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And I’m a man. It could happen to me. But I know I’m responsible for what happens in that situation, not the high schooler.
It’s pretty obvious that your core values are not the same, this strikes me as a miserable marriage waiting to happen.
Don’t marry someone you’re not compatible with just because you’re desperate to get married. It’s not worth it.
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There is a reason that she targeted a guy 4 years younger than her.
So your husband raped your sister and you’re upset at her?
Again— YOUR HUSBAND RAPED YOUR SISTER
You aren't able to bc you keep justifying it for him.
You think that because he treats you well and you get along that it somehow balances out his adultery side.
What you are not thinking is what if you meet someone who can give you all of that WITHOUT commiting adultery.
Always remember what you deserve to gain and not what you're losing.
You both want very different lives. He’s happy living this party lifestyle and giving you casual attention.
You are crazy for wanting and expecting more from him specifically. Maybe someone else would be interested in what you want?
Don’t move in with him. It will only go poorly. Keep your life stability.
He’s not going to tell you. Asking or expecting isn’t going to change anything. Instead, expect he has gone out.
I’m assuming this is how he feels subconsciously
Make up your mind, Op.
Why would you “assume” this is how he feels subconsciously?
Assuming that HE feels this way is wrong, Op.
YOU are reacting to what YOU ASSUME.
Every time I hear about some dude creeping around with women/girls who are way too young for them, the girl “came on to him.” Never fails. I don’t believe it.
And I’m a man. It could happen to me. But I know I’m responsible for what happens in that situation, not the high schooler.