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Date: October 5, 2022
Sorry is enough as words, when there is something to be sorry for. Actions are the main thing. What you can do is make sure you aren't constantly apologising for the same thing.
I would work on the people pleasing/insecure sorry – if you have nothing to be sorry for then don't say it. The word sorry probably feels meaningless to you because you know you say it as habit.
I did read your last post, saying things like maybe you should just let her go etc, screams insecurity and self worth issues to me. Work on that maybe – could potentially be my own projection though.
Yeah you do a lot of ducking and dodging to say “I couldn't wait to stick my dick in the first woman who batted her eyes at me.” So you did. You threw the kill switch. You got what you wanted. Dump the fiancé and get some therapy. Leave women alone until you can stop looking at them as playthings for your boredom.
He was put in a situation where he couldn't win. He would either be hurtul of untruthful, and he chose the lesser of the two evils, and was silent while at it – so open to interpretation.
Answering my own post to reflect on what I wrote
But I don't want to throw away a emotionally fulfilling relationship for someone who caters to my sexual needs (Maybe we would also click emotionally, who knows. But a “maybe” doesn't justify anything).
Would knowing I would click emotionally with that other person justify anything? Would I think that it'd be a “better version” of my current girlfriend or situation?
No. I like my gf for who she is, not because she has feelings for me or I do for her (Okay to a point yes). She is an amazing person I look up to and deeply respect. She is a great listener, storyteller and super nice and wholesome person. I am very happy with her at my side.
I have 2 choices imo;
– Straight up shutting the new person down and working on my own perception on sexuality while continuing supporting my girlfriend, maybe she opens up more over the coming years? On the same note I have to unlearn the patriarchal focus on sex in our society and viewing it as one of the basic needs. And embracing the intimicy I currently have with her.
– Ending it with my gf, because these situations will come again. It's better to end it after 9 months than 2 years. She deserves someone on her (sexual) wavelength.
Nobody can make these decisions for me. Not my close friends nor reddit. And I should think long and hard about it and stop being wishy washy.
He kind of sounds like a teenager in their first relationship. I feel like kids pick fights with their gf/bf because they think it’s what people in relationships do.
First of all, your reactions are mature and encourage a healthy relationship. Second of all, girl, dump this manchild pronto!
Never ask a girl out at her job, doubly so if she works in customer service
She said yes and ‘ghosted’ because you put her in an extremely awkward situation so she just said yes to defuse the situation. I can virtually guarantee this girl has no interest in you and it would be prudent to just move on and learn a lesson