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Celebrate your graduation a different day with her. It sucks she had that attitude and wasn't more tactful in how she told you her plans though. I can see being upset by that.
Ah, so you were one if the clueless commenters who only cares about themselves and doesn't care about other. Given your comments to this OP that makes sense.
However, I had been out of town and decided to come back a day early, finding Michael in this state. I've left the two at home for a couple days in the past, so he might've been restricting the substance abuse to those periods.
I’m sorry, but he is being manipulative. You’ve mentioned THRRE times that he’s betrayed you (in only 7 months) and then sweet talked his way back into your good books with a bunch of BS excuses – it’s HER fault for being ‘toxic?’
She may well be, but it was HIS decision to go along with her encouragement to cheat. But he just threw all the blame at her.
It should not be this much of a roller coaster and tension filed relationship this early on. ?
You acted like you were going to hit her, after the fact right- that is also awful, but you did not hit her, and she had just spit on you. Spitting on a person is considered simple assault. Why are you the one in legal trouble for this altercation?
All the more reason to get out now before you sink any more years into this dead-end relationship. And ask yourself why you put up with such poor treatment from him – you likely have learned some dysfunctional relationship dynamics somewhere between birth and now. Therapy can help you face these faulty patterns so you don't end up in a similar situation in the future.
Due to the fact that I give a ton of advice on here and have seen many situations like this, I can assure you that this would bother a lot of people, but at the end of the day, anecdotes don't matter, because they're not you or your situation.
Personally, if my ex slept with someone after our break up, there would be no what if, because I probably wouldn't know, but I legitimately wouldn't care if I did, because the relationship is over. You're not in a situation where you need to say that it's not an excuse that it happened while partying. Why? Because you don't need to excuse what you did. You're single.
Did you mess up for good? Let's put things into perspective; you had a bad breakup. There's logically issues in the relationship that weren't addressed which led to this breakup. You sleeping around ruins the relationship for good? Whether you slept around or not, if you get back together are the issues now magically gone?
Well, her priorities are out of whack. Do the pets see the vet regularly? Are they fully vaccinated? If not, that’s a huge problem, if you can’t afford a place to live, how can you afford to properly care for these pets?
She does want to continue the friendship, and she wants to continue building her new relationship, which I wholeheartedly support. But her gf’s 180 about the situation put her in a lose-lose position. It’s basically a subtle ultimatum without saying it straightforward, and I don’t think it was fair of her to do.
I don’t understand why there’s so much animosity in your comments. I feel like you’re functioning on an assumption that I truly feel this “ownership” over her and want to “cause trouble in the relationship” — because I am doing the complete opposite. I want to keep a friendship that matters to both of us WITHOUT causing any trouble to the growing relationship. And fucking off as you so kindly suggested isn’t the solution, but thanks for your input.
Celebrate your graduation a different day with her. It sucks she had that attitude and wasn't more tactful in how she told you her plans though. I can see being upset by that.
Ah, so you were one if the clueless commenters who only cares about themselves and doesn't care about other. Given your comments to this OP that makes sense.
If you’re splitting rent/utilities, you should be splitting housework in a way that works for both of you. A relationship is a partnership.
This was the first!
However, I had been out of town and decided to come back a day early, finding Michael in this state. I've left the two at home for a couple days in the past, so he might've been restricting the substance abuse to those periods.
I’m sorry, but he is being manipulative. You’ve mentioned THRRE times that he’s betrayed you (in only 7 months) and then sweet talked his way back into your good books with a bunch of BS excuses – it’s HER fault for being ‘toxic?’
She may well be, but it was HIS decision to go along with her encouragement to cheat. But he just threw all the blame at her.
It should not be this much of a roller coaster and tension filed relationship this early on. ?
She spit on you. That is awful.
You acted like you were going to hit her, after the fact right- that is also awful, but you did not hit her, and she had just spit on you. Spitting on a person is considered simple assault. Why are you the one in legal trouble for this altercation?
You don't like each other's kids.
I think you should divorce.
All the more reason to get out now before you sink any more years into this dead-end relationship. And ask yourself why you put up with such poor treatment from him – you likely have learned some dysfunctional relationship dynamics somewhere between birth and now. Therapy can help you face these faulty patterns so you don't end up in a similar situation in the future.
can you link the post lol ? sorry v curious
how long have you been working on it ?
Everyone starts weak.
Due to the fact that I give a ton of advice on here and have seen many situations like this, I can assure you that this would bother a lot of people, but at the end of the day, anecdotes don't matter, because they're not you or your situation.
Personally, if my ex slept with someone after our break up, there would be no what if, because I probably wouldn't know, but I legitimately wouldn't care if I did, because the relationship is over. You're not in a situation where you need to say that it's not an excuse that it happened while partying. Why? Because you don't need to excuse what you did. You're single.
Did you mess up for good? Let's put things into perspective; you had a bad breakup. There's logically issues in the relationship that weren't addressed which led to this breakup. You sleeping around ruins the relationship for good? Whether you slept around or not, if you get back together are the issues now magically gone?
Well, her priorities are out of whack. Do the pets see the vet regularly? Are they fully vaccinated? If not, that’s a huge problem, if you can’t afford a place to live, how can you afford to properly care for these pets?
She does want to continue the friendship, and she wants to continue building her new relationship, which I wholeheartedly support. But her gf’s 180 about the situation put her in a lose-lose position. It’s basically a subtle ultimatum without saying it straightforward, and I don’t think it was fair of her to do.
I don’t understand why there’s so much animosity in your comments. I feel like you’re functioning on an assumption that I truly feel this “ownership” over her and want to “cause trouble in the relationship” — because I am doing the complete opposite. I want to keep a friendship that matters to both of us WITHOUT causing any trouble to the growing relationship. And fucking off as you so kindly suggested isn’t the solution, but thanks for your input.