Take a friend or another family member to the game with you! If he isn’t interested in/can’t appreciate what the game means to you let him know he doesn’t have to come.
I wouldn’t date anyone who would be weird around my mom. She’s coming, staying, I’m taking her out, treating her because I love her. Bitch men who can’t handle that can’t be in my life.
If she has an android phone, open up her maps app and scroll through the history by day. If her maps shows she's been going to the restaurant, I'd reach back out to the ex coworker to start getting all of your ducks in a row.
Yeah, that fucking sucks. That really fucking sucks.
There are people out there who would never do that – I wish there was some way to tell for sure who they were. Thank god you found out before the wedding, but that doesn’t mean it hurts any less. You just need time.
Stay as long as you want to learn what you want to learn and then roll out. I don't have a problem with the stipulations on the money because inheritances are not typically marital property anyway. But him using the business as a carrot to keep you working for him when he intends to leave it to his daughter is bullshit. So stick around as long as it's useful for you and then do your own thing. Then he can explain to his daughter how to run the place.
It’s okay to be the bad guy to her in this situation.
You did the right thing. That doesn’t make it any less hard, and that doesn’t mean she needs to forgive you. You don’t need to be friends.
When she talks about you going forward, you’re going to be the bad guy. She needs you to be the bad guy to protect her ego. It doesn’t make you a bad guy.
You “could” just ask him for a gift, I guess. You could say remember when I made you a card and a music playlist with all our favorite songs, and sent some of my personal items? I would really like it if you did stuff like that.
But that would take time, effort and CARING. Hate me for saying this but I don't think he has what it would take for him to do. I'm sorry.
Op, he SAID he'll send me one of his hoodies. (He hasn't.)That I deserve flowers (You do, but he hasn't.) And that I deserve a nice dinner (by this time, a Big Mac with cold french fries would be considered “a nice dinner”) but they all seem like empty promises because they ARE empty promises.
Again, I'm sorry but he seems to be self centered, lazy, thoughtless, and entitled.
She did originally invite me, but I’m not friends with him, however she did say she isn’t going without me. Now she said she will go if her friends do.
Take a friend or another family member to the game with you! If he isn’t interested in/can’t appreciate what the game means to you let him know he doesn’t have to come.
I wouldn’t date anyone who would be weird around my mom. She’s coming, staying, I’m taking her out, treating her because I love her. Bitch men who can’t handle that can’t be in my life.
If she has an android phone, open up her maps app and scroll through the history by day. If her maps shows she's been going to the restaurant, I'd reach back out to the ex coworker to start getting all of your ducks in a row.
Yeah, that fucking sucks. That really fucking sucks.
There are people out there who would never do that – I wish there was some way to tell for sure who they were. Thank god you found out before the wedding, but that doesn’t mean it hurts any less. You just need time.
Different things upset different people, he might be fine with the things that upset you. Why can’t he have his things?
Stay as long as you want to learn what you want to learn and then roll out. I don't have a problem with the stipulations on the money because inheritances are not typically marital property anyway. But him using the business as a carrot to keep you working for him when he intends to leave it to his daughter is bullshit. So stick around as long as it's useful for you and then do your own thing. Then he can explain to his daughter how to run the place.
Off the top rope!
It’s okay to be the bad guy to her in this situation.
You did the right thing. That doesn’t make it any less hard, and that doesn’t mean she needs to forgive you. You don’t need to be friends.
When she talks about you going forward, you’re going to be the bad guy. She needs you to be the bad guy to protect her ego. It doesn’t make you a bad guy.
Good luck.
You are not being overdramatic or selfish, Op.
You “could” just ask him for a gift, I guess. You could say remember when I made you a card and a music playlist with all our favorite songs, and sent some of my personal items? I would really like it if you did stuff like that.
But that would take time, effort and CARING. Hate me for saying this but I don't think he has what it would take for him to do. I'm sorry.
Op, he SAID he'll send me one of his hoodies. (He hasn't.)That I deserve flowers (You do, but he hasn't.) And that I deserve a nice dinner (by this time, a Big Mac with cold french fries would be considered “a nice dinner”) but they all seem like empty promises because they ARE empty promises.
Again, I'm sorry but he seems to be self centered, lazy, thoughtless, and entitled.
You love him and he loves himself too. Bummer.
She did originally invite me, but I’m not friends with him, however she did say she isn’t going without me. Now she said she will go if her friends do.