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You can’t have 0 access to money and only be on a 10% abusive relationship. That is a huge tactic to keep control. The rest is bad enough and even IF it is just 10% of the time, that alone makes it abusive.
Immediately open a bank account and have your wages put in there. Do you even know if ANYTHING is in your name? If you have massive debt?? If you have a second mortgage? You are so unprotected and have no idea what your situation is. That isn’t acceptable or normal. Go live with you brother, who amazingly already is showing concern, while you plan out your path forward.
In the past being exclusive was a given. With that in mind, just ask her when it feels like you want to be.
Well how can she prove that?
Actually yes
It might work for you. At least it could help you pay for the therapy.
Have you communicated how this makes you feel to him?
Depending on the price of the house, $220k could be the 20% down payment.
If you’re going to go for a gold digger do it right Is all im saying as long as she isn’t under 20 she Atleast knows what she wants ?
this is the only relationship I’ve ever been in for the last 3 yrs and half
Sometimes I really wonder why youngsters feel the need to rush into marriage this quickly in their very early 20s….. AND add a baby within a second.
: “it’s not like we don’t have sex at all. Things are different now. Your more platonic and sex is not that important to u before anyways” So I told him it’s not about sex entirely but it’s deeper than that and that I don’t feel wanted by you”. And he just said that I make sex feel like work to him.
Sounds like you're on very different pages now, and express/feel “love” also quite differently. In your shoes, I'd consider couple's counseling to communicate better and see if you can get onto a similar page.
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The fact that OP asked for a sandwich, and she offered sex speaks to a pattern of behavior on her part. See how easy it is to just say things?
Oh noooo OP you need to wake up!
If everyone else sees a different man it means you’re the one that’s seeing him different than who he is!
His “mother’s house”
As in if she wears leggings and tank tops a lot sort of stuff? Her clothes are not usually baggy either
As in if she wears leggings and tank tops a lot sort of stuff? Her clothes are not usually baggy either
Way to defend a lying cheater.
So dude, I’ve been with you all the way here. I totally get why you’re uncomfortable, I’d be uncomfortable, and I’ve watched comment and comment acting like you having different values or feelings about nudity than them is ridiculous, and you’re getting a lot of unnecessary shit in these comments. But dude, you have to see that strip clubs and swimming naked with friends are hugely different. Strip clubs are sexual, intentionally. They are a place where people go to pay money to watch people act sexual, do sexual dances, and take their clothes off in what is commonly referred to as a “strip tease”.
I wouldn’t be okay with my partner skinny dipping with friends and she wouldn’t be okay with me doing that either. But trying to equate strip clubs with skinny dipping with a group of friends makes you look like you’ve lost all credibility here. Come on, dude.
Don't do anything. Calling it trauma is an overreaction but if that's how he really feels, he's going to have a tough life. Jobs will come and go. It's a part of life. He wasn't qualified for the job you needed. Go about your business as usual. If he prefers not to interact with you, then respect that and don't bother him when you see him in shared space.
Hello, thank you. I’ve already contacted two and they were honest about what i did wrong. Even so, they still find this discord move petty and are willing to hang out with me still.
Your boyfriend doesn’t get to decide what you buy for your own needs.
Also if he brings up it replacing him, ask him if his hand replaces YOU. Because it’s not fair that he freely gets to easily take care of himself but you cannot.
And that is precisely why, children, you never, ever, under any circumstances, forgive a cheater.
OP, you don't trust her because she has no reason to be trusted.
You should seek therapy to resolve this dependency on her and let her go at once.
Have the conversation. If I was you bf I’d be out, but hopefully he’s a better person than me.
Don’t cheat because you’ll end up regretting it.
Just end it with him.
that is highly concerning, id have a big talk with him, saying youre gonna leave unless he doesnt fix his stupid behaviour. Reddit is quick to saying “break up”, I usually belong to those people, so id say give him only one more chance. If he keeps interrupting you during the conversation no matter what, Id, personally at least, pack my things and just leave.
I think he is trying to prove some stupid point, depending on how long this has even been going on. If this has been going on for a month or over, I would for SURE just leave without a conversation.
You're not being unreasonable, he sounds selfish, is it usually all take no give?
It gives me that vibe too. And it’s solidified with the “I don’t think you need to give in every time” because giving in makes it seem like she already said no, he tells her that he “needs her,” and then she gives in and has sex anyway.
If not dating but working towards it, you're trying to build something. Well she is… You just took partying, kissing another girl and get to phone numbers. She doesn't feel like anything you told her was real and that she's not actually a priority, just an option.
You want to marry someone who values everything else above you?
You could move out and live separately until the dog passes? Honestly that seems like what I’d do. I certainly wouldn’t be willing to live with an aggressive dog, even part-time. However this could pose a problem again in the future because it seems the real problem is him not prioritizing you or even believing you when the dog lashes out.
Honestly this sounds like she was lying. I was sexually assaulted and genuinely don’t have any memory of the night except saying “ouch” then waking up naked and covered in my own vomit. My bf was out of town and I considered not telling him because I knew he would be so upset but I told him when he got home because ultimately I didn’t do anything wrong and needed a support system. The only thing I lied to him about was who it was because he lived down the hall and I was genuinely terrified my bf was going to go start something and get himself into legal trouble. He figured it out and first thing he did was confront the guy when I asked him not to (any mention of him just gave me a panic attack). I get that the guilt, fear, and shame of being SA’d can lead to lies, it’s what I did myself. But she’s trickle truthed so much and now is saying she was aware at 1:30 and asked for directions back to her friend… that just doesn’t add up to me.
Actually it makes him both. Because if he didn't have the courage to stand up to his parents he would have had the courage to agree with his wife when they weren't there anymore. But he didn't
I might be very wrong here but I doubt you’ll get any results, seems like she had you leave so she could tell the doctor what she was really there for (plan b?)
You, yourself, need to get counselling. Sugar-coating suffocating behaviors with “trying not to be controlling” doesn't make you sound any less controlling. You are controlling. And you need to work on that alone. I stopped reading at the part where you said “now why is that???” You lack sense and empathy. I hope to God she gets the support and love necessary to get through such an Earth shattering experience.
Sorry, not everybody is going to wait around for you and hang on your every word, you're creating problems out of literally nothing. You rejected this guy multiple times, he got over it and started dating someone else. Maybe you should get over it too
As much as a hard truth this is… many women nowadays will call you misogynistic for this.
But pr0 tip, every successful busssiness woman plays exactly the same corporate game.
How well do you know this person? Sounds like you're in a movie about a guy whose family is arranging his marriage to an entitled and disinterested woman. The movie ends when he realises his dorky sidekick best friend is actually beautiful without glasses and they run off instead.