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so, just to be clear, he was okay with receiving a decidedly one-sided sexual act without you receiving pleasure? is that right?
my answer overall is, it varies. extremely insecure people will feel extremely insecure. if you are having to use a vibe/dildo for most/all of your sexual acts, you're either completely incompatible or need to talk about how to GIVE EACH OTHER pleasure equally to satisfy each other.
if he's upset you're making yourself cum while making HIM cum, i would personally seriously reconsider the arrangement entirely. either we both discuss our sexual needs and expectations and go from there, or i am gone. the end. he is either selfish, extremely insecure, or both, and i don't have time for that. he can play with your pussy or let you find a way. the end.
I personally don’t drink and he’s always been adamant that he doesn’t really drink either. However I wasn’t aware he was drinking on his shifts, or after work with coworkers. When he does drink around me he can’t seem to control himself and often doesn’t know when to stop. Hence the discussions / boundaries we put in place for not drinking alone with people of the opposite gender. He also said he would of personally been very uncomfortable if I was doing those things also.
However, when I asked why he felt it was ok this time, he started talking about his ex always doing it and him thinking it wasn’t such a serious issue if he did the same in our relationship? Since in his last relationship that behaviour was normal (drinking alone, going back to a person of the other genders house). But in the last he’d also told me he suspected his ex was cheating on him when she did those things? So the thing honestly just makes no sense and he just seems to get very defensive. I’m not her afterall and have completely different boundaries which I’ve been super clear on?
Nope, congratulating her will send off mixed signals. Leave her alone and let her live her life. You do the same. It’s great that you feel happy for her, but those NC boundaries are there for a reason. You can be happy for her from afar and if you can’t, you need to figure out why that is.
First, I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. I can relate to your situation a little bit but may be able to provide better insight to your wife's actions from my perspective. The situations are different but I do think I recognize her behaviors since I have reacted a similar way with my bf recently.
My boyfriend (previously fiance) was abusive in several ways and the only way I knew how to respond was to try everything I could to help him and our relationship. Flash forward 3 years and I found myself becoming more and more detached from him emotionally. He crossed a line and we separated for a little over a year.
I then lost my job and had no choice but to let him move back in. We have been attempting to reconcile since then but it's been rocky at best. I have found myselfbat times to be just be completely emotionally detached from him and it has become complicated by feelings I developed for a coworker over the course of nearly 3 years (didn't fully admit it to myself until I separated from bf).
I think like me, your wife checked out emotionally from you because she became invested in someone else. I think once partners no longer feels safe confiding in one another it can be really hard to get that safety and comfort back. At least that has been my experience. I can feel your anguish with trying to figure out what to do. I am currently in that same boat and can only say that only you know what is right for you and your family.
It's hard to let go of someone when they also have wonderful parts to them. I wish you the best of luck and I hope whatever you decide, I hope it works out for the best for all involved. Good luck OP ?
Im not sure if that can be considered OCD, however I can tell you that if you dont see a future then you probably should talk your insecurities over with your partner now.
I was raised by religious grandparents and an atheist mum who gave me the choice to choose if I wanted to be religious or not, so as long as you are ready to respect your children it shouldnt be an issue
And yes, the doubt of not having dated anyone else is pretty common, the question you should ask yourself is “did I even want to date anyone else after we got together?” Considering as well that even if you notice in the future that you are not suited for each other or if you want to go out with other people is never too late to break things off
Everyone has doubts on their relationships, the younger you are and the least experience you have, the more anxious you will get about these things. Just take your time, raise up these intrusive thoughts with your partner and decide together if it is something that can be solved.
Don’t tell your mom or brother yet. Right (like a private convo at the airport with him) before you leave, tell him you know all about it and how it has made you feel. Be steady, strong, and firm. Tell him you haven’t decided what to do with this info yet, you’re still processing the incredible betrayal. Then leave and don’t communicate directly with him until you’re face to face when you get back. Then go have the best time studying abroad, knowing that whatever comes you and your family will deal with it.
Women need to have shame? And you’re going to check her phone? What century are you from!?
If you're worried she thinks you're a “pussy” you're with the wrong woman.
He's an idiot. You are 19. Minimum age to get implants ( at least in Canada is 19 for saline and 22 for silicone). It might be younger (18) in the US. So while you were having issues at home you were able to save enough money to get implants as soon as you turned 18? He's manipulating you which is easier cuz he has 12 years of being an adult on you.
When some beople have boundaries, sometimes the reaction of their partners is to pick at them constantly because they can't interpret them in any other way than a personal rejection to them.
Being excluded or precluded from something becomes a fixed idea and they can't stop wanting to push the big red button just because it's there.
WHat you do, is sit him down an have one last discussion on the topic.
Tell him all of what you told us – He entered in a relationship with someone who has to take some time off once a month to make sure they are mentally ok.
This is a non-negotiable thing for you (sure, if there were an emergency, you might reschedule your week-end, you aren't a psycho, but this is something you need in your life).
If he can't accept this, you are not suited for each other.
Give him all the time he needs to talk about it one last time, and then the topic will be closed. You expect him to honor your space and not bother you when you are away.
Now, if you plan to have other children together, I can see this becoming a huge problem. Taking off one week-end a month and leaving the childcare of an infant/toddler completely on your partner isn't something you do, not with the frequency you have been doing, at least.
(Is he a single parent? Maybe he looks at this in this light – if you plan to have another child the burden on the person who takes on childcare skyrockets, I assume that he has an ex with whom he shares custody here).
Now, if his issue is not based on his worry that potential children might feel a sense of abandonment that might scar them, it's one thing, if he just can't help to poke at you because he, as an adult, feels excluded and ignored you have a problem on your hands.