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Just block him?
I mean he respond a day after if its just sth stupid like a meme or sth unimportant but when i need his support he is there
It could be overthinking. How has this varied with previous communication you guys have had?
So he’s playing games and likes to hurt you. Immature and how can you trust someone who isn‘t honest? Don’t think he’s ready to be in a serious relationship.
So not normal…. He’s looking for another to insert his dipstick!
Throw that woman out my guy and go get yourself a real one
Appreciate you writing this. I maybe naive but I hope my wife and I can be friends (if I am being honest best friends) but after reading some of the comments and thinking rationally there is no way the marriage will be “saved” hoping happiness is found by us both but both happily in each others life
You won king. She’s broke, you’re up. Block her. Delete her number. Ignore her and physically leave when she arrives or as soon as you see her. Find your closest friend(s) and have them always leave with you (keep some backups before you go out) and go have a good night elsewhere. You can and will make your own space to enjoy your separation and your life. You got this ??
That’s what I said – the once in a lifetime opportunity is with him on his special day.
You seem to be very upset by her behavior. Her experimenting with drinking is normal. If you can’t get over it, break up with her.
Honestly do you? It’s been three years and I stopped bruising but it still hurts a bit afterwards :/ I want to be comfortable not about to cry because of it and this is when we go slow and steady the entire 15 minutes (I can’t even deal longer than 20min because it starts hurting more)
About him being late ofcourse. I will talk about it with him, why he does it and if he presents me with something worth believing i’ll stay.
I appreciate your support. I am afraid to block her, since no one else checks up on her, but it seems very necessary. I will have to loop in her roommates as well. Thank you Internet stranger!
Some fantasy’s are better left as that.
Men like yellow or orange flowers best in general.
try doing a little bit of maths, really listening to the “difficult break up” part, and wondering why the ex might've wanted to keep this child to herself. i somehow doubt that the lying husband is the victim here.
True, she should just learn to be more independent. Choosing to live with your parents as an adult also means you have to follow their rules, whether you like it or not. Seems like a fair trade living rent free and with private drivers.
This sounds some much like grooming that I can't help but wonder about your relationship and your mental health in this relationship. Maybe your friends see that too.
I would go to a individual therapist and discuss this with them first. I would not try to discuss this with your bf.
Please do this. Grooming can happen by manipulating you without your being aware of it. Please talk with a therapist about this.
Thank you for letting me know. He’s had therapy in the past, but hasn’t been in the time I’ve known him. These break downs are very rare, and it’s the first time I saw him hit himself like that. Still I was already worried and alarmed when it happened
That's a one and done for me. You don't get to decide I can't go anywhere, even if I am trying to be stupid. I'd never be able to trust him again.
No, I said in my post it's not an anime one, it's plain white. Oh god, I think I'd shit myself if I saw that in the middle of the night
I don't know. I think 50 to 32 is a bit wide of an age gap. I mean it makes me wonder whenever gaps are that large why no one in their age group wants them? Sure 18 and 28 is different than 30 and 40 but 30 and 50 just seems too far apart
You don’t have to be sensitive about it. Sit him down and tell him that this behaviour is unacceptable.
Let me ask you, if your sister told you her bf was like this, what would you say to her?
This man is 33 and I doubt he’s going to change. Do you want to be anchored to this for the rest of your life? Because if you marry him, this is what you are getting. It doesn’t get better and you can’t ‘fix him’.
With that amount of money, it’s unlikely he only viewed pictures and videos, he was very likely interacting with cam girls. He needs to be completely honest with you. The fact that he hasn’t shared this with you is concerning and makes me wonder if he had one or two cam girls he was particularly involved with. Healing from this is gonna start with him being fully honest with you, and hopefully therapy will help him do that.
Respect the hustle, but respect responsibilities and priorities more. He’s purposely making things harder (money wise) than need be. He has the ‘get rich quick’ mentality but not the ´work hard and put in many hours’ mentality.
Surprise him with a breakup
Dude , she will never speak to you again
What you did was a hypocrite action though. But again with that serious talk you set the boundaries. You don't get to tell him that he hurt you because you also hurt him. I explained to you what you did was also hurtful as cheating to him. He had all his affection towards you while you didn't. But with the serious talk, WITHOUT tears and shouting from your part, you are going to get to a point were both of you are on the same boat. Did you make him wait for sex???
Old video as in 12 dudes ago.
There’s a much larger chance of him making you a single mom, than you making him raise another man’s child without his knowledge. I tend to remind men of that fact when they take the “well I’ve heard stories….” Approach, because every woman I know, knows a much, much greater number of other women who were walked out on for no good reason at all after having kids. Despite that, most women understand that it is not the norm or the standard way a father will behave. Why is it not the same in reverse? I’m genuinely asking any dudes that feel like OP’s bf this!
While I can understand the fear he holds, and how awful that would feel to be betrayed like that for so long by your partner: you are also entitled to feel like it is a slight to be asked to do that for his comfort, and I can understand those feelings too.
Y’all may just have different opinions on this, and this is too big an issue to agree to disagree on.
Well, my ex says they're not dating, but the way they act… sure. Her and her other friend tried to name their daughter after themselves, too. And my ex still doesn't get why I'm upset. Luckily, she lives in Canada, so I don't understand why my ex thinks she can watch my kid when she's born when I live in Southern USA. I will definitely probably be able to get full custody her first year, and he can have visitation because he refuses to move back to my state. Once she's able to travel though, unless she misses visitations, my lawyer says it'll be hard to keep full custody unless he abuses her on his visits or does drugs. I plan on moving to the Midwest, but I'd still be in another state than I'm in. I am really hoping he's in Jamaica when she's born, because he has a trip planned out a week before I'm due, and I can probably fight to terminate his rights since he has only made one prenatal appointment and none of them others along with missing delievery. I'm already upset because I've been advised to give her his last name simply because he can petition the last name change, and while he'll probably get denied, the lawyer fees and court costs are a hassle. And he's a sexist asshole who would petition.
I really feel for OP, and I feel hers is much worse since her daughter is at a very impressionable age, and this happened so suddenly. I'd be really scared of her ex filing to change the custody agreement first with him and his girlfriend trying to say she's crazy. I do think OP should avoid talking about her and their dad with the kids because they can argue that OP is trying to do the same thing… she should have a counselor to talk to them about it and testify for OP in any custody hearing.
Oh thing sucks and I really hope this crazy lady doesn't try to hurt OP.
Yeah there’s always the what if. It just matters if you think it’s worth it.