other big money sinks are consumer spending (clothes and other nonessential buys) and going out to lunch at work instead of taking your own.
Thank you sharing your experience and advice, this gives me some hope 🙂 What you said about being obsessed rings true for me – I need to channel that into something else.
From the post “He cheated and when I found out it was pretty much over”.