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Date: October 20, 2022
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That’s sad OP. Hang in there. Pray for her but, keep it moving. That’s unhealthy to stay in a relationship like that. Move out when she isn’t there because, I hear lots of news reports that women kill and vise versa especially when they aren’t sober. Leave a note or call. But I wouldn’t deal with it. Praying you get all the love you need OP
I’m talking about before that. Instead of just saying ‘I’m hungry’ and staring at him waiting for him to offer you something, why didn’t you just go order more food?
Only he will know his true feelings, from an outsider's point of view, I honestly think he comes back simply because he knows how you feel towards him, and he knows you will take him back, no matter what he does, nobody deserves to have a relationship like this, you need to give yourself time when you break up, it takes a long time to get over a partner, there is no time limit, some can get over people quickly, some take a year or two, I have had both, I left someone who was a great companion in the end, and not a partner, and I never thought about it even the next day, I had 2 kids with a woman, who was a complete narcissist and she was horrible, and it took 2 years to get over her, but I stuck at it, because I knew she was no good for me, no matter how I felt, and it always works out fine, you will always meet someone else, it may be quick or a year etc, but you will be ok, best of luck.
That's really uncomfortable to hear, but seems like true. But those little things in her look like unconscious attempts to solve problems she have. And I don't know why she agrees with it like “Yep, that's my way to get rid of problems”, but at the same time refuse any of my attempts to help her the way that will be less traumatizing for me. For example, she thinks posting nude photos can help her become more confident, while I'm doing my best to socialise her (she asked me about it) to make her more confident too. And idk why the first one makes sense for her, but not the last one To sum up, I think you're right and I should behave like this
Oh! My bad. No, not that evening, but I have pets I can spend the time with 🙂
OP never stated if they were heterosexual.
I don't know if this was intentional, but your comment came off as aggressive. It's outdated to place all the effort on the man, but saying it's digusting is a little much.
OP doesn't have any experience dating. The only example she has is what she sees. Considering our society, it wouldn't be surprising if her only example is women waiting for men to make a move.
I know it's frustrating, but cut her some slack.
That’s different. I’m talking about a grown man being interested in a child. I married a man 10 years older than me, but I was an adult at the time.
He doesn’t want kids and you don’t have the time.
You aren’t compatible with your goals.
You end it. He has unlimited time, so he won’t.
Break up with her for cheating. Demand a paternity test at birth and DO NOT sign the birth certificate until paternity is established that you're the father.
Do you mean divorce? In most jurisdictions annulments are only granted under highly specific grounds, usually where illegal/fraudulent activity took place in efforts to deceive the state for the purpose of obtaining the marriage certification. Such as child marriages, forced marriages, or incestual marriages to name a few.
In most western jurisdictions, there are no grounds to void or annul due to infidelity.
I hate men who say not having a bio kid is a deal breaker. Men are not entitled to your uterus like that. If they say that it just means your love is conditional on if you will risk your life, health and body for his wants. WANTS not needs.
This guy isn't him and everyone's situations are different. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I've had to deal with an alcoholic partner and eventually I did walk away. Pushing didn't help my situation and I don't think it'll help most people's. I believe caring, compassion, and understanding are the best tools in her situation. I see an inevitable overdose if she walks away without trying to work through it together first. He's already fragile and that could break him.
She’s young, slim, apparently sanky. I am the opposite. My husband is 41 and am 38.
I don’t want to come off as rude but BOTH of you shouldn’t be in a relationship. OP get help , you can find therapists who specialize in grief/ loss and maybe a spousal loss support group.
As for your gf. Don’t spend time getting her back. You dodged a nuke. You don’t need her nor does your daughter. She ain’t worth your time or energy! Loss is hard and guess what! Living with someone who yells and destroys things is gonna make it worse. You can’t grieve , you cant think of happy memories and you can’t even look at a photo with someone like that around.
Think about your daughter , she deserves love , comfort and safety. She doesn’t deserve someone who snaps and is incredibly disrespectful. ESPECIALLY about her own mother that she lost.
Everyone in this situation needs to heal. The wounds are still very much open and you don’t need a relationship as a band aid right now. I’m sorry for your loss op, I hope you find peace ❤️
Wow how truly awful for you. He’s a nasty piece of work to say that. It’s a controlling behaviour to smash your confidence, so I’m your head you’ll believe that nobody else can love you or want to look at you. You need to be strong and leave him. He is not ever going to change but you can. Take care and stay safe. Have an amazing weekend buddy 🙂
The chat doesn’t work. would you mind reaching out to me?
Another update:
I haven’t told any of my family and friends about this. I felt embarrassed, very ugly and pathetic right now. The last thing I want to see on their face is the pity face. I don’t want anyone to feel sorry for me.
My husband went back around 3am and we talked about it. He said he could no longer sees me in his future ever since we got married. The reason why he has been working a lot was he does not want me to be around. I asked him why did he wait cause we’ve been married for a year. He thought his feelings will come eventually that it’s just a phase and there’s no way his love for me will be gone overnight but every day feels just worse for him. He doesn’t want me anymore that he think it’s totally over and we could even be friends. He said that throughout our marriage life he moved on. I felt the ultimate betrayal. I told him that we could go for couple counselling and work it out. He cried that he doesn’t want to be stuck anymore. It’s not about his co worker anymore it’s about what he felt in our relationship. He cried and ask for divorce while I’m crying and begging him not to. I’m so confuse and I don’t know what to do. I felt like I was a good partner.
I asked him about his co worker if they ever have sex. He said that he genuinely cares and likes her, he’s getting to know her more bullshit but he thinks she doesn’t see him that way. Nothing happened between them. I asked him about the money he spent on her he said that he bought her a Christmas gift.
I am so much in pain that I felt numb that I couldn’t believe this is happening to me.
Not if he leaves her cause she looks different. Not sweet at all.
You are like 90% to having game. You just gotta branch out. Broaden your experiences as well as broaden your encounters.
My advice is to go do something interesting once a week. Something fun and educational and something a girl would like: Museams, live music, art exhibits, estate sales, urban exploring, bike riding, whatever, and preferably with friends. Have adventures. Gain experiences. Take note of the funny moments. Learn to tell a funny story. Meet people. Check it out: When you approach the cute girl at the estate sale, you’ve already got an in. You already have something to talk about.
This is how you become three dimensional and attractive to women.
I think you are going to have to sit down with him and completely open up: say that you feel like he never wants to marry you, and that it hurts you because it makes you question how much he actually loves you. Say that getting married isn’t just about a piece of paper to you, its a showing of commitment and love, and his refusal feels like a refusal to ever show either with you. Tell him that you are now starting to legitimately second guessing your future together, and warn him that at some point if he isn’t going to commit to you, you might decommit from him. Its not a guarantee, but its on the table.
After this, I think couples counseling is a must, its what you need to do to either get on the same page or fully break away from one another.
I hope you guys can find a way through it, and if not, that you can find someone who provides you what you want and need. Best of luck to you.
If a relationship is giving you more stress than happiness it’s not a good one
My response:
There's the door. Don't let it hit you in the ass on the way out. Oh wait. I don't give a shit if it does. ?
Who give a crap dude. Get over it. And I mean that with love. She is initiating sex with you. Penises aren't supposed to look pretty. As long as you can get the job done who cares. Uncircumcised dudes are the majority in the world, and those who are not hooded brothers are likely missing out on lots of extra sensation.
Besides those who did get circumcised for non medical reason were essentially victims of genital mutilation. Yeah sure, most circumcised guys dont feel that way, but that is because they were too young to remember. I would bet almost all uncircumcised guys, if given the choice to get circumcised once they hit adulthood, would hard pass on that instantly.
It’s an addiction. It’s not a habit. And he’s gonna have a hard time with it. Probably his whole life. If you stay with him, everything goes in your name and you do not share money with him at all. Then like a heroin attic, he can try to weasel it from you take your ATM card. I would be careful and go slowly with this man.
I have an Excel sheet for this
Alright, she clearly wants marriage, and she's ready for this to happen. You guys should have a conversation about this, and you need to figure out if you're ready to marry her, or not. I imagine though, that if you're not, the relationship is over.
I think this is a troll post. This exact storylibe posted a week or so ago…except the Dad was the one with the horrible kid and the woman was being asked to pay for the tokens.
Sometimes people take different turns in life and you are no longer compatible. It happens.
Why do you continue to be in a relationship with someone who not only cheated once, but cheated multiple times? And, to top that off, is continuing his dodgy behavior.
I'm bi, so I understand that once you hit 30, you're approaching your shelf-life in terms of marketability as a gay man. It's a twisted reality in such a youth-obsessed subculture, but it's reality nonetheless. Dating will not get any easier. Do you want to waste any more years of your best years with this guy?
Cut it off dude. Find someone who will respect you. You'll thank yourself later.
You go find a new fwb. If you interfere with his life, you lose him anyways. Time to go.
Ok, apparently it needs to be said louder HE WAS NOT YOURS.
You may had been friends, but you never had a romantic relationship. You never even told him you wanted one. They had a history already, and it grew into an actual relationship. Why? Because they both wanted it. If he wanted one with you, he would have pursued one before C showed up.
I’m sorry things didn’t work out how you wanted, but you are young and should just move on. Leave them alone. Find the one for you, the one who also wants a relationship with you.
So, your self worth is tied to your social media account? You broke off with him because he raised concerns about you trying to reach out to new men to replace him? Seems like he got the better end of the deal and i hope you stay out of the dating pool for while until you solve your own issues.
I feel you. That's a tough spot to be in, I know it's not like this dude is a total stranger but still, you're in a relationship, and you wanna make sure you're happy. And look, I ain't here to shame anyone for their oral hygiene, but it's a fact that it's important for overall health, so you gotta consider that too. It's cool that you were able to bring it up in a casual way, and it's good that he was honest with you. But you can't change this dude's habits and you gotta decide what's most important for you. Like you said, you're not a complete ass and it sounds like you care about this person. I don't know what the future holds for y'all, but my advice would be to talk to him about it again, maybe in a more serious way and see if there is any way he is willing to work on it with you. Be understanding and supportive but also be honest about how it makes you feel. At the end of the day, you gotta do what's best for you.
This is reddit, so I was ready for something far worse. Still gross, but I'm not joking when I was afraid to open this thread…..
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My girlfriend and I have an amazing relationship, though I just found out some horrific news that my gf dad would sell her out for drugs when she was 13, long story short he is clean now and we have a good relationship with him lust am not sure what to do with the information as she was raped multiple times from that situation and also her ex-boyfriend a few years later, not sure what im expecting from this, our sex life is a bit hot and cold but I'm just in awe from hearing this and not sure how to handle it as she says she doesn't remember that part of her life because she completely blacked out that part of her life, will this feeling of shock and disgust pass? Should she see someone and acknowledge this? Is it possible for our sex life to improve? What the fuck is going on
His going to cheat for the third time regardless of whether you tell him not go meet with the BFF. Why are you in a relationship with a man who actively looks for convenience outside the relationship given a chance?
I actually really like that idea. Then he could have his own space and live how he likes, but we could still be together. After all, the issue didn't start until we lived together.
No you didn’t. You should maintain distance and NC from this psycho. And talk to no one except an attorney if needed. Don’t discuss with anyone. If talk about this to anyone it will be bad for you.
OP is fucking clueless.
For reference, in the weightlifting community a 50lb curl is considered very decent
Let me get this straight, Op, please.
Your way of showing love is making fun of your girlfriend, being sarcastic and being “jokey” all at her expense? Making her the butt of your “jokey”,and sarcastic comments about her?!
Have mercy and lord help me now!
If this is how you show “love” to her and claim to care about and “love” what the he11 do you say to people you do not love and care about?
I am honestly asking, Op?
You breakup and remind him, he isn't qualified to diagnosis anyone.
Reading this broke my heart for you. I used to drink in excess like your sister & with everything I'm reading, your husband raped her. She was incapacitated & did not consent. Please leave him!! This was definitely planned.
You should do what's best for the dog. If a behaviorist or trainer hasn't been able to help the dog and your fiancé get along, then you should rehome the dog before he bites your fiancé further. Your dog is clearly afraid of your fiancé and reactive. That doesn't mean your fiancé has done anything recently, but his treatment of the dog in the puppy stage was traumatic enough that the dog bit him.
Unless your fiancé is willing to do serious training with the dog at a training facility that has a reactive dog trainer, rehome the dog. He doesn't deserve to live in fear anymore than your fiancé does.
We have had a professional trainer for months and no longer use the prong, he wears a flat collar.
I think it was just a lame friend of hers, not an ex.
Yeah you can avoid that one lmfao.
Can you elaborate on your second point? I’m intrigued.
I didn’t realize I gave off the impression I thought you had to do EVERYTHING with your partner. I was not trying to say that at all. I was saying that downloading Minecraft for 30 dollars and playing a little bit seems very innocent and like it wouldn’t be that big of a strain to do. I don’t like sports but I bit the bullet and watched the Olympics with my boyfriend because that’s his interest. You don’t have to do everything you partner wants but it doesn’t hurt to compromise every once in a while on something the really enjoy. It doesn’t seem like OP’a partner is asking them to start playing Minecraft everyday with them. Just that he wanted to build a house and give her flowers. Seems pretty innocent to me.
Divorcing this man would be doing you and your kids a favor. I can’t believe you are even considering saving this marriage after how he treated you, with complete indifference and disrespect.
You aborted a 6 month pregnancy because some pos wouldn't call you back? What doctor in his right mind would even perform an abortion on an almost full grown baby?
Kick him out and he can not return unless and until he sees a therapist several times for violating your trust when you are this vulnerable! Otherwise he will continue to deceive you but just get better at hiding it!
I mean you're free to discriminate against whoever you want on your private property
Sigh. Nobody said that. Expressing your feelings is natural. It is your thought process that showcases the insecurity. You need to read that comment very slowly.
I’m not worried about her being tempted – seems like you trust her.
I trust her – great! – but… cancels the trust
And finally: if it happens it happens – like wtf?!
My boyfriend could literally rent a room at a brothel and I wouldn’t lose a minute of sleep. Nothing other than him sending me memes would happen.
Her not drinking makes it feel ever more like she raped him, assuming they had sex at all that night and she wasn’t just lying about getting pregnant
He’s ramping up. This situation could become dangerous very quickly.
You will never convince him he is wrong. This is abuse.
Get yourself out of this relationship. Have a trusted friend (who can defend you) there when you end it and remove your belongings. The most dangerous time in escaping an abuser is when he realizes you are leaving. Don’t warn him, don’t let him see you packing your stuff.
Please please please get yourself to safety.
Ofc you are but sometimes that is what people do. For me this would eventually become a frustratingly impossible relationship but continuing is entirely up to you. Just think about what you might think about this situation in your late 30s – will you happy or think you have wasted your time ?
Maybe she’s cosplaying but that’s a little beside the point.
The way I judge whether my younger family members are on the right track in life, is whether they make the decisions and do the things required to be happy, responsible, good stable people.
Past that, it’s their life. There’s much worse things than being weird.
If she can’t show responsibility, be a stable person, or make decisions in her best interests(or show progress to get there at 18) then your observations hold more merit and she might need to talk to a professional.
“Keep it secret in case she chickens out” is not a viable plan. Quite the opposite. If she wants this badly enough to head out the door intending to execute on it, she should expect to be honest with the kid she’s leaving behind.
Though again, it starts as a previewing exercise, to force wife to confront the enormity of what she’s contemplating and hopefully snap her out of it before it ever goes that far.
I love your enthusiasm! Also congrats for your new body movements!
I won't suggest some quick diets since those can be harmful, but if you do have the energy, just go swimming a few laps each day for twenty minutes. It is quite relaxing and will work really good for getting in shape.
My other suggestion is about getting rid of a few pounds over one day. This is unfortunately a little costly. Look up “suction cup massage” for body. Many women use it to get rid of cellulite, but the side effect is that it gets the blood flowing and fluids moving so one uses to loose a few inches each time (mind you, only temporarily since it's just water). I would only suggest this to somebody that need “instant effect”, do if you have the possibility, check with a local salon if they could take you the day before.
Good luck whatever you end up doing! Im sure your wife will love it!
Oof id hate that so much. Why on earth does mom need to be involved?
Yep
Okay so let’s say your family has a secret, doesn’t matter what the secret is, would you share it with exes? Would you share the secret that is supposed to stay kept BETWEEN family with strangers? Friends? Colleagues? Current significant others that are not yet family? No, that’s the point of a family secret. It stays with the family and family only.
If you had a secret with your best friend and you start sharing it with others it’s no longer a secret and if your best friend trusted you with that secret then you have done two things, one betrayed your best friend, two you have absolutely disrespected your best friend by going against their wishes.
Babies are awesome! Congrats!
No one is really ‘ready’ even when they’re ready.
Keep an open mind, because what if it ends up being the best thing to happen to you.
This was my thought too. There are people who think washing their eyes in their own urine helps. I wish I was kidding.
I'm wondering if he isn't washing his pants/underwear enough and his pee dribbles are starting to stink? Would stink even worse if he's dehydrated.
For me it started ramping up from nausea to actual vomiting after a traumatic event when I was 20. Before that I never even really burped! Now my M.O. is drinking a ton of bubbly water to help settle my stomach.
And yeah I got pretty good at hiding it, though I did have to explain to an aunt once that I didn’t have an ED… just get stressed by big family get togethers!
i actually said that i did not respond to him the last time he texted me. i decided to not contact him but we did not mutually decide that…
i actually said that i did not respond to him the last time he texted me. i decided to not contact him but we did not mutually decide that…
The hairpiece is the icing on the cake. This was the push for hell
You’re not wrong. This is weird.
You’ve calmly explained you didn’t like certain abusive behavior yet he continues to do it. What would you tell a sister if she had the same problem with a man?
You are young. You have plenty of time in the future to experience things. Right now this isn’t something you are comfortable with. You express this to him. If he has a problem with it or he insists that’s coercion and that’s not consent.
A man who feels that his masculinity is threatened by a self-sufficient woman isn’t a man at all. Much less a masculine one.
What do you mean by this?
Ugh speak for yourself with this take. The rest of us understand that we're often the Marcies in this situation and we're sick to death of having to justify our seat at the table and prove we're not after your crusty goddamn men.
So Jessica
1) seeks to mentally abuse others 2) has done this with a previous love interest of yours before Connor
If I were you I’d cut ties IMMEDIATELY. She is not only toxic, she’s radioactive.
Thank you very much. I will take this with me.