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Date: October 6, 2022
candysfox, 22 y.o.
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possibly using you to make her jealous
Honey, if your red flag radar is pinging, listen to it.
I don’t know your relationship history but, from what I can gather from how quickly you caught this red flag, you’ve been in unsavoury relationships before. Ones where you felt like you had to fight for your partner to even notice you, much less give you undivided attention. And that partner liked that power and liked making you jealous.
I’ve been in those relationships and I also notice these red flags immediately. It sounds like nails on a chalkboard.
Now, sometimes guys are just fucking oblivious and you have to fucking spell it out for them.
“Hey, you probably meant nothing by this but this is how it made me feel. I get it might seem like a small thing to you but it’s pretty important to me. It’s not a vanity thing, because to me it feels like you’re trying to hide me and I don’t appreciate it. If I’ve got it wrong, I’d love to hear your side.”
The division of chores are better based off the hours you work rather than the amount you earn,.
I have been crushing hard for a while but never acted on it
Sis, he's not going to take the relationship to the next level. You are a place holder for the woman he will eventually be set up with and will marry. If he is from a very strong and traditional arab culture, he values those traditions and the culture meaning he's not going to marry someone from outside of his culture.
Please value yourself enough to not waste another month, let alone another year on someone who does not see a future with you. Life is too short to waste time on people who don't value us. He might like you. He might enjoy spending time with you. But he will not get serious with you and he will not marry you.
His family sees you as the person he is sewing his wild oats with – not someone he will marry, so they aren't going to waste time getting to know you.
My advice is to wake up.
You barely know him, you’ve been dating for a month and have already moved in together. Two days without a hug is nothing and you’re massively overreacting.
Slow it down, jeez.
So why do you feel that this is him? Cheating or betraying you. You said to yourself that you're fully okay with porn. What makes this different?
My ex used to accuse me a lot of cheating, often for similar ridiculous reasons. I was so tired of always definding myself and having to prove what I was doing constantly. It only got worse and worse to the point were he asked me to record conversations or would listen in on phone calls with my family to confirm I had actually been there over the weekend. He was constantly suspicious and always treated me like I had done something wrong.
The whole thing wore me down so much I even started to question myself. Still (almost 2 years later) I can catch myself feeling bad for wanting to spend a night alone or discovering new music etc.
I feel so relieved not having to constantly explain myself or defending even the most simple things I did. Do not date someone that does not trust you! It is worse for you mentally than it might seem at first.