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Destroy it after the divorce – burn it (I’m pagan-so I’d call it a cleansing)
We can't all be Emily Pankhurst.
Okay but the reality is this scenario doesn't apply to most that 'don't care' about politics because the people affected by those things absolutely do care about politics whether they have the energy to engage with it or not.
OP, when someone tells you who they are it's best to believe them. You can forgive yourself for maybe the first two years of this since most people don't have their wits about them until they're about the age you are now. When someone wrongs you and they suffer no consequences they will wrong you again, and usually they'll raise the stakes because you've taught them that they can get away with it. But it's no mistake that he's moved you away from your emotional support system and not helped you learn to be independent. This is called coercive control and it's absolutely to make you so dependent that you feel you can't leave him. You're also probably falling prey to compensatory malleability (allowing yourself to be misused because you feel you couldn't get anyone who'd treat you right) and this is sadly common in people with mental illness and other “disabilities”. He could obviously use some help, but you can't make him get it and there's no guarantee that any amount of medical intervention would turn him into a decent person. This cycle of love bombing then turning the screws over and over again is just classic emotional abuse. Find any way you can to get out of there. A family that abused you as a kid may not be a dead end in terms of a place to land (because they're not likely to do the same now that you're a grown adult). But if that's not an option reach out to friends, even if they're far away and you have to take a bus to get there. Absent any of that find a shelter. But leaving someone like this guy isn't just a matter of physically removing yourself. You're going to have to grow the courage to tell him no when he hunts you down and starts his charm offensive. Make it work in any way you can manage. But do know that he's not going to change. This is a personality defect on his part, not something a year in therapy will fix. Good luck