It sounds like you only see your gf when she “pressures” you to see her. I feel bad for her. She shouldn’t pressure you not to go to the school you want tho, I’ll give you that one.
You have it spot on tbh. I am house manager, everything that is considered a responsibility is something I have to be responsible for. Last night was an issue I had which I felt unsupported, which got to me because I always feel unsupported, but this incident was surrounding my health.
Mandated reporter is the wrong word, but you know how therapists can have people committed if they say they're going to kill themselves, or the police can't just not show up if you call 911 and say your husband is waving a knife at you? It's kind of like that. I'm not digging through legal code, please use common sense
You have no real world experience with this stuff and that's ok!
Whether or not they did anything doesn’t matter at this point. She doesn’t respect you or the boundaries of your relationship and he continues to let her. He’s choosing her friendship over your relationship. You deserve better ?♀️
Then it’s a large trust issue with your bf.
You are right, he should have either stayed out of it, or actually told the truth, and said no. As venting is not shit talking.
Personally I’d not be sure I would be able to continue with a relationship with that issue.
Well just know you deserve better
It sounds like you only see your gf when she “pressures” you to see her. I feel bad for her. She shouldn’t pressure you not to go to the school you want tho, I’ll give you that one.
You have it spot on tbh. I am house manager, everything that is considered a responsibility is something I have to be responsible for. Last night was an issue I had which I felt unsupported, which got to me because I always feel unsupported, but this incident was surrounding my health.
Mandated reporter is the wrong word, but you know how therapists can have people committed if they say they're going to kill themselves, or the police can't just not show up if you call 911 and say your husband is waving a knife at you? It's kind of like that. I'm not digging through legal code, please use common sense
You have no real world experience with this stuff and that's ok!
Whether or not they did anything doesn’t matter at this point. She doesn’t respect you or the boundaries of your relationship and he continues to let her. He’s choosing her friendship over your relationship. You deserve better ?♀️
Ask his gf the same question.
BF, don’t you mean your dad?