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Date: November 24, 2022
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so you cheated once (that we know of) and were looking to cheat another time (that we know of) and you’re still trying to tell yourself you’re not a cheater? Like… really? Who do you think is buying that?
Very common if you e been together a long time.
That's something I had to learn myself. You have to pay attention to how people respond to the word no.
Either way, I packed up my stuff and left the apartment because I feel like my girlfriend just accused me of being one of the worst things a man can be.
Man I’m with you there. That would cut, deep, especially after 6 years. If you want to end this, I think you would be entirely justified.
Is this the first time something like this has happened? Where she has “absorbed” something going on around her and applied it to your relationship? My reason for asking is I dated a girl like that one time, she would see something on the news or on Tik Tok and immediately think it applied to our relationship, and believe me, that gets exhausting and it does not improve. If she is willing to entertain the idea that her BF she has known for 6 years could be some sort of closet abuser, and thinks a background check or therapy is going to say yep, abuser! then I don’t think she is mature enough to be in a relationship.
My girlfriend has called and told me she doesn’t truly think I’m an abuser but is still pursuing the background check to be 100% sure.
This is actually similar to another issue that pops up here often, paternity tests. I don’t think you even need to try and have this conversation, personally I would just walk, but you could try saying that you don’t truly think she is a cheater but will still pursue a paternity test when y’all have kids just to be 100% sure. That may hit a little closer to home for her to understand why you are hurt. Again not the same as being accused of being a potential abuser, but could help.
Your advice is still entirely unrelated to what dude posted about in the first place, so I’ll ask again – are you mentally deficient? Grow up dude.
So she put it in prior to a wrap, you then continued fucking her for ~10 more minutes without a wrap and then still finished fucking her with said condom.
If you felt so violated, why’d you keep going?
. I said ”hm I have such a headache, I feel like I might throw up, something is seriously wrong”.
screen. Of course I interpreted this as complete neglect and I went to the other room, mad.
well. obviously nothing was wrong. you had a headache and wanted attention.
My first instinct would be to hug them, ask if they wanted an aspirin, maybe make tea etc
or maybe as a functional adult, they would be able to perform self care to a basic level.
sick/ill is very energy draining and he did not have that energy that day
in a five month period how many times have you been sick or I'll? wtf.
regardless of how little energy or time I had left. I feel like there is an instinct in us that makes us engage in such behaviours, it doesn’t matter if we ourselves feel bad.
only on the most extreme cases is that fair.
I have a son, and am the guardian for my 4 younger siblings, my partner and I work together to perform the duties necessary to care for all of them. it is exhausting, physically, mentally and emotionally.
I keep my eye on her but we have a mutual understanding that our self care is our own responsibility, and if we need emotional support or legroom, it is at appropriate times, and it goes both ways.
but a lot of other times it is panic attacks and anxiety)
ah, see, that's exhausting, he's not an emotional support dog, he's a man, you need to help yourself.
one I dated a very sweet but also codependent guy who would literally do anything to be there for me
cool. go date him then. do not hold guys to imaginary standards of preference arbitrarily set by you when you deem fit.
That he can’t take criticism is one of them
I am not sure you can. either.
. He says that for him, screaming and being loud is a ”normal response”
no that sounds like resentment. either he is cold and unfeeling or explosive, so which is it? sounds like he already loathes being your support plushie and not a partner in an adult relationship.
. I am not sure if he has the right to put up boundaries like that
he does.
I have never been with someone that is good at putting up boundaries
shocker.
or if this is in fact emotional abuse/
don't you fucking dare, call it abuse.
I guess my body is somehow trauma bonded due to all the fights and yelling and how it reminds me of my childhood
oh my god, jeezus fucking Christ this guy needs to run.
you sound. insane.
Op you are in an abusive relationship. Pls start planning a way out. He is abusing you financially and emotionally. Do you want your kids growing up around this? If he says these things to you, he'll say them to your kids.
OP stated below that they aren't official. They're not exclusive.
I’m sorry, what? He’s a fuckboy, you don’t trust him, AND there are rumors of abuse about him? So you’re going to absurd lengths to make up a fake scenario about the actual scenario you’re in?
Your behavior makes no sense, unless you love drama and wasting your time.
I would stop having sex until you can both communicate better. It's okay to tell her you're uncomfortable having sex without communication.