You need to chill. You've only been dating for a few months. You're not even out of the honeymoon stage of your relationship yet, and frankly a good parent wouldn't have introduced you to his kids yet at this point. It sounds like the two of you are rushing things. You're only 23 – take your time and really get to know him before you start talking about marriage.
So like going out drinking every night has to be expensive. With a family back home and more on the way. Change locks. Talk to a lawyer. Ask your sister what other bull shit he's tried
You shouldn’t. If you’re determined to, try instead to get her to join you for a coffee break or a lunch to get a read on whether or not she wants to spend time with you alone first. If she doesn’t, don’t ask her out at all.
They say a picture is worth a thousand words but videos? Worth a trillion? And five makes it indisputable. She’s already making her gaslighting, lying story up to manipulate you into ‘give her another chance’ but once married your screwed. It sucks that this had to happen but better now then after ‘I Do’. You still have a chance at finding a partner who will honor and respect you beyond just loving. Stay with your buddies until you have a plan for moving on. Any inquiries from her family just forward the videos and don’t get in to any discussion with them. And block her, her friends and anyone else trying to fix this as they won’t have your best interest in mind.
They say a picture is worth a thousand words but videos? Worth a trillion? And five makes it indisputable. She’s already making her gaslighting, lying story up to manipulate you into ‘give her another chance’ but once married your screwed. It sucks that this had to happen but better now then after ‘I Do’. You still have a chance at finding a partner who will honor and respect you beyond just loving. Stay with your buddies until you have a plan for moving on. Any inquiries from her family just forward the videos and don’t get in to any discussion with them. And block her, her friends and anyone else trying to fix this as they won’t have your best interest in mind.
In many ways planning a wedding is a great test for your future married life in terms of working with your partner to navigate conflict and work together making decisions.
Your fiancé is spineless when her family is concerned. Expect similar behaviour in the future.
Sorry dude but you were wrong with your actions and embarrassed your wife. You could have handled it much even with the points you. YTA for your actions
He knows that this makes you uncomfortable, but he doesn't care. His enjoyment is more important. Think about that: he believes getting his rocks off is worth hurting you.your needs, to whatever extent he's willing to accept they exist, are waaaaayyyy at the bottom of his priorities.
Find someone who will treat you with respect and basic human kindness. That's table stakes for a relationship. Don't accept less.
After everything that happened and the big mistake you made to cause this breakup, you’re still only thinking about yourself.
You basically cheated on your gf, and instead of coming clean to her right away, she had to hear what you did from the girl you cheated on her with. It really doesn’t matter how drunk you were bro, you fucked up and at this point it doesn’t matter whether or not you see a future with her.
If you want a chance of winning her back, you need to show her that you’re a better man. Instead of thinking about how to make her get back with you, think about what you can do to better yourself. At the end of the day, if she doesn’t want you back then you need to respect that and take what you learned with you into your next relationship.
You need to chill. You've only been dating for a few months. You're not even out of the honeymoon stage of your relationship yet, and frankly a good parent wouldn't have introduced you to his kids yet at this point. It sounds like the two of you are rushing things. You're only 23 – take your time and really get to know him before you start talking about marriage.
i made the biggest stank face reading this lmao i hope this isn't real
So like going out drinking every night has to be expensive. With a family back home and more on the way. Change locks. Talk to a lawyer. Ask your sister what other bull shit he's tried
You shouldn’t. If you’re determined to, try instead to get her to join you for a coffee break or a lunch to get a read on whether or not she wants to spend time with you alone first. If she doesn’t, don’t ask her out at all.
They say a picture is worth a thousand words but videos? Worth a trillion? And five makes it indisputable. She’s already making her gaslighting, lying story up to manipulate you into ‘give her another chance’ but once married your screwed. It sucks that this had to happen but better now then after ‘I Do’. You still have a chance at finding a partner who will honor and respect you beyond just loving. Stay with your buddies until you have a plan for moving on. Any inquiries from her family just forward the videos and don’t get in to any discussion with them. And block her, her friends and anyone else trying to fix this as they won’t have your best interest in mind.
They say a picture is worth a thousand words but videos? Worth a trillion? And five makes it indisputable. She’s already making her gaslighting, lying story up to manipulate you into ‘give her another chance’ but once married your screwed. It sucks that this had to happen but better now then after ‘I Do’. You still have a chance at finding a partner who will honor and respect you beyond just loving. Stay with your buddies until you have a plan for moving on. Any inquiries from her family just forward the videos and don’t get in to any discussion with them. And block her, her friends and anyone else trying to fix this as they won’t have your best interest in mind.
Listen to this OP.
In many ways planning a wedding is a great test for your future married life in terms of working with your partner to navigate conflict and work together making decisions.
Your fiancé is spineless when her family is concerned. Expect similar behaviour in the future.
Oh and definitely hire the bouncer.
He's a cheater AND an idiot. This is a very very common scam. If you pay they ask for more. Never pay.
Well I mean his Facebook post that I saw was celebrating them getting engaged on their third anniversary.
I'm honestly so thankful that my husband and I have matching sex drives, which means we have a lot of sex
Sorry dude but you were wrong with your actions and embarrassed your wife. You could have handled it much even with the points you. YTA for your actions
He knows that this makes you uncomfortable, but he doesn't care. His enjoyment is more important. Think about that: he believes getting his rocks off is worth hurting you.your needs, to whatever extent he's willing to accept they exist, are waaaaayyyy at the bottom of his priorities.
Find someone who will treat you with respect and basic human kindness. That's table stakes for a relationship. Don't accept less.
After everything that happened and the big mistake you made to cause this breakup, you’re still only thinking about yourself.
You basically cheated on your gf, and instead of coming clean to her right away, she had to hear what you did from the girl you cheated on her with. It really doesn’t matter how drunk you were bro, you fucked up and at this point it doesn’t matter whether or not you see a future with her.
If you want a chance of winning her back, you need to show her that you’re a better man. Instead of thinking about how to make her get back with you, think about what you can do to better yourself. At the end of the day, if she doesn’t want you back then you need to respect that and take what you learned with you into your next relationship.