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Date: October 28, 2022
So the big issues for me based on what you wrote and your comments are:
Being worried about being “allowed” to visit family or leave. Childcare would be on you for 2 kids whilst working from home. He has no plan for work long term or your lives. There was no discussion about this and no compromise on a middle ground.
The other stuff to me is noise, these points above would absolutely make me take a step back and say no. I agree with a poster above who said he is running from his problems and essentially abandoning you. the place you live now suits your wants and needs but not his. Great.
I am saying this as someone who grew up in a town of 10k and live in a medium sized city. We looked into moving back as for kids it’s a good place to grow up. But honestly after running the numbers, lots of discussions we just couldn’t make it work long term without us taking a big step back financially (less opportunities). This is what should have happened with you.
You have been spamming this same thing on Reddit for *2 weeks** Stop it.*
This is a problem. Not being a sugar baby in general, but this man is used to having power over you. You did as he wished for money. In a relationship- transactional doesn’t work. What exactly do you trade for a child? ( I DON’T want to know.) You need a relationship with someone who perceives you as an equal
Yes. And it's hard to do. We want them to get these things on their own. We want them to want to help us, to care about us, to come see if we are ok, and to prioritize us over dumb shit like video games. We want them to do this on their own. Some men do, and those men are worth hanging on to.
It's ok for him to have a hobby. It sounds like he's obsessed with very stupid sounding kinds of video games though and ignoring you for them, and the world around him. A 52 year old grown ass man should have better priorities, and you deserve better. Being a playstation widow is no fun and not a good way to live.
Passive air cooling is a fine way to maintain the temperature sensitive equipment if you know the environment for which it is designed to operate. If it is hot, move away from the heat, cold move closer. We're going for easy of use. People are welcome to take it to more extreme environments, they will have to get creative. Throw some pelts over it.
Just because he didn't physically go through with it doesn't mean it wasn't cheating before it got to that point. As you said he spent a week sneaking around and planning this all out. She sent him a topless pic, did he respond in kind? What was the context of the messages? There must've been some kind of sexual content or flirtation because it doesn't take a week of messages to say: “wanna fuck?” “sure, book a hotel for X day” “ok done, see you then” So there must've been some kind of build up to lead to the proposition plus the fantasy of what would happen on the day. For one of them to propose it (was it him or her?) there had to have been some indication that the other would be receptive and for that there must've been something sexual within the messages. That straightaway was cheating never mind breaking your trust, lying and deceiving you all that time. He can't make himself feel better because he didn't actually go through with it. The intention was there in the first place and there must've been a build up to the event. He needs to accept he cheated because if he can't see that that's exactly what he did what's to stop him from doing it again?
Last time my partner went through surgery, I gave her love, attention, and support and waited until she initiated to put sex back on the table. This behaviour is revolting. Your vows are “through sickness and health,” now’s the time for support, not being a slave to his desires.
I think it’s worth putting all your cards on the table in the most vulnerable way you can. Sticking to facts and avoiding any blame or things that will make her defensive. Plead your case as best as you can. Ultimately you can’t force anything, but as long as you know you tried your best then if she isn’t open to it, you know you did all you could. It will make moving forward a little easier. I hope things go well tho