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Grief and the I am sure your traumatic delivery, along with the additional support his mom needs it all adds up to being overwhelmed. He is also having to supply his mom with emotional support when his is very well depleted. Sometimes there are community health centers that offer sliding scale fees for services. I don’t know if he would go for it but many locations and possibly online offer bereavement support groups. He sounds like he really needs a hand and you are a good spouse to see it.
You need to have an honest conversation with him approach him asking him ask him honestly how are you doing. Tell him you how much you are doing for everyone and you are concerned. What can you do to help. See if that may open the conversation about him getting help.
About intimacy and your pregnancy, my friend husband witnessed her bleed out after delivery and it scared him very badly and took a long time for him to recover. He was afraid to get his wife pregnant again so he avoided her at all costs. He finally admitted that and got help. This is another reason why I think your husband needs therapy. Maybe couples counseling to bring his avoidance and fear and your lack of intimacy out in a neutral environment.
Try this with him. Ask him for a kiss or just give him a kiss. Run your hand along his arm when you walk by. Invite touch back into your relationship. It might be only you at first, but give him time to start to reciprocate. Sometimes it’s the little things we do help do much.
He really needs to work on himself if your child is avoiding him, he is missing moments he can’t get back. I wish you well, sending my support and a hug.
I (28F) honestly would be frustrated with it too. But I can be a little finicky about that kind of stuff.
On the opposite side, I will often start talking about something I was thinking about with no surrounding context—or I will talk without using proper nouns and just a bunch of he/she/they/them to wear my husband is like, “I have no idea who you are talking about.”
But I will always pause, back track, fix it, and try again.
There are times where I feel that he makes connections to things that I don’t understand just because it’s not the same way I would view it.
In the example of your wife saying the friend is doing well because he’s a protagonist. A protagonist in and of itself is the “good guy” of a story (or often the main character). But a protagonist in the personality test has less to do with “being the good guy” and more just an explanation of how he is likely to respond to the situations around him and the people he interacts with.
In instances like this, it could be less that one of you is wrong in your understanding and more so that you guys are just coming at it from different angles.
When that happens, just ask her to explain her train of thought. It’s okay to say, “I think that’s an interesting take or connection, but I don’t fully understand it. Can you explain your train of thought so I can understand your viewpoint better?”
have you tried to communicate that feeling of distance? i know it might seem pointless but some people start to decrease their efforts in relationships when they get too comfortable and stop feeling the need to still chase their partners (which is usually a given. you’re dating. woo your partner). even though this is a flaw, they don’t even notice this change in their own behavior and feel like everything is going perfectly fine in the relationship.
if he doesn’t change after communicating, dump his ass. or you could do it rn if you feel like it’s not even worth all of that. ball is in your court.
Maybe tell her you love her so much and you love when her hair is freshly washed because it smells so good, and ask her if she could wash it more often for you. But if she’s not taking care of her hygiene it could be depression . So that needs to be addressed too.