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Date: October 27, 2022
Remind me why you want to be friends with this person?
I didn't make it clear in the post but I am 100% going to give her the rest of her shit back, was just asking mainly about what else to say to her to draw a line under the whole thing.
Beat me to the comment. Never let anyone demean you for setting a boundary.
I mean, if your going to watch porn why not watch women that are the most attractive to Men? You don’t go to a steakhouse to order a pasta
Reallyyyyy she wants your resources while you get jackshit??
I cheated with my sister bc we took a bath together in 1988
All off the very little info here butt…
Hell no this is a red flag! She is what I call a hopper and has to have her next option in the bag before she can get the current one she is with out of the bed. Men and women do this and it is toxic and often leads to them cheating.
I have also seen cheaters use the line of “I have never broken up with anyone” as if it is a virtue meanwhile avoiding the fact that they cheated.
She is spineless for herself, she is codependent, she NEEDS to be in a relationship, she doesn't communicate well in the relationship, she isn't getting help to mend or willing to let go of the relationship… do you really want that in YOUR relationship? Do YOU want to be in the same situation her current BF is in?
Emotional manipulation only works if the person chooses to abide by it.
She could choose to say no to her parents but she is choosing not to.
I don't think most of these comments are helpful. You can't physically do anything to your sister, but legally you can file charges. And yes, get your dog into a safe place. He will come around once he knows he's safe again. It's hard to have a dog in an apartment and as a student, but he needs you to remove him from that home for his physical and mental health.
We let my brother in law watch our dogs overnight once three years ago, and one of my dogs still growls at him when he comes around. I don't know what happened, but he won't watch them again. You just have to listen to your dog sometimes.
I didn't reply to his first message and he has been typing for like 10 minutes haha I don't think I will reply but im curious to see what he will say
See, no actual person would say this like what the fuck. Mind your business, it’s not even a question of the lifestyle, it’s a question of what to concern yourself with. Just because you’re related doesn’t mean you have any say in her choices.
That’s… definitely not normal that’s some weird fetish he should probably see someone about tbh
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Does this only come up after consuming alcohol
So there are basically 4 things you can do, in no particular order: 1. Do nothing unless you find out that the pictures are online, 2. Try to entrap him as others have suggested, 3. Tell his mom, and 4. Warn him that distributing thses photos to anyone is a criminal offense, and if he does, you will have him prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. And then if you care about identifiable pics finding their way to the internet, just. don’t. share nude photos; it may seem like a good idea at the time, but how creepy is it that someone you’re not with has access to your nudes forever? Most relationships end in breakups.
She just played you my dude! Don't go tit for tat but let's see her actions.
For whatever reason this says to me “she's either cheating or wants to break up”
that's a lot imo too. but it all comes down to personal preference. and there's so many external factors like menstruation, medication, etc.
hmmm i mean tinder is pretty common with people my age and my friend groups idk?? i’ll deffo be careful but you’ve got me kinda worried now
I know I'm going to sound like an asshole because I feel like one. Simply put, I don't want to be in a sober relationship.
You don’t sound like an asshole, you are an asshole
I feel in an awkward position where OF COURSE I wouldn't pressure my partner to drink, but I also don't like drinking alone, and while I think our relationship is healthy, I think if we took out the going out and drinking I would be bored out of my mind.
Your relationship obviously isn’t healthy if the only way you able to have fun is through alcohol
I just feel like a downright sh*tty person and like a likely alcoholic if I am seriously choosing drinking over my partner.
You are a shitty person and it kinda sounds like you, at the very least have a drinking problem.
I don't really have a specific question I'm seeking advice for. I guess I just don't know how to sensitively broach the subject. Maybe if anyone has experienced something similar from either point bof view of sober dating?
Advice, if you are choosing someone you describe as having a good and healthy relationship with, because they won’t get drunk with you anymore. You should really break up with them because they deserve someone better.
Engagement ring
So he married her when she was 12? You don't even know basic arithmetic
Bro.
Does it need to be said that someone who can spend 7 months grooming an underaged teen so that they can have sex with them on their 18th birthday is not a good person. All I can say that it's like the person you thought she was is gone or perhaps never even existed. I imagine that her friends will be understanding and supportive of you in this.
Is the title of the car in both of your names or just one of yours and the loan is in both? This matters. Also, are you planning on staying in this apartment alone? How much time is left on the lease? Are the animals chipped in her name or yours? If you take them to the vet, are the appointments in your name or hers? I would work on switching the name for the chip to yours, as well as making sure that everything is in your name. Honestly, if this happened to me, I would not want to be found by this person if/when they came back.
Start by making a list of everything that is in both of your names and what is the top priority to get into your name. Bear in mind that it is possible that she may come back at some point and need to get her hands on easy money.
If you have a few months, you can find somewhere to live.
Are these friends? Really? No, they are not.
I imagine she just have signed something if the film was on the big screen and on DVD.
Also, we don't know if was porn. Would revenge laws apply to other areas?
Tbh I don't see the issue here. I think your husband was acting on emotional response of seeing you in danger. I don't think it was a ideal response but I understand when in fight or flight how shit can happen. Your father should have never been violent against you it's not normal. I don't think you should go alone to your home country either I think your husband's concern is your father will retaliate or keep you away. I would offer to your family to meet up somewhere neutral and include your husband. Idk I don't think your husband is in wrong if my father hit me I'd imagine my so would also be really angry and possibly violent. You are an adult and free to make your own decisions on your beliefs your father using intimidation and violence against you to force his ideals on you isn't safe or moral. If you have children in the future would you feel it okay or normal for him to use these tactics on them?
including attacking a man on the street that supposedly called her a name
Yes, he supposedly forced the man to kneel and apologize, then punched him in the stomach. This whole post comes off like the frequent refrain from some men that “He'd be in a coma once I'm done with him” in response to a female partner disclosing a history of being sexually assaulted. The weird glorification of extreme “macho” violence to “protect” women is really bizarre in this post and general.
I know this will get down votes, but she knows that this relationship is going to be purely sexual. As long as you understand going into it, I say do it. I was once young and being hit on by older women. I think as long as you understand the ramifications, you'll be ok.
Nobody on Reddit has sex anyway.
Go to target, get a double pack of tests and wait for her to have to pee and hand it to her. There is no reason to not just pee on the stick then and there. Any push back- dump her and run…
That’s how my nephew became … his mom did the same fkn thing to my brother fresh out of high school… same thing.
Then get a restraining order. Sorry, not who you were talking to, but I feel like you may feel like it's just “easier” to stay with him than deal with the fallout. Which is completely understandable, I had to deal with a similar situation. But you have to just rip the band-aid off and do it. Don't give into his pleas for one last talk or one last meeting, or you owe him a goodbye…stuff like that. Tell him it's over and not to contact you any more. If he threatens to hurt himself then call 911 and report him. If he harasses you or your family/friends then get a restraining order.
You need to think about yourself and what's best for you, not him. He's an adult who needs to move on with his life. I know it sounds mean maybe even cruel because you feel like he's suffering, but what if your friend or child or family memer came to you with this exact problem, what would you tell them to do? If it's any different than what you're currently doing, ask yourself why. Would you let them tell themselves that they should stay in an abusive relationship because their partner is emotionally blackmailing them? Probably not right? You have to “be selfish” for once in this relationship and let yourself leave to be happy. Also feel free to message me if you need some advice or someone to talk to who understands what you're going through. Good luck OP, I hope you learn to put yourself first.
Does she go to therapy? If not, she should. This situation is super inappropriate and there could be more going on that you don’t know about.
“take as good of care of yourself as if you were a cat” sounds like a good motto.
What did I just read
Unfortunately, there isn't the kind of closure you seek, in breaking up with a cheater. And yes, you are going to have to come to terms that it was all a lie.
The grace for you lies in realizing you can go forward in your life without that now. He stole the past several months from you, but you've reclaimed the rest of your life. Don't berate yourself for not knowing; you were lied to, and there isn't shame in believing your partner. The shame is HIS alone. Yeah, fuck you Bryan! I was married to a serial cheater for 25 years and truly didn't know, until I found out. I separated and divorced very quickly, when it became clear he just continued to lie about it. It's the giant regret of my life, I have up so much to be his wife – he was a military officer and we moved all the time. I raised two kids under those tough conditions. But you know what? I did a fucking fantastic job I was a terrific (faithful) wife, made him look great on the job, raised well behaved, smart daughters who were a credit to him… none of that ceases to be true, just because he couldn't behave himself. He has a character disorder, clearly – and that's not on me.
What I did get, was the rest of my life free from looking after his ungrateful cheating, and the lies that bloom from his toxic tongue.
You need to spend some time single and working on yourself: this is a season to treat yourself kindly, reconnect with platonic friends who really make you feel like your authentic, fulfilled self. Pick up a new hobby or two. Explore your city, take a little roadtrip. Think of it as dating yourself for a bit. Connect with a therapist for awhile if you're still struggling to put the deception into context and can't find a healthy perspective for yourself – it can be so, so helpful and really help you fix your perception of relationships, expectations, and essentially “fix your picker.”
I divorced my ex 10 years ago now, and I've had a terrific time meeting my real self, even though I was in my mid 40s at that point. I've been with a genuinely sweet hyper-faithful guy for the last 6. He treats me like a precious thing, thinks he's lucky to have me. Acts like he struck gold everytime he comes home and I've got dinner in the oven. (He was a bachelor for a long time, after divorcing a cheater too.)
I wish you the best. I'm sorry that your reality has that there aren't answers when you leave a cheater, but that's his it works. I'm sure you were a great girlfriend to him – and you get to keep that! You'll be a great partner to whomever comes next. I understand the desire to make sense of it all, but resist the desire to seek that out from him – just be No Contact, block him everywhere, and do what you can to move forward and heal your hurt on your own.
I wanted to add one more thing. I totally get where she's coming from. I used to constantly have that fear and it sucks. This probably won't make you feel better but i can relate something with this. When my husband and I started dating, I heard a rumor that he messed around on me, and it drove me nuts. I was overly worried about being cheated on for years. Other than very stupid things years ago (like sneaking cigarettes when we quit together) he has never given me a valid reason to not trust him. It's been about many years since I realized jealousy was just taking away joy and changed the way I look at it. Yet, I got that story stuck in my head and THIRTY years later I don't think I'm convinced it didn't happen. In my head I know it's ridiculous but I let that paranoia go for so long it's like I convinced myself.
Try to get her to look at it objectively.
How about, “OP, it's time to become an adult and fix your own problems so the people around you don't have to try to hold their temper while you whine about how they are fixing your problem”?
You didn’t answer my question about art. Is art somehow invaluable to you because it doesn’t provide physical utility? Even though it provides a lot of emotional purpose.
As someone who works in the fashion industry, just because you don’t see the value in high fashion does not mean it doesn’t exist. The designers are tastemakers and artists, and their designs have a huge impact on culture. It’s expensive because it is culturally valuable. I’m sure whatever you wear, even something simple and affordable can be traced back up to a trend started by these luxury designers that you don’t respect. You don’t have to like or want to partake in it, but this argument really sounds like you wouldn’t like art at all because it doesn’t serve some functional purpose.
One of the worst stories I've read on here