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He could be grand! But chances are he’s not. It’s pretty easy for anyone to be super nice for months. What you have mentioned: being interested in you, not asking for nudes or being sexual are bare minimums not something to praise. It’s like the ticket to admission to meet – it’s not proof he’s a great person. Many older guys will also move slower with young women because they are cultivating the trust – it’s entrapment. All that to say it’s very hard to tell the difference between the two – which is why you should go with what’s most likely to be happening.
However, if he just accidentally met you bc he didn’t adjust his features it’s likely it would have come up by now. He would have mentioned he was a little uncomfortable with the age difference or would have said I haven’t ever dated anyone so young. Expressed some sort of concern or shock (bc if he “just forgot” then it means he knows it’s creepy so he would have addressed it. Even said “I’m not really sure you are very young”.
If he’s so lovely and your sure he just forgot to change his search then just bring it up. It sounds like your scared to hear the answer. But better to hear it sooner than figure it out later. I would just ask “has the age difference ever made you uncomfortable or pause to think about”
You leave the relationship. If you dont feel it's ok for him to have a different viewpoint on this, then you walk away.
Lot of people on here using this post to virtually beat up a guy who probably thinks he is a compassionate human being. He thinks he is thinking about the child in these situations. I dont get the impression that hes the monster a lot of people seem to be thinking he is. I'm guessing you wouldn't have stayed with him for 4 years if he was horrible. The guy just has a different opinion. Hes not currently forcing you through a pregnancy. Some pro life people are idiots. Some pro choice people are idiots also, but guess what, very many people on both sides of this debate are genuinely decent people just trying to do their best with whatever circumstances they find themselves in.
So leave. Do not entertain the idea of continuing in a relationship here. its a fundamental incompatibility.
If you have discussed and debated it rationally, and you find both your views are unchanged, then debate is over. There is no compromise available. Shake hands, wish each other well and move on like adults.
Yeha alright. I can't put myself in your shows but put yourself in my experience.
You're with your gf, that only after a few months of honeymoon basically tells you she is practically ace (asexual, doesn't like to fuck) and tells you it's very boring to her, she has no fun and it's even a burden. You on the other hand, enjoy it nicely. Then after a short time she tells you. “we can if we must”. Biggest turn off in history. I don't know if it's a kink but I am happy when I make other happy, because it's the point of sex for me. Also they happily reciprocicate then.
I disgress. Imagine now after fuckin you 10 times he's like: nope. I don't enjoy that so much, especially not with you.
It's not judgmental. I actually have 2 best friends that are doing that. But from my story, it's a HELL NO. The high risk and suffering from incompatibility is absol-fuckin-loutly not worth the “special pureness of a second marriage hook-up.”
Yet I genuinly wish you all the best if he hold until then.
And she also doesn’t have a boyfriend? She was seeing a guy for less than three weeks and then broke it off with them. They weren’t even exclusive lol. If she feels the need to tell him, that’s on her.
He could be grand! But chances are he’s not. It’s pretty easy for anyone to be super nice for months. What you have mentioned: being interested in you, not asking for nudes or being sexual are bare minimums not something to praise. It’s like the ticket to admission to meet – it’s not proof he’s a great person. Many older guys will also move slower with young women because they are cultivating the trust – it’s entrapment. All that to say it’s very hard to tell the difference between the two – which is why you should go with what’s most likely to be happening.
However, if he just accidentally met you bc he didn’t adjust his features it’s likely it would have come up by now. He would have mentioned he was a little uncomfortable with the age difference or would have said I haven’t ever dated anyone so young. Expressed some sort of concern or shock (bc if he “just forgot” then it means he knows it’s creepy so he would have addressed it. Even said “I’m not really sure you are very young”.
If he’s so lovely and your sure he just forgot to change his search then just bring it up. It sounds like your scared to hear the answer. But better to hear it sooner than figure it out later. I would just ask “has the age difference ever made you uncomfortable or pause to think about”
Do you think the WWM threesom compared to the MMW would have had a different effect on you personally?
M going to be frank, she is using you for money. PERIOD
You leave the relationship. If you dont feel it's ok for him to have a different viewpoint on this, then you walk away.
Lot of people on here using this post to virtually beat up a guy who probably thinks he is a compassionate human being. He thinks he is thinking about the child in these situations. I dont get the impression that hes the monster a lot of people seem to be thinking he is. I'm guessing you wouldn't have stayed with him for 4 years if he was horrible. The guy just has a different opinion. Hes not currently forcing you through a pregnancy. Some pro life people are idiots. Some pro choice people are idiots also, but guess what, very many people on both sides of this debate are genuinely decent people just trying to do their best with whatever circumstances they find themselves in.
So leave. Do not entertain the idea of continuing in a relationship here. its a fundamental incompatibility.
If you have discussed and debated it rationally, and you find both your views are unchanged, then debate is over. There is no compromise available. Shake hands, wish each other well and move on like adults.
He is jealous. You're tall, young, and getting muscular. He is average, out of shape, and getting old. Some parents view their kids as competition.
Yeha alright. I can't put myself in your shows but put yourself in my experience.
You're with your gf, that only after a few months of honeymoon basically tells you she is practically ace (asexual, doesn't like to fuck) and tells you it's very boring to her, she has no fun and it's even a burden. You on the other hand, enjoy it nicely. Then after a short time she tells you. “we can if we must”. Biggest turn off in history. I don't know if it's a kink but I am happy when I make other happy, because it's the point of sex for me. Also they happily reciprocicate then.
I disgress. Imagine now after fuckin you 10 times he's like: nope. I don't enjoy that so much, especially not with you.
It's not judgmental. I actually have 2 best friends that are doing that. But from my story, it's a HELL NO. The high risk and suffering from incompatibility is absol-fuckin-loutly not worth the “special pureness of a second marriage hook-up.”
Yet I genuinly wish you all the best if he hold until then.
So, you admit that you would talk about these things with your female friends, but you find it strange that his friends share this with him.
I think you know that the problem is in your head and your uncomfortability with platonic heterosexual relationships.
You are indeed one of those “men and women can't be just friends” sort of people.
And she also doesn’t have a boyfriend? She was seeing a guy for less than three weeks and then broke it off with them. They weren’t even exclusive lol. If she feels the need to tell him, that’s on her.
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Op why did you do this? All of us told you it's a bad idea? Why ask if you wouldn't listen to us?