Yes it's a massive overreaction. But it's also kind of in line with this “we don't masturbate separately” thing you have set up. So I dunno. Just have to talk it through, figure out what the expectations will be moving forward.
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I never said that he should stop it. I mostly made this post, because I feel very alone in this situation. I totally get that people see me as being manipulative, that thought has of course crossed my mind too. If he was open about his porn stuff, it would help tremendously.
Im with my boyfriend since I love him, and there's more to him than just this. I didnt think about how porn affected me, before I got together with him.
You’re being very reasonable—I hope she will be, too.
I’ve been with my wife 33 years and really treasure those efforts she makes for me. It feels very good when your spouse accepts your generosity, even if it’s not 100% ideal.
If she demands you get rid of the pillow (even after you explain you’d rather have her when she’s available), that’s a bit much.
She wanted to buy a product that i didn't think was safe for her to use, i told her not to buy it and that i was concerned about her health, but she tried to buy it anyway. I found out and talked to her about it and she just started crying.
I’m so sorry you went through that. I’ve been cheated on before too and the betrayal is truly terrible. Somehow getting dumped by this perfect guy though is impacting me worse ?
Yes it's a massive overreaction. But it's also kind of in line with this “we don't masturbate separately” thing you have set up. So I dunno. Just have to talk it through, figure out what the expectations will be moving forward.
That makes it even easier. Block and move on. Hopefully find someone who’s A) closer and B) doesn’t yell at you, threaten you, manipulate you
Daaaaamn, 20? You're robbin the cradle!
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I never said that he should stop it. I mostly made this post, because I feel very alone in this situation. I totally get that people see me as being manipulative, that thought has of course crossed my mind too. If he was open about his porn stuff, it would help tremendously.
Im with my boyfriend since I love him, and there's more to him than just this. I didnt think about how porn affected me, before I got together with him.
You’re being very reasonable—I hope she will be, too.
I’ve been with my wife 33 years and really treasure those efforts she makes for me. It feels very good when your spouse accepts your generosity, even if it’s not 100% ideal.
If she demands you get rid of the pillow (even after you explain you’d rather have her when she’s available), that’s a bit much.
What a dick thing to say! Thoughtless and immature. It says much more about him than it does you.
She wanted to buy a product that i didn't think was safe for her to use, i told her not to buy it and that i was concerned about her health, but she tried to buy it anyway. I found out and talked to her about it and she just started crying.
I’m so sorry you went through that. I’ve been cheated on before too and the betrayal is truly terrible. Somehow getting dumped by this perfect guy though is impacting me worse ?
Yes, and he has kids