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It's always a lot of work for YOU, you mean. That tells us much more about you than it does anything about this story.
OP, your fiance sounds like me a few years ago. It's very likely to be depression. Seriously, every thing you mentioned is similar to what I was doing. Eventually I stopped going out with friends. I felt so bad about myself I didn't know how I could even contribute anything positive to my relationships with people. I thought I'd just be a buzz kill. I could barely get out of bed and when I did I went right to the chair in front of my TV and did nothing but watch TV or play video games or scroll my phone for hours until I had to go back to bed. My husband was doing all the chores, preparing all the food, doing all the driving. Eventually I stopped leaving the house entirely. I went 3 months without even stepping outside of my house, and this was before covid was a factor. I also didn't work for 2.5 years during this time.
My situation was a bit complicated. My depression really ramped up when I quit a job that I hated that was fucking with my health and my husband just got very angry with me. I got no credit for the fact that I had been the higher earner for years, that I had paid the bulk of the closing costs for our new house, or that I had thousands in savings to pay my fair share for a few months while I recovered from the burnout and looked for a new job. He just got very angry and rude to me. He resented me and it showed. I tried to communicate all this to him and asked him to please give me time to recover and at least don't make me feel worse, but he didn't care and got even worse. I begged for couples counseling and he dismissed it for years. I should have left then. Instead I lost my fucking mind and we both suffered for years and our marriage eventually exploded with a lot of messy fallout. And once it did… I started thriving. I'm not 100% yet but leaving the toxic relationship I was in helped me restore my confidence and self esteem and I no longer had to walk on eggshells and deal with constant negativity. I was able to focus on healing myself instead of trying to fix my broken marriage.
Anyway my point is, don't be like my husband. I appreciate everything he did to keep a roof over our heads and pull the weight of chores and such but the resentment destroyed our relationship. Push your fiance to see a therapist and have her get evaluated by a psych for meds if the therapist recommends it. If she is unhappy with how you're treating her, don't put all the blame on her. Understand that her behavior may be a reflection of how you've been acting. Be open to couples counseling. All this happening earlier might have saved my marriage. Don't put it off, please. And if she refuses, leave. Make this the hill you die on. She needs to take you seriously and you need to take this seriously too. It will take work from both of you to heal these issues. If either of you aren't willing to do this, you aren't ready to be married and shouldn't be together. The longer you put this off without breaking up and moving on, the more you will both suffer.
If you really believe that your soulmate is a person who disregards your feelings and has no respect for you at all, then go ahead and continue on with this guy. Your numbness most likely comes from you realizing on a subconscious level that this man will never respect you or care for you enough to not cheat on you in this way. So yea, just keep on keeping on I guess. Doesn't sound like you're wanting or willing to leave him and thats why you've made yourself numb to his constant betrayal