At first I was going to say you should see it as a compliment. He clearly doesn’t respect these women. They’re objects to him where as you mean something…but you not being allowed to share your feelings with friends or a therapist is manipulative and controlling.
I can see she is honestly doing this to help out, your husband can find the words to let her know that she can go home.
Some of her friends may be encouraging her to stay and help out like they did (and probably irritated their own families) so she feels like she needs to be seen to do the right thing?
Respect her enough to let her process her emotions privately.
Is she acquainted with your new partner? Do they have any kind of relationship or at least a cordial acceptance of each other?
The expecting parents in this situation need to be conscious of what a rough road it is to be IF Childfree (child free due to infertility). The emotional loss is heavy and difficult to process and it's an ongoing thing that some people never really fully get over.
It's entirely possible to get to a healthy state of mind over it and still need time to process this news too.
Be compassionate. Don't spring this on her the day of, give her some space.
Also throwing my hat in the not sure I could do it again ring.
At first I was going to say you should see it as a compliment. He clearly doesn’t respect these women. They’re objects to him where as you mean something…but you not being allowed to share your feelings with friends or a therapist is manipulative and controlling.
I can see she is honestly doing this to help out, your husband can find the words to let her know that she can go home.
Some of her friends may be encouraging her to stay and help out like they did (and probably irritated their own families) so she feels like she needs to be seen to do the right thing?
Definitely don't surprise her.
Respect her enough to let her process her emotions privately.
Is she acquainted with your new partner? Do they have any kind of relationship or at least a cordial acceptance of each other?
The expecting parents in this situation need to be conscious of what a rough road it is to be IF Childfree (child free due to infertility). The emotional loss is heavy and difficult to process and it's an ongoing thing that some people never really fully get over.
It's entirely possible to get to a healthy state of mind over it and still need time to process this news too.
Be compassionate. Don't spring this on her the day of, give her some space.
This is easy OP. Your insecurity is not her problem. Then dump her since she can't be trustworthy and will only cause you suffering from wondering
WTF.
You're in a relationship, you do it together, she spends all weekdays with them and you just the weekend and you're having a cry??
You seem like a selfish person.
You think she has a life too?
Coward.
millions of women who read books like 50 shades of grey are cheating?
Bro she spit on you dawg … she spit on you … smh cmon bro then she put you in jail .. bro respect yourself!
The room thing is impossible this because we have a 1,5 bdr apartment ?
Shower sex
Absolutely do not marry her until she is open and up front about her financial situation. Make sure she knows any proposal is contingent on that.
He still can't quite listen