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Date: October 30, 2022
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My best advice is to have a sit down with him. Write down all of the issues you are having and why they are bothering you so much, that way you have something tangible. Furthermore, I would ask him to show his phone and deleted history and see if he sent them. The next thing is I'd reestablish the rules, boundaries, and limitations that you both set forth going into the relationship. This is going to be a much needed conversation. And I will admit, it can take multiple trys as well as get ugly, uncomfortable, and can lead to you both hurting each others feels. However, and I can not stress this enough, it well bring you two so much closer together.
Side note: try to figured out what is the best way for you to communicate to him. And for him to communicate to you. A lot of issues happen due to miscommunication. I hope this helps. Feel free to message me for any more advice.
I think this can be worked on, I really do. A lot of the post threesome posts have jealousy involved which is generally hard to get past. You have flashbacks of that scene and it’s grows in you with toxicity. If what you’re telling us is true that’s not the case here. You say your girlfriend was sympathetic to you after this happened (which is too late by all means) but you also don’t seem to have negative feelings towards her for it. You know the situation better than us so it’s your view that counts and if she did nothing wrong then great. With regards to the limp dick though, which seems to be the centre of negativity at this point, it happens to all of us. Sure, it’s never happened to me in front of another man but I imagine that just makes it take a little longer to get over. 90% of men have wanted the Earth to swallow them up when their partner is laid before them ready for anything and they’ve been stood there totally soft. I think you should communicate with your partner about that and try put this behind you as a lesson learned. If you do have any negative feelings specifically towards your girlfriend though, I’d say game over.
I agree on all points. Realistically I should have been a better boyfriend to begin with. I feel like I check almost all boxes but I’m not an edible arrangements type of guy or flowers but I should be for her because it shows appreciation. And my appreciation is like services, care, conversation etc. But I feel like these are just simple things not like cheating, or abuse, or anything else for us to fix so I don’t understand how she became so disinterested so quickly. I really thought I talked to her about getting married this year but she says I never talked about that with her. So I don’t really even know if I did or I just said that to myself this whole time. I’ve been collecting ring pictures and things she likes etc, got her size for a ring. I think she just convinced herself she was wasting time for some reason. Like she tried to convince herself not to be in love with me within the past month. She said “she doesn’t have anything left to give”. I do feel like the caretaking of her brother and the accident has had an effect on her greatly. But that’s a short term thing. When she moved out this past weekend he was here helping move stuff out but he does have to get another surgery because he wasn’t healing right. She’s an incredible person but communicating well is not particularly her thing and I don’t pick up on signs well either.
I'm so sorry. I was recently broken up with by my ex-fiancé after more than 6 years together because despite moving in together and proposing to me, he still couldn't see himself getting married or buying a house with me. Like thanks for wasting the prime years of my life.
Exactly. Don't get married if you aren't genuinely 100%.. and I'm not religious.
But also in his defense, the wife needs therapy. Physically and mentally. She can't take it out on him.
will it work if ovulation was almost probably happening during the past days
Stop overthinking this.
Go over to the Waiting to Wed sub. There’s a bazillion women with the same problem and the vast majority break up.
Most men don’t want to get married basically because they want to keep their opinions open. If they wanted to, they would.
You can’t because he is an arsehole and cares more about his financial situation than he does about you. There is a disparity in your incomes. If you buy a house together that’s about the highest level of commitment you can make besides kids. He isn’t treating you as an equal partner. You’re either a couple or your not. If he won’t compromise and buy something more affordable then honestly that speaks volumes about his priorities.
If they're married then all savings is joint marital funds.
That is a fair point & I’m not familiar with the US law assuming that’s where OP is from. Im sorry to hear about your circumstance, that is very shitty. Where I’m from, they will consider contributions made especially when looking after children but the family law system still screws everyone over.