You’re over complicating it with the sexualities. Someone performed a sexual act on your partner right next to you, your partner did not ask them to stop and laughed about it. Partner then doesn’t think it’s a big deal when you bring up the hurt it causes you and your concerns.
Exploring sexualities isn’t the issue, S just isn’t a good person. Go find someone better
Agreed, the crazier thing is she wants to pick one of the most high maintenance and sensitive dogs there is. It's arguably the worst dog to pick in this scenario if you “had” to pick one. It can't with the old dog without a significant chance of hurting it and it takes up a lot of the time and attention, so as you pointed out the old dog would feel abandoned
LOL – I see your point. I was more trying to reassure an inexperienced young woman that she shouldn't take her BF's reaction to heart. I know that if the first woman I was intimate with reacted with disgust to my body I would need years of therapy to recover from that.
Once the trust is gone it's nearly impossible to fix. You won't have a relationship like you had – you might have a relationship you can live with, but that's a personal issue. I don't think I could overcome that. Don't stay in an unhealthy environment for the kids, they can tell. I'd also recommend at least consulting with a divorce attorney so you know what it would entail.
You’re over complicating it with the sexualities. Someone performed a sexual act on your partner right next to you, your partner did not ask them to stop and laughed about it. Partner then doesn’t think it’s a big deal when you bring up the hurt it causes you and your concerns.
Exploring sexualities isn’t the issue, S just isn’t a good person. Go find someone better
Agreed, the crazier thing is she wants to pick one of the most high maintenance and sensitive dogs there is. It's arguably the worst dog to pick in this scenario if you “had” to pick one. It can't with the old dog without a significant chance of hurting it and it takes up a lot of the time and attention, so as you pointed out the old dog would feel abandoned
Is it worth it to ask them about it?
What question do you want to ask? If he was just kidding all those times when he said he doesn't want kids?
LOL – I see your point. I was more trying to reassure an inexperienced young woman that she shouldn't take her BF's reaction to heart. I know that if the first woman I was intimate with reacted with disgust to my body I would need years of therapy to recover from that.
Once the trust is gone it's nearly impossible to fix. You won't have a relationship like you had – you might have a relationship you can live with, but that's a personal issue. I don't think I could overcome that. Don't stay in an unhealthy environment for the kids, they can tell. I'd also recommend at least consulting with a divorce attorney so you know what it would entail.
Already done. Lemon Water and crystal light for me
By breaking up with her so she actually understands how serious it is. How does she keep getting it from her family?