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Date: October 12, 2022
I was in that kind of relationship, but I was younger, you are being financially abuse, and that kind of people use to be charming, and some time something happens they made you feel like crap, but then when they apologize look like everything it's ok, he/she/they will change and nothing hapen,this episodes will happen more and more frequently until the abuse is routine and you still remember all the good times, he wasn't like that, he will change, but that's not going to happen. you have to go when you still can, you have a family to support you. (I'm trying to wrote this without translator, so I'm sorry if i made any mistake, English is not my fist lenguage )
Sounds like you're the one that doesn't understand lmao, you're literally ignoring the definition of the word “gay”.
Not you being a fifty something year old dumpee, married multiple times and saying “dodged bullet”? ??
Of course he be lying.
Through his teeth.
This is nuts. My husband and I are both introverts and get our alone time by going into a different room. We are both home 24/7 and have never felt the need to boot the other completely out of the house. I think it’s time to stop bending over backwards for these unreasonable requests. Does he even like you? Why does he need the whole house? Why can’t he leave? This is so outrageously weird I’m not sure it’s fixable
I haven´t figured out all the logistics of it – I just know, depending on how important or healthy it would be – realistic solutions could be found. But I was just trying to answer your initial question (a) that he might care about it being solely online, since most, neurotypical friendships would prefer and have a proclivity for wanting real, face to face interaction (understandably so). From my understanding and what I´m aware of he does have possibilities to meet with someone in a more regular setting than one either a heroine adict or an international spy would pick.
If I give him the benefit of the doubt, which, as you assumed correctly, I am trying to do here, me having to keep this a secret seems to come with the territory indeed. That is why I kept it a secret for approximately four and a half months now. That does not negate the fact that it makes me feel uncomfortable. I am still entitled to emotionally processing this, even if he wasn´t asking me to do this out of an ill intent or malevolant motif.
I had REALLY bad depression for 10 years and once went 5 weeks without brushing my teeth. While it’s incredibly unbearable to have a tooth go bad, once it does, it doesn’t just fall out whole. It breaks off in chunks. I’ve absolutely pulled chunks of tooth out of my mouth more times than I can count.
Even though tooth is bone, a few times I put it on a plate and used a fork to push down and it just smushed.
Human beings are complicated and fickle. It sucks, but you can't spend a lot of time trying to decode every little word and whisper. It's a mystery that can't be solved, a code that can't be broken. People just… change their minds. Their motivations are often a mystery even to themselves. It's just how it is. Sorry. I know it's difficult, but if you're going to mess around with humans, you better be ready for some human behavior.
To be honest, your girlfriend needs to address her behaviour first. Being routinely stressed does not give anyone the right to be catty or disrespectful with others. If she's understand that, she needs professional help. Also I know you want to help her which is the right attitude but you cannot help someone whose not willing to help themselves. If she's not seeking help, not actively doing anything to slowly help feel better and only responding to your help and support with varying degrees of disrespect then you need to prioritize your own health and life.
Good catch op, but almost cheating is still emotional cheating. You need to get to the bottom of why this happened, are you feeling connected to your husband or are you feeling neglected? Either way you need to figure out why or this could happen again.
If he wants to make sure that the kid is his then it's solely because he doesn't trust her. And not only that but he believes that there's a chance that she not only cheated on him, but that she got pregnant and knew there was a chance that it wasn't his but she still pretended that it was.
There's no “just wanting to be sure” because it's always a question of lack of trust. The test might as well be called the “I'm pretty sure that you cheated on me”.
The number of women trying to trick men in this manner is far, far smaller than the bros of Reddit would have you believe.
Thank you I needed that. It’s tough to not take it personally since it’s happened a lot. I guess my mind just goes straight to the worst scenarios. It’s just a numbers game at the end of the day.
He knowingly cheated on you. 8 years down the drain. I will not trust that he has not once done this before or never had anything physical before.
You MUST have noticed something from.his behaviour all these time for you to decide to check his phone. Trust your woman intuition. This is not the first time.
You are given a wonderful chance to see who he really is before having children with him. Decide what is best for you. Forgiving him is not an option.
Get him to leave the house while you decide what to do. I would highly suggest to divorse.
I honestly don’t know why my friends stopped talking to me, might have just been that I didn’t fit in since I’d only known them for a year at college. They just slowly stopped inviting me to things and took months to respond to my invites so I took that as a hint they weren’t interested in being friends with me gave up on trying to fit in to that group.
Reading back the studying in my room thing is moreso because I started shutting myself off from the world bc I was suddenly alone and too jaded to try and meet new people at that point, and honestly I could’ve made time for going to clubs or something but I just became pessimistic and gave up on trying to make new connections since none of the ones I made before lasted.
I don’t really wanna hook up with strangers. I never even thought about it until I found out she’d moved on so it’s not my genuine desire I think. Would want to date someone new seriously but I’ll give it time I think. I think I’m feeling more pressure since I’m in college and I feel like I’m missing out while everyone else is having so much fun and I’m just sitting indoors sad and tired.
Thanks for all the advice 🙂
There is no possible way to make this work without you being honest with her. You’re miserable with his dynamic and she’s noticing. You don’t have to label yourself, just be honest about the fact that you don’t find topping to be a desirable thing for you. Lay all the facts out so you can both come to an informed and mutual decision.
You dodged a bullet. You could have ended up married to a person with zero empathy and appalling moral values. She supports Russian war crimes, the raping, torturing and slaughtering of Ukrainian adult and child civilians. She supports antivaxxers, who selfishly murdered millions of people. She is a terrible person, no matter how fun and hot she is in bed. I'm sorry, I know it's painful, but you've escaped an awful fate by breaking up with her. I pity her daughter.
You don't like Disney, you're fixated on it. I'm feeling disturbed just reading your post, I totally understand why your ex boyfriend was put off
He looked a little down at my ceremony, but he didn’t make a fuss
You are not his therapist. Encourage him to go to therapy. Let him know how his words and actions affect you. However, if he is affecting your mental health then you should reevaluate things.
I see that it's been said multiple times already, but I feel like it's worth repeating.
This sounds like depression under normal circumstances, but add on that he was previously in the military and there might be even more to it. I think you may want to sit down with him and talk about making an appointment with a mental health specialist. The military might be able to provide you with resources.
So how do we make sure women get the same privilege of finding out their husband’s are fathering secret children? Mandatory government DNA database?
Listen, if you're not pregnant right now, and you guys are having this kind of talk before considering kids, that's good! So . . . He's stating he wants this surety before it ever happens and always has when talking about kids. Typically I would agree with you, except this is something he's always wanted when he's ready to have kids, so it's not aimed at accusing you of cheating.
However, you have a right to feel any way you want about that. Just understand that if you two plan to have kids, and this is something you can't agree on then don't have kids and hope it will change later. This is your moment to decide, right now, if that's a deal breaker for you or not. And if it is, then go separate ways. People can love each other and still need to walk away from each other.
He's not wrong for wanting surety, and you're not wrong for taking it as he's saying he doesn't trust you not to cheat. So this is about you two and what you want in life. Give him that surety if you love him and plan on having kids with him. If you don't want to, then don't, but break up with him then bc it's unfair to expect him to change his mind when he's been fully communicative of his expectation from jump.
Or how many painkillers he’s taking
How’s the rest of your relationship? Does he generally focus on the things he likes about you or the deficiencies he sees in you? How important is humour to you? How important is humour to him?
You mentioned in a comment that you were bothered that his friend talked positively about his girlfriend, while your boyfriend only spoke negatively about you. I think that’s worth thinking about, probably more than exactly how funny he finds you.
Personally, I would be deeply bothered by this. I find humour to be really important as a way to connect and understand my partner.
Being isolated like that is classic abusive behavior