You don't. She's shown you who she is and it's not pretty. She sees you as a meal ticket. Don't sleep with her unless you want to be on the hook for 18 years. Dump her and get someone who sees you as more than a paycheck and who wants to contribute to your life. The threat she made should be enough on its own. Quitting her job when you wanted her to contribute should be enough alone. Thus girl is a walking red flag.
yeah, thats how Im leaning honestly, I was gonna call her to break it off today, but I just wanted to be sure im not being an asshole and cutting things off too quickly, but you're right 4 months and not knowing how you feel is bit much for me and almost feels disrespectful of my time.
Just tell her. If she’s not into it she’s not into it though. Don’t go trying to justify the age gap to her. For some people that’s perfectly normal for others not so much…
its about the feeling of being emasculated (is that how is written?)…cheating is hurtfull but when is with your same sex, make you feel you were not enought and in the mens basic/logical mind (im a men myself) we felt like he had something we dont and you wanted always but if its a girl a few things change
not only the “fantasy” of the treesome or girl-girl experience,
the knowing that we can not give that to you
the man chased you before for a period of time prior so the partner let that slide while with a woman, it can be just an emotional instant thing….and few more like that
Asking a woman questions about sex to see how far he can go on the first date is sneaky you clueless nutcase. Asking about sex when you first talk to a person without even meeting them in person is a red flag. And indicates all he wants is sex! You're on here calling me names yet you are a moron or you just have no morals.
oh wow that’s an interesting take. sounds tragically poetic. i think out of what other people have said this is the most optimistic so i really hope this is the case :))
Why would you stay with someone who does not trust you to be faithful? He makes it sound like the paternity test is completed separate from the fact that he doesn't trust you not to cheat. Taking offense with it is exactly what you should be doing. What do you have if there is no trust?
Based on your comments, it also sounds like he completely invalidates your feelings and is emotionally abusive.
For me it’s teamwork. If you help me, how can I help you. Why would I have the mindset and perspective to make your specific task harder if it also benefits me? If he is INTENTIONALLY making it harder for you. And also not willing to even try. He should do the task himself, if it’s so important for him to do so.
yep there are four ways sleeping with someone else could go.
he's the problem and tells her, she blames everything on him and takes 0 responsibility he's the problem and tells her, she refuses to do any work to fix it she's the problem and he tells her so, she blames him for making her feel that way she's the problem and he tells her so, she accuses him of pushing all of the blame onto her
Omg. Your poor family….Please, I implore you, keep posting and responding on Reddit bc this is fucking hilarious. You are an absolute lunatic and the ultimate living example of “fucked around and found out” lmfao.
Congrats, your bullshit shit is 10x more entertaining than anything on netflix
I'll second the Caribbean Beach Resort, it's lovely! I stayed there before the Skyliner, but it was nicer than staying at Pop Century but not as pricey as the Riviera resort
She is doing this on purpose knowing it will antagonize you. When it finally does antagonize you, your being upset will be taken as an example of your bad behavior.
I'd run. Your wife is definitely at fault. And to do this during a vacation? It was planned.
Call the police, what the fuck…
You don't. She's shown you who she is and it's not pretty. She sees you as a meal ticket. Don't sleep with her unless you want to be on the hook for 18 years. Dump her and get someone who sees you as more than a paycheck and who wants to contribute to your life. The threat she made should be enough on its own. Quitting her job when you wanted her to contribute should be enough alone. Thus girl is a walking red flag.
Knowingly doing it, yeah, it's bad.
Doing it and then finding out, IMO that's more ambiguous and it's a personal choice whether you tell the partner or not.
Ohh boo hoo, I have everything and more just not any karma on Reddit :(((
I have not, it is something I had thought of previously though. This may be the push I need.
You're the one being childish. She doesn't owe you her attention. Move the fuck on.
Iirc it's safer to wait till baby is born.
I’m not on her phone , we’re friends on Snapchat so I see her story there
yeah, thats how Im leaning honestly, I was gonna call her to break it off today, but I just wanted to be sure im not being an asshole and cutting things off too quickly, but you're right 4 months and not knowing how you feel is bit much for me and almost feels disrespectful of my time.
Thanks for the input, much appreciated!
So, who was at the conference that you'd been planning on fucking for a while?
Your boyfriend is in an emotionally abusive relationship with his parents and needs help asap.
You don’t put condoms on your fingers and if he isn’t washing his genitals with soap, I highly doubt he is washing his hands either.
So sleep first – tough shit for you, you have no right to do anything about his sleeping schedule.
Hygiene – dump him. I would not have continued with the relationship after meeting for the first time if as you say he hadn’t showered.
Just tell her. If she’s not into it she’s not into it though. Don’t go trying to justify the age gap to her. For some people that’s perfectly normal for others not so much…
Thank you that's really helpful!
its about the feeling of being emasculated (is that how is written?)…cheating is hurtfull but when is with your same sex, make you feel you were not enought and in the mens basic/logical mind (im a men myself) we felt like he had something we dont and you wanted always but if its a girl a few things change
not only the “fantasy” of the treesome or girl-girl experience,
the knowing that we can not give that to you
the man chased you before for a period of time prior so the partner let that slide while with a woman, it can be just an emotional instant thing….and few more like that
Asking a woman questions about sex to see how far he can go on the first date is sneaky you clueless nutcase. Asking about sex when you first talk to a person without even meeting them in person is a red flag. And indicates all he wants is sex! You're on here calling me names yet you are a moron or you just have no morals.
oh wow that’s an interesting take. sounds tragically poetic. i think out of what other people have said this is the most optimistic so i really hope this is the case :))
Unable to tell if my (F18) boyfriend (M28) is serious about me when his actions and words aren’t lining up
Lord, I'm so tired of reading these toxic ass age gap posts.
Yall are so hard headed. Yes, some people know what they're talking about when they warn yall against this shit.
Older adults know what we're talking about.
But yall don't want to listen.
You seem to be handling your girl getting gangbanged behind your back pretty well.
Why would you stay with someone who does not trust you to be faithful? He makes it sound like the paternity test is completed separate from the fact that he doesn't trust you not to cheat. Taking offense with it is exactly what you should be doing. What do you have if there is no trust?
Based on your comments, it also sounds like he completely invalidates your feelings and is emotionally abusive.
For me it’s teamwork. If you help me, how can I help you. Why would I have the mindset and perspective to make your specific task harder if it also benefits me? If he is INTENTIONALLY making it harder for you. And also not willing to even try. He should do the task himself, if it’s so important for him to do so.
yep there are four ways sleeping with someone else could go.
he's the problem and tells her, she blames everything on him and takes 0 responsibility he's the problem and tells her, she refuses to do any work to fix it she's the problem and he tells her so, she blames him for making her feel that way she's the problem and he tells her so, she accuses him of pushing all of the blame onto her
Omg. Your poor family….Please, I implore you, keep posting and responding on Reddit bc this is fucking hilarious. You are an absolute lunatic and the ultimate living example of “fucked around and found out” lmfao.
Congrats, your bullshit shit is 10x more entertaining than anything on netflix
Ignore her, consider blocking her, and move on
I'll second the Caribbean Beach Resort, it's lovely! I stayed there before the Skyliner, but it was nicer than staying at Pop Century but not as pricey as the Riviera resort
She is doing this on purpose knowing it will antagonize you. When it finally does antagonize you, your being upset will be taken as an example of your bad behavior.
I'd run. Your wife is definitely at fault. And to do this during a vacation? It was planned.
Understood
Big mood ?