What about just going with the flow, and seeing where it takes us without saying anything? I feel like I don't need to declare taking things slow. That sounds a bit awkward.
Imo it's pathetic that these guys haven't had enough control of themselves to not let you know they're about to cum. They might feel genuinely sorry, but that doesn't mean they didn't have the opportunity to let you know they were close to finishing.
When someone you don't know the preference of is giving you a blowjob, your natural reaction should be to let them know when you feel the urge to cum. It should be natural to want the girl to make the decision she's comfortable with. If a guy doesn't feel that way or understand that concept, he shouldn't be having sex. And this is just talking about guys who don't know the preference of the girl giving them a BJ. If you know she's uncomfortable with it in her mouth you should absolutely do everything in your power to make sure you're not cumming in there. A guy that actually respects you and your feelings would NEVER let it happen.
If there’s no issue might be on Reddit just do it then. You’re a grown adult you confirm your relationship anyway you want you don’t need anybody’s approval. I don’t believe poly relationships work at all their superficial and sexual which is OK for experimentation, but when most people involved them in the romantic relationship and ends it pretty quickly within a matter of months to go downhill. They’re both secrets one of you won’t be comfortable.
No.
Well I can't do that so it's not very helpful advice
What about just going with the flow, and seeing where it takes us without saying anything? I feel like I don't need to declare taking things slow. That sounds a bit awkward.
Imo it's pathetic that these guys haven't had enough control of themselves to not let you know they're about to cum. They might feel genuinely sorry, but that doesn't mean they didn't have the opportunity to let you know they were close to finishing.
When someone you don't know the preference of is giving you a blowjob, your natural reaction should be to let them know when you feel the urge to cum. It should be natural to want the girl to make the decision she's comfortable with. If a guy doesn't feel that way or understand that concept, he shouldn't be having sex. And this is just talking about guys who don't know the preference of the girl giving them a BJ. If you know she's uncomfortable with it in her mouth you should absolutely do everything in your power to make sure you're not cumming in there. A guy that actually respects you and your feelings would NEVER let it happen.
So basically, yeah, all of those dudes were POSs.
If there’s no issue might be on Reddit just do it then. You’re a grown adult you confirm your relationship anyway you want you don’t need anybody’s approval. I don’t believe poly relationships work at all their superficial and sexual which is OK for experimentation, but when most people involved them in the romantic relationship and ends it pretty quickly within a matter of months to go downhill. They’re both secrets one of you won’t be comfortable.
maybe the reddit stories are getting to me lol