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Date: December 28, 2022
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Op SHE needs to get out of the fuking house
It s heart breaking But can t keep someone there who doesn t want be there, Good luck!!!
What dirt does he have on you? It's impossible to give advice without knowing that.
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Lol good on you for being all healthy and adult about your ex. I don’t know that I have that much maturity in me.
You owe him nothing. He doesn’t get to insist on anything. Tell him that as you’re broken up, communication isn’t inappropriate and you’ll be blocking him so that you two can move forward. Buh bye.
The 22 year old is a distraction from your relationship problems, a respite from your unhappiness and a catalyst for for leaving. I wouldn't try to make it about her because it's not.
I don’t want to make him feel bad though. I’m scared that if I tell him how I really felt he’ll feel bad about himself. And I feel like it was my fault for not explicitly saying no. When I wasn’t as drunk I do remember me telling him that nothing was going to happen between us. As we had agreed from before that he felt bad when we’ve hooked up previously when I’ve been heavily intoxicated. He said from those times he felt like he was taking advantage of me. So I honestly thought this time we were just going to be hanging out as friends but when he started making other advances I didn’t know how to put my foot down.
Definitely not fake, and I have definitely had the same fear as you. But I told him if the therapist is a sexist boomer (no offense to boomers) then I will stop going and find another one. And I said we can keep looking for new therapists until we BOTH agree on one, and he agreed
As long as there is a path for communication I think there is a good chance at keeping the relationship going 🙂
that was my take on this too – this reaction sounds like someone’s who is accused of cheating more than once
She is 18. If you want a real relationship, stay away from that age group. I'm not saying all are basically out exploring, but it's like an 8 out of 10 that do.
Correct.
20 isn't that young for a 24 y at old.
He needs to the cut the apron strings and you need to grow up a bit and stop creating tests for him to pass. Neither of you should be acting like this at your age.
You said it all yourself, your husband enjoys hurting you. There is absolutely no acceptable reason for this. Cut any communication or visits that aren’t child related and find a shark of a lawyer and get divorced. And, please, please do not give him any more satisfaction from hurting you. Don’t let him see your pain.
My cousins husband switched her birth control pills around. Perhaps his sister could talk to him about adopting the child?
So it’s okay for her to continue seeing the guy I currently live with? Are you delusional? Have you no morales either? Wow.
You're doing yourself and Sally no favors by not asserting yourself. Your resentment is palpable. Don't agree to drive her to a horse auction if it means you'll seethe about missing the air show. You don't want to move into the house. You don't need a litany of good reasons, although you have them, you just need to be HONEST with her. Start saying “no” to her when it's important to you. If she doesn't understand, so be it. If it creates an argument, so be it. You need to be able to live authentically. If doing so reveals more incompatibilities with Sally, SO BE IT. Better to move forward with that information than continue to be agreeable on the surface just to avoid strife. It sounds like this isn't the relationship for you. Time to find out.
Man go get a gf that doesn’t have a kid with another man
I mean, we need to at least recognize that he is honest about it
A coward, but an honest one
Well it’s a tough situation. You love the previous version of her. But do you love how she is treating you now? Try to be mindful of the sunk cost fallacy. Best of luck.
He's emotionally cheating on you. Some people may not see that as cheating, but the simple fact of the matter is he is sharing what should be between you two only with somebody else.
He doesn't think he's doing anything wrong, so odds are he isn't going to take any steps to remedy the situation.
Tbh, and I'm sorry to say, it sounds like you are nothing more than a rebound to him.
While telling your husnand is the right choice in theory, some people live with conviction that being in relationship should prevent you from getting crushes. Thus they reason their partner no longer cares about them/loves them.
Silly thought, but stil, do you think your husband would take it in constructive way, and facilitate making distance between you, or would get jealous and hurt?
Thank you. Yes I guess that’s the best way to manage it
Your husband is being a bad father and a bad partner. Of course you're not attracted to him- he's shown himself to be indifferent to your needs, and that is the opposite of sexy.
You don't necessarily need to take irreversible actions right now, but know that (regardless of what your family says) his behavior is wrong. And absolutely do not feel pressured into sex.
Right now, focus on what you can do to get more support. Can your family or friends help? Can you hire someone? Give yourself a chance to breathe and finish school. Then you can figure out what to do about ol' useless hubby.
Its prettty normal for people in relationships to have sex to distract them from life stuff. As long as you didn't force her into it there's no issue.
Dealbreaker if it was me. Easy to say this as I’m not invested and I know how my heart works. I’ve put up with less. I’m sorry this has happened. Forget the honesty, it’s more about how you’re literally just the next best thing. It sounds horrible to put it like that but that’s what he’s saying when he says that. Fuck him. I hope he’s not also manipulating cause that’s some narcissistic behavior almost- to be able to lack so much self awareness to bring that up- the plus is at least you know now.
Fuck that dude, I think you deserve much better and his selfish behavior will only cause problems in the future. This won’t be something that’s easy to overcome. I wouldn’t ever forget it throughout the length of the relationship unless he made some real changes and showed me I’m the apple of his eye not his fucking ex.
Wow this much older man doesn't want to commit?! Shocking
Oh, I must have misread that part.
His solution is for me to just keep him in check by looking at the statements each month. I guess I will be some prison warden.
I'm sorry but that's really not an option. At all. It's not your responsibility to keep him honest – he needs to actually be honest. Can you imagine not being able to turn your head for a single moment because then he'll just destroy everything? That's how toddler's act. He's basically a manchild.
This marriage is just 1 year in and it's already causing immense mental and emotional strain on you because of problems he refuses to address. You really need to start thinking about yourself – not him or your marriage – YOURSELF.
We really tried to talk tbh. He said that part of it is that he gets disgusted when i doubt on him. It makes him shut his sexual desires
Honestly you have to look at the risk and reward. It’s a very very real and visceral fear that men have because it happens! If it didn’t men wouldn’t have to worry, a woman always knows it’s their baby. I can definitely see why it would be hurtful but fears are not usually rational they prey on your brain. A paternity test is not really invasive and would bring a lot of peace to his anxiety. You of course don’t have to do or agree to anything you don’t want but one test for a lifetime of peace of mind seems like a good deal
Wtf did i just read… jesus lord..
This man violated you why the actual fuck are u still considering this relationship with him a thing!
Please please get away from this VERY DANGEROUS person!
Wouldn't it still have tags in that case? Unless she's gross and giving used stuff to her sister.
Why is your mom playing a role in your relationship? I'm sorry, but this arranged marriage culture just makes no sense to me.
You're married to your wife, not your mommy, so act like it
Don’t.
He sounds like a controlling jerk who love bombed you until he knew he had you trapped.
What do you have to lose? 🙂
Why are you still talking to your ex? Sounds like your policing how he's behaving after you've broken up. It sucks I'm sure to see him making playlists and such but you should go no contact and try your best to heal and move on.