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FLASH PUSSY [Multi Goal]
Date: October 9, 2022
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now THAT is a no contact comment. sorry, date's over have a nice life.
Oh no.. I'm so sorry. I had this feeling that you wouldn't get the lawyer first because it's tough to hold that info inside and I could feel your anxiety in your last post.
Let me tell you how much my heart broke for you as you described how you cried like a baby and just couldn't help yourself except to confront him right away. Omg. ? ? I literally cried for you.
I've been in your shoes before, so I know how awful this whole thing is for you to try process in a calm state of mind.. it's nearly impossible with so much emotional turmoil boiling in your head.
So, now that it's all out in the open, here's my opinion on what to do. First thing tomorrow morning find yourself a divorce lawyer. Next, tell your adulterer that it's a firm NO..NO DEAL on his offer!!
Tell him this.. He MUST buy you out of his half of the house value in order to walk away and stick you with the house bill. If he has to get a loan to buy himself out of his half, so be it. Not your problem how he does it. Otherwise, you can offer him that he can forfeit that $70k back to you and get a loan for the balance of his half of the value of the house. That's being nice because he'll only need a smaller loan that way. ??♀️?
Next..He can certainly keep his car and pay his own car insurance going forward. He has to be sure to take ALL of his shit out of what's going to be YOUR house. He's not allowed to leave ANYTHING behind to come back for later. It's now or never. Otherwise, he authorizes you (in writing✍️ ) to sell or discard any of his belongings that he chooses to leave behind after he moves to Florida.
Lastly, he should pay you half of whatever money you can't get refunded from all of the deposits you put out for the wedding, etc. It's only fair because he's the one who cheated and is running off with someone else to Florida and that's the reason the wedding is canceled. His fault!
There..that takes care of the main settlement to start with in order for him to leave as peacefully as possible. It's what's fair. Especially considering the circumstances. Stand firm on all of that.
Of course, you will confirm all of this with your new lawyer that you're going to get tomorrow. ? Then your lawyer can handle the rest, like drawing up the settlement paperwork so it's all in writing and ready to file with the court. This way you're fiancé can't back out of whatever deal you strike with him and you're much more likely to get the money you need to stay in your house.
Thank you so much for the update and I hope you'll still keep us updated as this situation continues. Speaking for myself, I'm very invested in your story now and you've really touched my heart. I support you 100% and I send you comforting hugs ? in the meantime. You'll be okay when this is all over and you'll be much happier in the end. ??
¡Updateme
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Just think of it this way….he's prioritizing buying sports cards over buying you, his supposed girlfriend an Xmas present..
I cannot agree with something that is simply not true. That doesn't mean that I don't respect the person himself. I don't agree with people who think the earth is flat, but I still respect them.
have you never heard of a rebound?
Or she phrased it that way because she genuinely wasn't attempting to accuse or thinking that her husband was cheating? I'm seeing a lot of “well, but the implication!” comments, but how could she have phrased the question to make it even less accusatory? There are very valid reasons to want to know if someone who shouldn't be in your bedroom has been in your bedroom that have nothing to do with cheating spouses, and I'm not sure there's any way to ask a question involving a bedroom, a babyitter and a husband in such a way that it can't be read as an accusation.
Um you mean your husband raped your sister
I begged him to stay,
That implies he broke up with you which also implies this has been on his mind for some time and it finally happened. Gives him way more time to come to terms with the inevitable and while it wasn't going to be easy it wasn't a surprise like it was to you. That's the discrepancy. You were blindsided by what happened and are still coming to terms with and accepting what is going on. He could have been spending weeks/months coming to terms with the same concept looking for the time to end it.
Also if a relationship starts with cheating issues and ends with the person who was cheating is immediately going after someone else odds are they were still cheating so the transition would never be as rough as the person who was both faithful and surprised by the breakup.
Nothing to do for you but give yourself time to heal and do not contact him for any reason. It's better if you just block him on everything so he can't come back and mess you up even more.
But why is asking me to move out with him if he’s not ready ??
No. See my other comment to get the better understand you need. And realize even if she was going for attention not all girls are like her so you and Chris would still be wrong
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He still lives at home and doesn’t have a car yet, I understand this. However I feel like he benefits more from this relationship than I do, I do his hair, cook for him, he’s always at my apartment I really take care of him. And at most we’ll probably go out on a date ? feel like he’s benefiting more. Forgot to mention he has a great job, 2 intact.
Right so it wouldn’t have happened eventually with anyone it would have happened with him specifically. Giving advice to you is useless you don’t listen to a word anyone is saying and you seem to genuinely believe none of this is your fault. I hope they both find out. Bye Felicia ?
That free book you linked is an eye opener. I’ve only gotten to right before “when is it abuse?” And I’m shocked at all the red flags that went off.
I wasn’t planning on reading that full book but now I will. Thank you for sharing these links. ❤️
This has to feel super shitty. I’m sorry.
A conversation face-to-face isn’t going to change anything. He’s definitively told you he doesn’t want to be with you, and you don’t want to beg him to change his feelings. Have all this stuff set aside so he can grab it and go, and focus on making yourself feel better. Make sure you have some self-care in order for right after.
As for your stuff, if there’s anything you really don’t want, set it aside for him to take back or donate/sell. Anything where the association is too strong right now but you might feel differently about in a few weeks belongs in a plastic tub somewhere. Eventually it will probably feel more like “your stuff” than “stuff from X.”
You dicked down sisters. You should be celebrating