She was wearing his hoodie. It’s a 30 second walk into the restaurant. I’m pissed. She knows it and tried to say she was crying and that she wasn’t going out anymore. I told her to have fun tonight and we will have a talk tomorrow. Don’t worry about me, just have fun. Now she won’t leave me alone. That was just the ultimate spit in the face to me. I’m not happy. I want her to have fun tonight but tomorrow I’m spilling all of the beans.
he needs therapy. you can’t do anything to change him. all you can do is support him. you might not be experienced enough to handle this and that’s ok. no 21 year old is. it is worse to lead him on v. temporary heartbreak. he’s a big boy. he can handle it.
She was wearing his hoodie. It’s a 30 second walk into the restaurant. I’m pissed. She knows it and tried to say she was crying and that she wasn’t going out anymore. I told her to have fun tonight and we will have a talk tomorrow. Don’t worry about me, just have fun. Now she won’t leave me alone. That was just the ultimate spit in the face to me. I’m not happy. I want her to have fun tonight but tomorrow I’m spilling all of the beans.
NGL my first thought was “does she have some sort of non-consent fantasy” cause apparently that's a thing.
So you decided to have a baby with a man that is married? How exactly did you expect this to work out?
Simple answer…
Just move on, he's dishonest and that's unlikely to be confined to this one issue.
Ok, well that obviously changes everything entirely and you should leave the abusive partner that had just threatened to kill you.
he needs therapy. you can’t do anything to change him. all you can do is support him. you might not be experienced enough to handle this and that’s ok. no 21 year old is. it is worse to lead him on v. temporary heartbreak. he’s a big boy. he can handle it.