It’s not just guys? You’re downplaying it like he’s being immature but he told you repeatedly it was important for feeling loved and valued which is completely valid.
Not that anything you say is invalid. Not liking sex is fine. But your dismissiveness of it and claiming it’s a guy thing only is really rude and belittling to your ex.
Do you admit you snooped and ask why she lied (which could be compounded by more lies), or do you stew and question why she lied and let it fester in your own head? Pick your poison.
Leave. What else is there to do with this guy?
Evidently not
Evidently not
My ex did this with one of his friends. He even sent videos of me.
It’s not just guys? You’re downplaying it like he’s being immature but he told you repeatedly it was important for feeling loved and valued which is completely valid.
Not that anything you say is invalid. Not liking sex is fine. But your dismissiveness of it and claiming it’s a guy thing only is really rude and belittling to your ex.
Do you admit you snooped and ask why she lied (which could be compounded by more lies), or do you stew and question why she lied and let it fester in your own head? Pick your poison.
I would bet if you go through the relationship will end.