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Date: October 11, 2022
I felt like I’d been dumped because I was less important than drugs. Now I know he did genuinely care, but we just had really different mindsets that weren’t something we could compromise on.
I think this touches on a pretty big point underlying this. The topic at hand isn't really just whether or not it's okay to get high with friends on a trip to Amsterdam every year or so, there is a deeper issue of how you approach the world at play.
OP's bf describes weed and alcohol as “not a necessary part of life”, which seems to reflect a pretty austere worldview as a whole. The idea that only those parts of life that are “necessary” are worth partaking in is, to my mind, a fairly dismal one. I don't say this to denigrate OP's bf, just to point out that this seems to be a part of a greater view of the world, and not one that is necessarily pointed the direction OP wants her life to go. It speaks to a very sensible, likely very productive path, but not the most exciting one. If that's not the life OP wants, it seems like there's a much bigger picture than just whether or not she is able to smoke a bit of weed with some friends every few weeks.
Buddy. She didn't laugh at your insecurity. She laughed that you only just realized there's a name for it.
Imagine she had no hair. She wore wigs and always had no hair. She was insecure about it and you knew about it the entire time. Then one day she goes “did you know this is called being bald?!”
Wouldn't you laugh? The absurdity of only just realizing or trying to do anything about it?
Now, during our 8 years together, I've done everything I can do, try and hide it, or not make it as bad.
I mean, you tried to do everything but Google it apparently. Which is also why she laughed. It's not at your insecurity, it's at the idea that you apparently didn't the whole “I tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas” meme. Yeah you tried weird stuff that you came up with but that made no sense without a doctor or following a plan.
And yeah you got weird with her after. Of course she's upset that you got upset.
I am as a male am not circumcised and have a real insecurity about it due to my past partners making fun of me. I've been turned down for sex because of my uncircumcised penis.
Is this an american thing? I'm european and I have never know anybody that has any problems with uncircumcised penises.
Every day spent with her I’d relive again. If she missed something because of life issues I’m willing to accept that. If she ghosted me to just avoid me then no I don’t want that in my relationship. I hate jumping to conclusions because usually I’m wrong. But sometimes I’m right. Though I agree, ghosting me without any communication is not okay. Regardless of the day
Break up.
Why are you engaged now? You're 21 and he's 22. How on earth are you ready for marriage? Have you lived on your own yet? Do you have a career already? Do you have any savings?
You told him his social media comments to other women made you uncomfortable. Instead of apologizing for stepping over a boundary, he blamed you for looking at his social media, where those comments he made were publicly visible. That's not digging!
Don't marry a guy who disrespects simple relationship boundaries. Live your life first. Make your money so you never have to be dependent on a man. Then get married when it's optional, not desperation.
He’s against universal basic human rights. He’s not logical or rational. His arguments can only be emotionally driven. They reflect his morals and values, and it’s imperative you share those in a relationship.
You know you have to end it. And any reason you could not ant to end a relationship is valid.