Yes, it was put out there to hurt you. Maybe he felt you were being very harsh and he felt personally attacked? Talking to him later will allow you to find out what triggered him and work out a better way of handling this in the future.
I grew up in a house where my great aunt would smoke a pack a day. House smelled awful. I canr give any advice besides never smoke again and deep clean everything cuz smoking is an awful habit/addiction and I can't deal with that
They say a picture is worth a thousand words but videos? Worth a trillion? And five makes it indisputable. She’s already making her gaslighting, lying story up to manipulate you into ‘give her another chance’ but once married your screwed. It sucks that this had to happen but better now then after ‘I Do’. You still have a chance at finding a partner who will honor and respect you beyond just loving. Stay with your buddies until you have a plan for moving on. Any inquiries from her family just forward the videos and don’t get in to any discussion with them. And block her, her friends and anyone else trying to fix this as they won’t have your best interest in mind.
For real. Had an ex I was seeing say she “only went down on her coworker” also a girl so it “wasn’t a big deal” and “she was engaged so it wasn’t serious” BUT THST COWORKER ALSO SAID SHE WOULD LEAVE HER FIANCÉ IF MY GF WANTED TO BE WITH HER.
Yes, it was put out there to hurt you. Maybe he felt you were being very harsh and he felt personally attacked? Talking to him later will allow you to find out what triggered him and work out a better way of handling this in the future.
I'm glad that he does chores at other times.
Terrible take…
All of the things you mentioned are gender expression and have nothing to do with sexual orientation.
I grew up in a house where my great aunt would smoke a pack a day. House smelled awful. I canr give any advice besides never smoke again and deep clean everything cuz smoking is an awful habit/addiction and I can't deal with that
They say a picture is worth a thousand words but videos? Worth a trillion? And five makes it indisputable. She’s already making her gaslighting, lying story up to manipulate you into ‘give her another chance’ but once married your screwed. It sucks that this had to happen but better now then after ‘I Do’. You still have a chance at finding a partner who will honor and respect you beyond just loving. Stay with your buddies until you have a plan for moving on. Any inquiries from her family just forward the videos and don’t get in to any discussion with them. And block her, her friends and anyone else trying to fix this as they won’t have your best interest in mind.
For real. Had an ex I was seeing say she “only went down on her coworker” also a girl so it “wasn’t a big deal” and “she was engaged so it wasn’t serious” BUT THST COWORKER ALSO SAID SHE WOULD LEAVE HER FIANCÉ IF MY GF WANTED TO BE WITH HER.
All I needed to hear was the first sentence lmao
When someone accuses you of stalking them, your suggestion would be…reaching out to them?