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Its not a boundary for “most men,” just young insecure ones.
Yes, I have considered that. But I don't think I'm to be honest.
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Can you change how your parents think just talking to them?
You reply:
“I’m sorry, i never meant to make you feel that way. I do think you’re attractive and i appreciate your kindness in paying after i acted like a fucking buffoon who’s never spoken to a woman before. Please forgive me.”
And then you never speak to her or another woman ever again until you get LOTS of therapy detailing why the fuck you’re a misogynistic asshole. Jesus, how do your exist in polite society.
Tell him to pay for a polygraph test!
THIS! Every woman should read this book!
I’ve told him that several times and he says he accuses me cuz he’s afraid to lose me. Because I attract a lot of male attention.
You’re going to have to break up. Bc if she has kids with you she’ll start to resent you, and vice versa. It’s best to just break it off now before it becomes really expensive.
What incentive does he have to tell the truth?
Leave, man is trying to have a power over you. The “we’re not in a relationship” card is one thing. But me and you both know that actions and words are different. You’re acting like you’re in a relationship and he’s treating you like somebody you’d be in a relationship with. That being said. Sounds like he’s a control freak who needs to have every aspect of his life (including his women) controlled and going his way.
I’d sit down and talk with him and say “this this and this is very concerning behavior, I need explanations..etc” time for the rubber to meet the road and to really lay out the nature of your relationship I’d say. Do you really wanna live like that? Afraid of even a interaction with him
The red flag here is you are looking too hard for red flags, due to prior relationship trauma. He said he didn't want to settle down any time soon, not never. Now you quote him as saying he won't settle down. You are indeed taking his statement out of context. Maybe you need to work on your emotional reactions and self-confidence before you date, so you are not extra sensitive to problems that may not be there.
Thank you that's a good point. And he has been working to include me in his plans and make sure I'm not just laying in bed, which was helping til yesterday.
I hadn't thought about the fact that he could be thinking about his mortality. We really did expect to see our BIL for years, and he's just gone, with no sign that he was going to pass. BIL died younger than husband is right now, so it makes sense.
Many people explode without good reason. It lets them control the conversation, intimidate others, or get their way. They may claim to have a reason, like wifey got the wrong type of olives at the store or put the thermostat up a degree too high.
“HE WON'T BEND TO HIS PARENTS' APPROVAL”
“ONCE HE SETTLES INTO ADULTHOOD (ONLY 20 RIGHT NOW)”
“WHO WOULDN'T WANT THEIR CHILD DATING A DOCTOR”
“MEET UP AT LEAST ONCE”
just putting some bullet points up for anyone missing the complete context of your message, which is encouraging a fully grown woman who is absolutely unhinged to meet up with a VERY young “man” completely out of her appropriate age range. just making sure we all know where both of you stand! thanks for being very clear about how disgusting you both clearly are, it makes it easy for the rest of us. kudos!
How did everyone react? What was the vibe in the room? Were there any follow up comments or questions? So many questions lol
Spammer
Did you ask her to explain how exactly your friend is a bad influence on you? Did you try to understand her point of view?
What “like to party occasionally together” means? Your girlfriend is not invited to the party?
Is she partying alone with her friends?
What you're describing is an extremely controlling relationship that's situationally abusive that you've gaslit yourself and been gaslit into thinking this is the perfect relationship. You have your whole life ahead of you, is this all you've told yourself you deserve? Sounds like you've been through a lot personally, and you two have become way too codependent. You have a therapist, they will help you through the break up which will probably be the best for you both so you can both be more independent and self confident. Also, anyone who's willing to abuse strangers in public (especially women unprovoked) is scary and unpredictable at best. Just because he doesn't do it every time you go out doesn't meant that's not exactly who he is. Don't defend or normalize abuse. Without help and a willingness to change that will only escalate and eventually turn towards you. This is not a healthy relationship at all.
They can refer you to a good one though.
Yes, very similar to children when they learn what a dog is and point and yell “dog” at every vaguely dog looking four-legged creature.
You need to approach things very carefully, you can both end up getting really hurt here. He just got out of a relationship that probably looked like it was going to last his whole life. There’s no doubt he will compare nearly every relationship he has to that one; and I’m surprised that he’s already dating 4 months later. There’s a huge void in his life right now, and although he’s had 4 months to get adjusted to the new day-to-day routine, I can’t imagine that he’s already fully happy and comfortable living without her. Bringing in a new girlfriend into his life would just be filling that void of attention and love, and once the honeymoon phase wears off I’d be afraid of all this pain resurfacing. I’m extra concerned because you were part of the help in his healing — I’m worried of some codependency developing.
I would say to ask him what he’s looking for in the dating scene rn. Maybe he’s just looking for sex and flings, in which case I’d keep things to yourself for a while. I don’t think he should be seriously dating yet personally, but if he then you can confess your feelings to him. Tell him that you know he’s out of a relationship and that he needs time to heal, but that you wanted to get your feelings out there so he can respond once he feels ready. Tell him you’re willing to go slowly, and if you’re willing to wait a bit for him to heal then let him know.
Good luck to you both!
So he was dating a 23 year old when he was like 30…. right.
Tell mom.
Ghost bf and dad.
Therapy.
I once told I guy I was a Nun. He was still interested and followed my friends and I for another hour around the beach.
I REALLY hope this is fake. I feel sick thinking about your poor wife. How do you cheat for five years. FIVE whole years- 1825 days. And then to say it's for LUST. What the actual fuck. Sounds like the other women got tired of being the other women, you probably strung her along saying you were going to leave your wife and she got tired of your BS and gave you the boot.
I hope you grow up and sort your shit out. You have set a poor example to your daughter. If you want to be “complete” again and your wife actually wants to give you another chance (I don't know how she could even begin to trust you) then you need to work on yourself and go to counseling and start appreciating your wife for even considering giving you a chance after five years of your bullshit.
Fuck.
I assume this last time he forced sex on you.
The new laws state that what occurred was rape.
There was a time is wasn't for married people
Dude she’s right if your not down for it, leave. She’s telling you her boundaries and telling you they will not change. There isn’t anything you can do so if you don’t want to live like that then leave, it happens.
Love bombed, controlled, being stalked… wants you to dedicate your life to him???
Don't run. Make a safe exit plan, contact any local services that will help domestic abuse victims safely leave (they may also be able to set you up accommodations, doesn't have to be a shelter, sometimes there are secure apartments available!) I say don't run because just from this post my brain is SCREAMING “⚠️DANGER!!!⚠️” and I want you to get out as safely as possible, unfortunately leaving these relationships can become dangerous
Please take care of yourself ❤️
Because she is clearly smarter about money than you are. It’s a bad idea and it was a bad idea for you to put her name as a co-owner of your house but she persuaded you and that worked in her favor. You need to go take a finance class so you understand how you should do this.
If you're too embarrassed to say this, maybe write him a letter?
Talk to him of course, but farting a lot can be a digestive issue, so doctor appt might be useful. Also things that help, digestive enzymes, elimination diet to figure out if allergies are causing it (diary is a big culprit) probiotics, and beano.
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Everything about this gives me the creeps, I think you’re absolutely justified in feeling uncomfortable because it’s really fucking weird.
Given this boyfriend's age you might chalk this intransigence up to immaturity. But that, and likely other things too, are the reasons you're NOT “ready to get married”. Not only are you both too young for a premature marriage to have any shot of success, but he's at war with your family. You can't proceed this way. So you might give him a few years to grow up. Or you might cut your losses now and move on. This stubbornness of his probably isn't limited to just this rift with your family. People like this are just really hard to have productive relationships with.
Hugs, so first off your spouse needs to be told he's married to you, not his bestie. He should not be making plans with you and canceling them for his buddy either short notice or long term. You are his ride and die. If he thinks his buddy is all that then he shouldn't have gotten engaged or married. Also, important dates need to be on a shared calendar, your birthday, valentines day, Christmas, your anniversary.
Was that supposed to be in a joint account? Did you not check the account balance /statement
The only reason we aren’t already living together is because of money and I have thought about that and talked to him about it and I’ve even told him that she needs to see him treating me better and I’m not trying to make this all about just us and neglecting her I’m just trying to get advice about this one issue and not advice on everything else
Showering twice a week is completely inadequate and your wife needs to understand that her poor hygiene is an issue.
For some reason, people that neglect their hygiene always seem to react defensively when told about it rather than being mortified. I’m not sure how you can get through to her other than to stop tip-toing around and tell her gently but firmly that you do love her and are attracted to her but her poor showing schedule is a turn-off and it would be for almost anyone.
You broke up 5 months ago, just stop talking to him. You have zero obligation to help him – let his family and friends step in.
That would be soooooo irritating to me!
Make your lazy, deficient son provide for you. Since you spent all your money on him he owes you. And that’s what he’s supposed to do “in your culture.” Your daughter, once she married into her husband’s family became his problem – per your “in your culture.”
She’s not a psychopath … but you are. Which is why you refuse to accept that everybody 100% understands what you did to your daughter (especially). Your “good boy, non-back-talking, compliant son” is acting exactly as a result of how you raised him. Maybe you have lots of grandchildren already? When he got teenaged girls pregnant. But you don’t know about them because he gave every boy the name ‘Jacob’ and every girl baby his sister’s name. So you wouldn’t find out. Like he learned from you about how to hide illegitimate children.
The fact that you’ve been together less than a year but are in counseling is very telling. She sounds exhausting.
She don't love you tho bro.
It's not a bait and switch. There's a huge difference between being early 20s and dreaming about things, without actually knowing what you would be getting into, to being 30 and actually it's more real and you are an adult.
Just stick with it. Eventually he will leave his wife for you.
It sounds like you would be better off without him, you sound like you have your life ahead of you don’t be stuck in a relationship like that. It’s horrible when you don’t feel love from your partner (both ways) and especially when they put you down they are not worth it. I’ve been there and the best decision was to move on even though it hurt it would of hurt longer if I didn’t make a move.
Do you think that maybe your wife would like to not be stuck at home or left with your child and no support? Or maybe she’d like to be with you? YTA. Maybe your friend can help with your own ikea furniture once your wife kicks you out.
You should leave him. He’s a predator
Sexual incompatibility is a deal breaker, generally.
But as for how you should feel, I guess don’t feel too bad some men just have to cum everyday.
Just remember, she did this because she felt worthless, not because she thought you were.
Hope you get full custody of your kids and there's no common law marriage bs where you live. Let her wallow~ one day you'll put this behind you and find happiness again, but she'll never forgive herself for what she did.
I agree – I don’t think he should have had to tell her to begin with. Not every single sexual detail needs to be given, she knew the bulk of it. If this was AITA I’d say NAH because this sucks for them both and she definitely needs space, but I don’t see this as an egregious lie and I also think her telling the adult children is immature of her.
She is causing harm and it’s not cool.
But she didn't go off on her dad? She didn't go off on her bf? She has feeling and is seeking ways to react in a healthy way, which is why she is asking advice here. So neither a mog nor her dad nor her bf have to deal with her going off.
And it is very logical that someone's dad, who was still married to her mom, has a lot of connections to her mom and painful memories. OP said so herself it is a HER problem and she doesn't want to be mad at her dad for dating. She just wished her dad had some compassion for how is dating life might have an affect on his daughter who is living with him and the grief of losing her mother.
Now, is OP dealing with that grief in a bit of unhealthy way? Sure. And people gave her plenty of advice on that. But acting like she can't have feelings about the first time her dad is dating is very silly.
I have compromised already, but he seems unwilling to work with me.
Your MIL has poor health, but yet she is the one sleeping in the living room? Why doesn’t BIL give up his space? Now that he is employed, in the interest of what is best for his mothers health, he needs to move to his own apartment, so she can have his old room to beat facilitate her recovery . Freeing up the living room for you to work. Do Not back down. You are being treated horribly
Yep, it's just like weight watchers. Same thing with unrestricted foods and limited categories of others. Didn't enough of us watch our parents yoyo diet with this stuff? She already did it once and gained back everything she lost and more.
I don't agree with her girlfriend's tone or behavior, but I would recommend taking a healthier route to weight loss. It's not always easy to figure out what's sustainable for ourselves, but some weird program with category a and category b foods and a platinum award if you decide to exercise is likely not to be it long-term.
So, there is a HUGE difference in the stigma one faces from genital herpes vs oral cold sores. It’s pretty disingenuous to pretend otherwise. There have been countless first person essays written by people with genital herpes about their experiences disclosing to partners and getting dumped, shamed, made to feel disgusting. Whereas most people accept cold sores as a fact of life. This is obviously a fucked up societal issue, but it’s definitely true. So your experience cannot be compared. I actually semi-agree with you to a point – I think that gentils herpes should be disclosed, but I also understand why someone would wait until they felt more comfortable with their partner, knowing that it could cause that person to ghost them. Personally, I think that if you’re comfortable enough to drop protection, you should be more than comfortable disclosing any health issues that could be transferred to a partner, no matter how unlikely.
I feel so stupid and wondering why I am hesitating so much