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No, you cannot accidentally be a gaslighter.
Gaslighting is when you wilfully and maliciously lie in order to make another person question their own reality or recollection of events.
This is not the same as disagreeing on what happened. This is not the same as misremembering. This is not the same as miscommunication. This is not the same as a straight-up lie.
Disagreeing on what happened:
Person A: Person A: Did you take my slow cooker? Person B: I thought you said I could borrow it until Christmas. Person A: No, I said that you could have it until Thanksgiving.
Misremembering:
Person A: Did you take my slow cooker? Person B: No. Person A: But isn’t that it in your car? Person B: Oh, yes it is! I’m sorry, I totally forgot that I borrowed it.
Miscommunication:
Person A: Did you take my slow cooker? Person B: Yes, you said I could. Person A: No, I didn’t. I said you could use it while you’re here. Person B: Oh, gosh, I’m sorry! I’ll fetch it.
Straight-up lie:
Person A: Did you take my slow cooker? Person B: No. Person A: But it’s in your car. Person B: That’s mine, I bought it.
Gaslighting:
Person A: Did you take my slow cooker? Person B: Yes, of course I did. You gave it to me. Person A: What? No, I didn’t. Person B: Yes, you did. You put it in my car yourself and told me to have it. You can’t go back on your word now.
As you can see, gaslighting takes conscious effort. You can’t accidentally gaslight someone.
for example a few nights about she had a math problem and I gave her an example similar to it. she didnt bother looking at my example and said “i dont remember learning this” to which i said “i gave an example” and she said “you dont have to be an asshole / condescending. that ended up being a 2-3 day long fight
shes not doing well because shes not trying. she is giving, playing games, and not figuring out why she suddenly cant focus anymore.
we are now fighting because im sitting here watching her play video games half assly studying. I keep asking her if she will be ok, retaining anything, and she left saying I am an asshole for reminding her about her flaws.
My bad, I didn’t mean to say they could be. I meant like, as an alternative route to find the messages he could even try to log in. I worded it poorly
Ouch… I'm so sorry you had such a bad experience with someone… I promise I'm not just shoveling junk food. I am not particularly watching what I eat, but I try to be aware.
I'll try to take it up a step. Intermittent fasting shouldn't be hard and I'll keep an eye on my portion sizes. One thing I know: I'm not selfish enough to make someone else's life miserable for my own enjoyment.
They are not your friends they see you as an object. I suggest you get new friends. It’s one thing to be sexually attracted to your friends but to tell them in this way sounds like they don’t even respect you. They are just playing the game out in hopes that you fuck them.