If you're at the point of having to do interviews with past boyfriends/girlfriends to see if there's a chance you've been cheated on… Just move on and find someone more trustworthy.
You see something shiny and new and don’t realize that what you have it someone who loves you, is great and loyal. Your current girlfriend deserves better than you. Stop stringing her along if you aren’t interested in her.
Remember that the grass isn’t greener on the other side.
There are lots of explanations for your mom’s reaction so don’t jump to any conclusions. It sounds like she’s clearly uncomfortable with your DNA test findings. Could there have been an affair? Yes. Could there have been a sexual assault? Yes. Could one of her parents have been passing as a race that may have made their lives easier in that time and place? Yes. There’s no way to know for sure what exactly happened but if your mom has been traumatized, tread lightly. I’m sure the last thing you want to do is traumatize her any more than she already has been. She has her reasons and whatever those reasons are, they should be respected. How would you feel if you found out that your mom was sexually assaulted and had no choices. Would you really want your father to know about that against her will? It would completely re-traumatize your mom who wanted to lock that piece of her in a dark room never to be brought to daylight. Your parents are still and always will be your parents and they obviously love you. If I were you I’d give it some time and talk with my mom privately. I hope you find your answers. Keep an open mind and cut your mom some slack.
Honestly dude I’d be careful and just mind my business. She could easily say she went for closure, you plied her with alcohol and accuse you of SA due to the alcohol. She could go on a smear campaign if anything happens to the family tbh. As a man that had sex with an intoxicated woman you’ve got a lot more to lose.
Careful OP. when multiple friends of your gf are actively trying to sabotage your relationship, they will most likely succeed. Even if it takes some time.
I totally agree ?? that would be fabulous
You can break up with anyone for any reason. He’s given you several.
always more to it than whats posted.
This really reads like you've got feelings for her, and she knows it and isn't entertaining it.
He's gay. You must divorce him and move on with your life. You hv wasted 6 years. And at 30, you are not getting younger. Please be selfish.
Updateme!
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If you're at the point of having to do interviews with past boyfriends/girlfriends to see if there's a chance you've been cheated on… Just move on and find someone more trustworthy.
You see something shiny and new and don’t realize that what you have it someone who loves you, is great and loyal. Your current girlfriend deserves better than you. Stop stringing her along if you aren’t interested in her.
Remember that the grass isn’t greener on the other side.
You have a phone. Record shit. MAKE A SCENE. Do not enable him.
Report it to the school. Don't care about the evidence. Change emails. Change phone numbers. Put your socials into friend messages only.
There are lots of explanations for your mom’s reaction so don’t jump to any conclusions. It sounds like she’s clearly uncomfortable with your DNA test findings. Could there have been an affair? Yes. Could there have been a sexual assault? Yes. Could one of her parents have been passing as a race that may have made their lives easier in that time and place? Yes. There’s no way to know for sure what exactly happened but if your mom has been traumatized, tread lightly. I’m sure the last thing you want to do is traumatize her any more than she already has been. She has her reasons and whatever those reasons are, they should be respected. How would you feel if you found out that your mom was sexually assaulted and had no choices. Would you really want your father to know about that against her will? It would completely re-traumatize your mom who wanted to lock that piece of her in a dark room never to be brought to daylight. Your parents are still and always will be your parents and they obviously love you. If I were you I’d give it some time and talk with my mom privately. I hope you find your answers. Keep an open mind and cut your mom some slack.
nah that does not worry me I trust she will keep her words, that is whole another level of trust issues mate
Does the local pizza place sell gift cards? A sincere apology note on her desk with the pizza card can’t hurt.
Honestly dude I’d be careful and just mind my business. She could easily say she went for closure, you plied her with alcohol and accuse you of SA due to the alcohol. She could go on a smear campaign if anything happens to the family tbh. As a man that had sex with an intoxicated woman you’ve got a lot more to lose.
That's an easy “no”. It might work “perfectly” now, but it'll come crashing down at some point. Probably sooner rather than later.
She's not sleeping with anyone else.
Careful OP. when multiple friends of your gf are actively trying to sabotage your relationship, they will most likely succeed. Even if it takes some time.
If this person doesn’t prioritize their relationship with you to a reasonable extent, then you should reconsider the relationship.